How did you survive the miscarriage?

How did the mother who stopped giving birth get through it?

For expectant mothers, knowing that they are pregnant, although still very ignorant, is also very much looking forward to. When the fetus stops, it is undoubtedly a big blow.

My cousin is a person who has special plans for life. I decided to have children after five years of marriage because I wanted to have a child belonging to a pig. The pregnancy went well, but there was still no fetal heart after two months, so I had to abort. My cousin didn't talk to anyone for two months, and we were really worried. Later, my cousin took two weeks off and took her to travel abroad, and my cousin came out of the shadows.

What is "abortion"

The phenomenon that an embryo dies at a certain stage of development and stops further development is called "embryo abortion".

Generally divided into these situations:

1, empty gestational sac

Refers to the abnormal development of fertilized eggs after implantation, and they stop developing before forming embryos. B-ultrasound: Abnormal pregnancy with only gestational sac and no reproductive tissue in the uterine cavity. Sometimes B-ultrasound will describe that only the dark area of liquid is seen, and yolk sac and germ are not found in it.

2, there are germs without fetal heart

B-ultrasound showed that the embryo could be seen in the gestational sac, but there was no fetal heart beat.

3. Abortion after fetal heart disease

It means that the gestational sac can be dynamically monitored by B-ultrasound. First, the fetal heart beat of the embryo is detected, and then the fetal heart beat is not detected by B-ultrasound for a while, only the gestational sac withers.

In fact, in most cases, more than 60% of embryos are aborted because of the poor quality of the embryos themselves. After a certain degree of development, the embryo can no longer develop, which is a process of survival of the fittest.

Such as chromosome abnormality, luteal insufficiency, thyroid dysfunction and hyperprolactinemia. , as well as infection factors, uterine abnormalities, immune factors, etc. Generally, through the corresponding examination, we can find out the cause of fetal suspension, so as to deal with the symptoms and prepare for another pregnancy.

When there was an abortion, I felt very painful and uncomfortable at that time. Looking back, this is not necessarily a bad thing. After all, the fetus is unhealthy, even if it grows up, there will be problems.

Mothers should not be immersed in the pain of loss, just take care of themselves and the baby will come again next time.

Speaking of which, it's a little serious. At the end of July this year, I decided not to have another child. I am 33 years old and have been married for five years. I am fat and have many cysts, which leads to ovulation disorder. After drinking Chinese medicine, I insist on checking every year. The fallopian tubes were unobstructed in June+10 this year. Finally I decided, sir. After three unsuccessful attempts, I changed the test tube and confirmed my pregnancy after the second child. Our whole family is very happy because we are going to have children for many years. But after a month or so, the doubling of hcg began to be unsatisfactory, and the doctor told me that there was a possibility of abortion. I asked for an abortion, and then I started taking injections and taking medicine. My husband said to give the children a chance to adjust our mood, so he took me to road trip. My family is really worried, but they all support us. I was ready to have an abortion at any time during the trip, but there was no response at all. After my husband and I came back, we had a check-up with the last hope. The doctor said that the abortion stopped, and because the operation was not performed as soon as possible, many anti-abortion drugs were used, which led to fetal adhesion. No more surgery in the clinic. I had to transfer to the inpatient department for surgery, and I could have cleared the palace directly. However, in order to recover faster and do less harm to my body, I chose drug abortion first, and then Qing palace. This combination does the least harm to my uterus. Ever since I was admitted to the hospital, I have been giggling. I suffered a little physical suffering, but my heart was ok. Fortunately, everything went well, and a lot of medicine flowed out. You just need to clean up the residue. I have recovered for 4 months now. I had another operation on Monday. I don't know if it will succeed. I always feel that no matter what the result is, I have to face and accept it, adjust myself, and don't blindly think about why I am so unlucky. This is the most useless. If you face it with a good attitude, you will get twice the result with half the effort. I may be different from others. Everyone is naturally pregnant and then miscarried. Before I gave birth to the baby, I had taken countless injections and pills. Face it with a smile. Anyway, at least everyone has a chance to be a mother. Fate has come, which is good.

Make persistent efforts, dry your tears and start again. My penis stopped three times, namely 1 1 week, 12 weeks, 1 1 week. After the embryo has a fetal heart, they all stop giving birth. I didn't know what tears were at that time, and my spirit was not good. I have been thinking, even when I see a pregnant woman, why I am not her abnormal psychology. . . It was also checked before the third abortion, saying that the anti-nuclear antibody 1: 100 was negative. I took aspirin, hydroxychloroquine sulfate, methylprednisolone and dehydroprogesterone. I thought I would be fine, but 1 1 week I stopped again, but I didn't give up. I wanted to wait for a miracle, but I waited for a fever and bleeding. . . Because of taking hormone drugs for a long time, the body has symptoms such as dislocated waist and leg cramps. My mother won't let me take hormone drugs. Later, I went to Chinese medicine to recuperate, saying that it was luteal insufficiency and endometritis, and then I took medicine. I thought I would never have Bauer again, but I didn't give up. After I found out I was pregnant, I used both Chinese and western medicine. I didn't use hormone drugs for 38 weeks, 6 weeks and 39 weeks, and now Bauer has given birth for 7 weeks. . . Don't give up, don't be afraid to try again, there will always be a way.

0 1 abortion. How did you get through it?

Seeing this question reminds me of a friend of mine. Her name is Xiaolan. I wonder why it is so difficult to get pregnant when I see her. When Xiaolan was pregnant, the embryo had no fetal heart failure; When pregnant with a second child, the fetal heart of the embryo was born at 10 weeks, but the fetus still stopped. Then he used drugs to protect the fetus and survived. Pregnancy 13 weeks, fetal arrest was found again, and finally failed to protect the fetus. In those days, Xiaolan was really in Lacrimosa all day, and her relatives and friends kept comforting her, so she got up the courage and chose to have a third child. During the period, I have been taking Chinese medicine to recuperate, and finally I was pregnant with the third child. The third child also took a lot of anti-abortion drugs during pregnancy, and finally successfully gave birth to a healthy baby.

Abortion really troubled many women, even Xiaolan, who was pregnant three times, and the first two pregnancies were terminated because of abortion. It's really hard to imagine her inner feelings at that time, but face it bravely anyway and choose to fight again next time. Of course, it is also necessary for us to find out the causes of abortion, and then actively take preventive measures to avoid it as much as possible, so as to effectively reduce the incidence of abortion.

Causes of fetal abortion

Abortion is a special spontaneous abortion in which the early embryo or fetus stops developing for other reasons and stays in the uterine cavity without being excreted. Fetal abortion is mainly diagnosed by B-ultrasound, mainly manifested as empty gestational sac, shriveled cyst, fetal heart rate without embryo, fetal heart rate without embryo and so on.

At present, research has confirmed that there are many reasons for abortion, mainly in the following aspects:

Infection factors

Scholar Wang has done some research and statistics, and the statistical results show that the proportion of abortion due to infection is 29.05438 0%. The common sources of infection are ROTCH, mycoplasma, chlamydia and bacteria. Take ROTCH infection as an example. After the pregnant woman is infected with ROTCH, it will be transmitted to the fetus through blood, causing embryo or fetus infection, making the embryo or fetus develop abnormally, and then causing fetal abortion.

hereditary factor

According to scholar Wang's statistics, the incidence of abortion due to genetic factors is 23.3 1%, and the incidence of abortion due to chromosome abnormality is about 4.8%- 10.8%. Genetic factors come from both male and female genes, such as abnormal chromosome number and abnormal chromosome structure, which may lead to fetal arrest, but the current research confirms that chromosome abnormalities mostly occur in women. The main reason is that if abnormal sperm will be rejected, that is, after the selection of survival of the fittest, the sperm left behind are generally of high quality, and there is only 1 egg, so there is no choice, which makes the probability of abnormal eggs higher.

environmental factor

According to scholar Wang's research data, the proportion of abortion caused by environmental factors is 17.40%. Environmental factors mainly include ionizing radiation, chemical pollutants, air pollution, noise pollution and toxic substances in life. Embryonic stage is an important period of organ differentiation, formation and development, which is easily stimulated by external environment, leading to fetal suspension or fetal malformation.

Taking ionizing radiation as an example, if pregnant women are exposed to high-intensity ionizing radiation for a long time in the first trimester, it will lead to changes in cell function and morphology, which will further affect the synthesis of RNA, DNA and protein, as well as the differentiation and proliferation of cells, thus leading to the occurrence of fetal suspension.

Endocrine factors

According to the statistics of scholar Wang, the proportion of abortion caused by endocrine factors is 12.75%. As we all know, the endocrine system of pregnant women will undergo fundamental changes after pregnancy, and the hormone level will undergo tremendous changes. This change is to provide a good endocrine environment for the development of embryos and fetuses.

Existing studies have confirmed that if pregnant women have luteal insufficiency, polycystic ovary syndrome, hyperprolactinemia and so on. They can all cause fetal suspension. For example, luteal insufficiency leads to insufficient progesterone secretion, which is not conducive to the implantation of fertilized eggs. Even if implantation is successful, it is not conducive to embryo development and may lead to fetal suspension.

Uterine reproductive tract factor

When pregnant women have diseases or abnormalities in the uterine reproductive tract, it may lead to fetal arrest, accounting for 10.30%. Among them, uterine malformation is the main one. When pregnant women have uterine malformation, it will lead to insufficient blood supply to the uterus, abnormal endometrial development or uterine cavity stenosis, further limiting the growth of embryos and even causing abortion. In addition, endometriosis, uterine fibroids and so on. It may also cause decreased blood supply to endometrium, unsynchronized decidualization, abnormal implantation, and may also cause abortion.

In addition, studies have confirmed that abortion is also related to the immune system and male sperm. For example, the poor quality of male sperm or the increase of sperm-hyaluronic acid unbound rate are also important reasons for abortion.

How to prevent fetal arrest?

Through the above analysis of the causes of abortion, it is found that genetic factors may not be circumvented, but some factors can be circumvented by corresponding measures.

Pre-pregnancy medical examination/physical examination

Pre-pregnancy examination is to determine whether the body of both men and women is suitable for pregnancy, that is, to check whether there is a family history of diseases and genetic diseases. Through pre-pregnancy examination, we can diagnose whether there is infection, whether the endocrine system is normal, whether there is abnormality or disease in the uterine reproductive tract, and family hereditary diseases. Through pre-pregnancy examination, if infection, disease and other problems are found, actively treat them, and then prepare for pregnancy after treatment and rehabilitation, so as to reduce the occurrence of fetal arrest.

Active pregnancy preparation

From the above analysis, it can be seen that chromosome abnormality is an important cause of fetal arrest. To prevent the occurrence of abortion caused by this factor, it is necessary to improve the quality of sperm and eggs as much as possible. In addition, through the adjustment of pregnancy preparation, it can also ensure the normal operation of endocrine system, help maintain the stability of progesterone level, and also reduce the incidence of fetal arrest. Therefore, we must actively prepare for pregnancy before pregnancy.

During pregnancy, we should maintain a good life schedule and ensure adequate sleep. Both men and women should quit smoking and drinking, and eat less irritating foods such as cold and spicy food. In addition, two men should also supplement folic acid every day.

Stay away from radiation and pollution

Stay away from radiation. In fact, many pregnant women attach great importance to it, and they will also buy radiation protection suits, which have a certain effect on preventing ionizing radiation. However, air pollution and noise pollution have not been taken seriously. Of course, sometimes there is nothing you can do about these two kinds of pollution. For example, air pollution can be turned on indoors, but there is no way to deal with it outdoors. In addition, chemical pollutants are rarely exposed, but there may be drug abuse. In fact, it is also a chemical pollution to the fetus. You must follow the doctor's advice when taking medicine during pregnancy, and some diseases can't be avoided. You can infect the fetus without taking medicine. At the same time, we should pay special attention to food. At present, many foods are polluted by pesticides, and many foods still have problems such as excessive chemical substances.

Newly renovated houses also have air pollution, and newly renovated houses must pass air quality tests before they can move in.

In short, no one wants to have an abortion, so I hope I can face it bravely. At the same time, there are many reasons for abortion, including infection, heredity, environment, endocrine, uterine reproductive tract and other factors. In view of the causes of fetal arrest, in order to prevent the occurrence of fetal arrest, we must strengthen pre-pregnancy examination, actively prepare for pregnancy, and stay away from radiation and pollution.

After surviving, she experienced a biochemical and spontaneous abortion. I thought I would never be a mother again. After sitting for a month, I want to be happy every day, go out to play, go to the gym to exercise and practice yoga to distract my attention. My husband has paid a lot to adjust my mood. A few months later, I still feel sad, and I cry when I think about it, longing for the complicated mood of my child's loss. I didn't know it was hard until I experienced it, and I tried to adjust my mood. Actively check, recuperate and relax. After more than a year, I was pregnant again, and began to have fetal instability and threatened abortion. I took progesterone injections for three months every day. The sadness and hardship during this period are no longer important. I gave birth to a healthy and lovely son in February this year, and I feel completely transformed. . If it doesn't work out, please believe that there are other arrangements.

I was sad at first, but later I thought it was survival of the fittest. If I was born with defects, neither children nor adults would live a stable life. The first child stopped for more than two months and became pregnant seven months later. Now my daughter is over two years old. Look on the bright side, everything will pass, and I believe you can be a mother soon.

I really survived on my own. Husband is busy with work and has no time to care about himself. Although he rested at home for a month, he could not repair his inner pain in a short time. He suffers from insomnia every day, Lacrimosa. When he is sleepy, he can vaguely see the morning, but he still wakes up at seven or eight o'clock. Every day, he is like a walking corpse, eating tasteless, sleeping dreamlessly, expressionless, and not interested in anything ... He feels that living is meaningless, and sometimes he just wants to end himself ... it's really three months, and suddenly he feels that he can't go on like this. I forced myself to go out for running and exercise, not for myself but also for my parents, so I stopped thinking about it.

1 1 week +6 days of spontaneous abortion. I cried. At 9 weeks, the child was still fine when doing B-ultrasound, and she resolutely refused to go to work when she was pregnant again. My morning sickness is particularly serious. I felt very tired one week before abortion, and I haven't eaten anything fishy since the fifth week. I feel sorry for my child [tears].

I am 32 years old. Married for more than three years. I've been using contraception before. After this year, I began to prepare for pregnancy. Fortunately, I collapsed in three months (the first child), but my pregnancy stopped when I was nine weeks pregnant. Actually, I'm fine. It's just an idea. I want to take good care of my body and keep it healthy. Tell yourself when you start to feel depressed. The survival of the fittest may not be a bad thing at this time, but it is better than getting old or having problems after birth. So take good care of yourself, exercise well and keep working hard. I went to the physical examination last week and plan to continue after the Chinese New Year. I used to be urged to have a baby, but I always said there was no hurry. I failed this time, and I regret it a little, because I didn't know there would be such a thing as abortion before, and I didn't expect it to happen to me. The new year is coming. I wish I was pregnant.

20 13 in may, I once gave up having children. Although I have a son over four years old now, I can't stop crying when I think about that time. Because of abortion, I am in poor health now. Now my child has taken a lot of traditional Chinese medicine, and later experienced threatened abortion to protect the fetus. All the sadness can only be understood by yourself, or thank you for everything in the past. After the darkness, the light will always wait ahead.