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Every woman wants to be loved. If the person she loves can love herself more, it is destined to be a happy love. Now is an era of eating by face. Many people think that men like beautiful women with good figure, so they try their best to be beautiful.
However, everyone will get old one day, and those who are attracted by face value will eventually abandon you because your face is gone. It is observed that women who can make men love their bones are not peerless beauties, and some even look ordinary.
Maybe you don't know, it is such a woman that men really love in their bones.
A reasonable woman
When two people are in love, the man often shows great tolerance and can tolerate his girlfriend's willfulness and nonsense, but this may not be the case after real marriage. So I often hear girls complain that he was not like this before, and everything has changed since he got married.
In fact, it can't be said that the man in front of me has changed, just because marriage and love are different. After marriage, we all face real life. Men prefer considerate and reasonable women.
Xu Tao is 36 years old. He and his wife have been married for nearly 65,438+00 years. Although it will be noisy, the relationship has always been good. The triviality of life did not make him tired of marriage.
Whenever he mentions his wife, he always proudly says, "The best thing I have done in my life is to find this wife."
In his memory, no matter how hard and helpless he was outside, there was always a table of food prepared by his wife when he got home. When he failed, his wife never laughed at him, but always comforted and supported him. In Xu Tao's view, being tired outside is nothing, just because there is a warm harbor that never leaves.
Imagine, who doesn't love such a woman? In marriage, understanding and tolerance are more important than a beautiful face and elegant posture.
A woman who agrees with his three views
My friend Xiao Tao often complains to me about his girlfriend because of bad feelings, but they have been together for almost five years. But in recent years, the two people have always quarreled over various things, and they have been on and off dozens of times.
Besides, they all quarrel for strange reasons. Xiao Tao likes reading books and her girlfriend likes watching plays. When resting, Xiao Tao always likes to take his girlfriend to climb mountains and hike, while his girlfriend likes shopping and watching movies. So who to listen to has become the focus of contradiction.
Xiao Tao thinks what he is doing is very meaningful, but his girlfriend always thinks that Xiao Tao has no mood and doesn't understand romance. Xiao Tao often says helplessly, "It's too important to find a person with the same three views."
In fact, the post-80s and post-90s now regard "three views consistent" as the most important criterion when choosing the other half, and more and more people realize the importance of "three views consistent".
If you want your husband or boyfriend to be dead set on you, you should choose someone with similar views from the beginning, otherwise he will meet a woman on the same channel with him later, and the probability of cheating is very high.
A woman who knows self-discipline
It is said that a woman's life before the age of 30 is given by her parents, and her life after 30 is her own. But many women get lazy as soon as they get married. They are too lazy to tidy themselves up, let alone improve themselves.
They usually have this idea. Anyway, they are married, and they can't take care of trivial matters at home. How should they dress themselves up and improve themselves? Women who have this idea are often not too happy.
Colleague Xiao Xiao is 35 years old. In the eyes of others, women of this age may have entered the ranks of middle-aged women, but Xiaoxiao has turned herself into a girl.
After work, she never goes straight home, but runs to the gym. After going home for dinner, she insisted on reading before going to bed, which seems to be a simple way of life. She has been steadfast for many years. This is not just a personal habit, but a kind of self-discipline and a pursuit of a better life.
Someone on the internet asked, what do you think is the best living condition? The most popular comment is "self-discipline". Self-disciplined people exude charming temperament. What man doesn't like such a woman?
So, don't always complain about your surroundings. If women want men to love their bones, they must have requirements for themselves and maintain a self-disciplined temperament.
In fact, men really love not only beautiful women, but these kinds: reasonable women, women who agree with his three views, and women who know how to be self-disciplined
A relationship is easy to start, because the face value, because the feeling, can be together. But if you want men to be dead set on you for a long time, you must remember the above points. If you can do it, why worry about men changing their minds?
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Author: Snow falls without dust, writer, member of Xinjiang Writers Association. I want to talk to you about love. I am willing to listen to your heart. You can trust me privately if you have any emotional problems ~