Girls can take the initiative to chase boys, but you obviously go too far, so boys will only be scared away and won't treat you as a treasure.
1, boys like the feeling of girls being chased, a sense of victory, vanity and possessiveness. He will be a treasure for girls who have been admitted through their own continuous efforts, because it is too difficult for you to send them directly to your door for nothing, and boys will wonder if you have any problems before taking the initiative.
It is ok for girls to chase boys, but you should have methods and skills. At first glance, you are quite dry. It is not wrong for you to be frank, act and express yourself directly, but it will have a bad influence just like doing bad things with good intentions.
3, in front of boys, pretend to be reserved. Let the boys take the initiative. If you are too enthusiastic, the boys will think more. Keep a little distance at the beginning of the relationship between men and women, and he hasn't recognized you in his heart. What's the use of chasing him every day? It will only backfire and make him bother you.
4. Girls can take the initiative to win by skill, and don't express it directly, otherwise it will only make boys bored. For example, make friends with boys' friends and classmates, so that you have a greater chance to appear in front of him (unlike looking for him directly); And they say good things about you in front of the boy and praise you in front of him.
5. When you are weak, show your weakness; When you are strong, show your femininity, so that you are an attractive girl. Boys especially like to protect delicate girls, and their desire for protection and competition is very strong in the process of chasing girls.
6. Improve yourself. Externally, internally, the better you are, the more attractive you are to him, even to other boys. It is best to have a competitor, so that you can gain more value in his heart first. If someone competes with him, he will be more interested in you. Boys are like this.
7. If you don't fetch water and wash clothes for him every day, he will like you no matter how nice you are to him. Don't be his servant, be his lover. You should mobilize him psychologically and let him take the initiative to chase you.
What if a girl catches up with a boy and is rejected? 1. Don't continue to disturb his life. Be reserved, and then take this opportunity to try to be beautiful, beautiful, beautiful, such as going to the gym, showing off your figure, and taking a beautiful photo on a trip.
2, adjust the mentality, turn grief into motivation, don't be rejected, pull a bad face and start the shielding mode from now on, let alone continue to confess. The best way is to be generous, try to be his friend, observe his habits and hobbies, and show his strengths and advantages in a targeted manner. If he likes you, he will tell you. If he still doesn't have feelings for you, just be friends.
3, let nature take its course and be rejected by the other party, without any psychological burden. Since you can't change each other, you can only recognize yourself by confession, which is also a life experience. Just let nature take its course.
4. Don't feel humble and rejected. Not that you're not good. Maybe the other person didn't find your charm, or maybe it was really inappropriate. Don't care too much about what others think. After all, love is a matter for two people. It's too bitter. No good.
Chasing boys like this can improve the success rate. Eyes are the windows of the soul, which can help you convey your inner feelings. It is undeniable that to understand a person, we must first observe his eyes. Probably many people will remember Xia Zixian's gentleness in a Chinese Odyssey, and the Supreme Treasure was at a loss. Eye contact can make people feel faster.
People who have listened for so many years will experience many things, and some things need to be heard. Authoritative psychologists in famous universities have confirmed that if you can listen carefully to the story of the person you are pursuing, he will have a great chance to have a good impression on you and fall in love with you.
Men really don't know how to express their emotions like women, so when they try to express their feelings, they find that they can still be quietly listened to by one person. This kind of feeling is simply wonderful, which will create an attachment in their hearts and easily lead to feelings.
3, thank you, although sometimes you are too polite and a stranger, but the truly stable and long-lasting feelings are not far away, not close, not close, nor sparse. Some psychologists have said that 48% of couples or lovers will complain that the other party doesn't appreciate what they are doing. Because I don't thank you in time, I can't feel the sweetness in my heart, or let the other party feel that even if I try hard, it's no different from usual. Why bother?
4. Smiling is a good way to solve many embarrassing, cold and discordant situations. At the same time, smiling can narrow the distance between people, narrow the distance between us and make us look more attractive.
5. Contact Yes, I'm talking about physical contact here. Physical contact can make people feel intimate, but if there is no definite relationship, you can't contact each other too obviously and directly, otherwise you will only feel disgusted. So be careful when necessary.
6. In the movie "The Best Life of a Spoiled Woman" played by Zhou Xun, the scene where sisters let the heroine throw oranges is unforgettable. Women coquetry can make men feel pity and distressed.
7. Key Talents This key talent is the talent that the other party is proficient in without you. On the right occasion, as long as you show it, it will impress the other party and improve your status.
8. Share some private things about yourself, which shows that you have become acquaintances, and the other person will feel familiar with you because of your trust in him. Slowly under your leadership, he will also take your words and reveal some of his little secrets. You two are going to each other, and it's just around the corner that you two have feelings!