Everything started with the opening of WeChat in the wrong place.
That day, I used Gala's computer to introduce myself to my daughter.
I didn't expect him to log in online on WeChat, and I also received a message, which I accidentally clicked.
After ten years of marriage, I have never checked Gala's mobile phone, not only because of trust, but also because husband and wife should give each other space.
After all, no woman can walk out of her husband's cell phone alive, right?
I accidentally clicked on this message. This is a woman's head.
She said, I'm back. Do you have time to meet?
Because it is a computer version of WeChat, I can't see the previous chat records, but such a sentence without head or tail still makes me suspicious.
It's not Gala's ex-girlfriend, is it?
When the word "ex-girlfriend" jumped out of my mind, I suddenly felt cold all over.
To say qǐ, Gala and I got married thanks to his girlfriend Qian.
Time is back to Christmas 20 1 1.
Gala's ex-girlfriend broke up with him and went to study in Canada.
On that day, I lost my mother
My mother died in the hospital, small cell lung cancer, only a few months from the discovery of her illness to her death.
After the diagnosis, my mother has been worried about my lifelong events, even lying in the hospital bed, begging péng friends to introduce me to someone.
However, after those blind dates learned about my family, they all lost the following.
My family is in a special situation.
As long as I can remember, there have been disasters at home.
First, my uncle driving a truck was stopped and killed, and then my father was killed in a car accident.
Two sons had accidents one after another, and grandpa was hit hard and became silent. Finally, his cerebellum shrank and Tuo died.
My family lives in the textile workers' compound, and the factory is a small society. Who has what matter, minutes spread to every corner.
Everyone in the factory is talking about my family, saying that our family is cursed.
After that, everyone didn't want anything to do with my family for fear of bad luck.
And I have lived in strange eyes since I was a child. I am shy, quiet and have no intimate friends. In today's words, it is social phobia.
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After my mother died, I was in a mess.
Although I go to work normally every day, it is no exaggeration to describe it as a walking corpse.
Aunt Xiong, my mother's good friend, was very distressed and asked people to introduce her everywhere.
At this time, the Spring Festival Gala appeared.
Gala's mother and Aunt Bear are colleagues. When they were together, Aunt Xiong told me about me.
Gala, a kind mother, offered to meet her and said that even if she didn't succeed, she could become a goddaughter.
Gallas has just returned to Xi and has no objection to blind date.
In this way, we met.
We were supposed to meet in a western restaurant, but it suddenly snowed when we went out that day. After the meeting, Gala saw that I didn't seem interested in western food, so she suggested eating hot pot.
He said: "Eating hot pot in this weather is more emotional."
Coincidentally, I really wanted to eat hot pot that day, but I was too embarrassed to say it.
Growing up, I was the kind of person who didn't know how to fight for myself. I can tell at a glance about Gala.
Galla is five years older than me. He studied in Beijing and worked in Beijing for several years. I went back to Xi 'an because I broke up with my first girlfriend and my parents were old and worried.
Speaking of the reasons for breaking up, he made no secret: "In the face of love and reality, she chose the latter, and I respect her choice."
Good impression of Gala. He is an enlightened gentleman.
He didn't hide anything from his ex-girlfriend, and even as an abandoned party, he didn't swear.
Moreover, he is still excellent, and he joined a well-known state-owned enterprise on the third day after returning to Xi 'an.
In this way, he should not be as ordinary as dust as I am.
At this thought, I lost the pressure and began to speak.
That was the day I talked the most after my mother died.
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So, I was surprised when Gallas said that she wanted to continue dating me.
He said, "Wen Li, I have a good impression on you. We can try to be together. Of course, if you mind my last relationship, we can start with friends. "
When he said this, a snowflake fell right on my eyelashes.
Something seems to have sprouted in my heart.
Looking at his bright eyes, I nodded heavily.
For a while, I thought he was a gift from my mother in heaven.
Otherwise, how could such an excellent man have a crush on such an ordinary me?
I remember that day, I asked him nervously, "Why do you want to be with me? Will you compare me with your ex-girlfriend? "
He said, "Wen Li, I am an adult. You know what you want? I think you are very good, that's enough. "
After falling in love with Gala, he took me to parties of friends and classmates, restaurants and bookstores that I had never been to.
Accompanied by him, I gradually got over the sadness of my mother's death.
I was working in the office of a foreign-funded enterprise. The manager is a workaholic and always gives me extra work after work.
So, every time I go out with Gala, I always get it.
Once, he waited for me at the pizza place downstairs for hours, but the manager wouldn't let me get off work, and I didn't dare to resist.
I have been apologizing to Gala since I saw him.
Instead, he comforted me: "It doesn't matter. At this time, I can just read and think about things. You don't have to care too much. "
It happened many times later, so he suggested that I change my job. Not because he was tired of waiting, but because he felt that the boss's oppression was unfair to me.
He said, "Wen Li, you are an excellent girl. You should learn to refuse the boss's excessive demands. "
Frankly speaking, the environment I grew up in made me timid and never dared to fight for anything for myself.
But Gallas' words gave me courage.
Four months after my mother died, I decided to take the civil service exam.
Gallas agreed very much. He helped me review, make up lessons, find information and teach me his learning methods.
Unfortunately, I didn't fight back. He reassured me that it was all right. He also said that civil servants might not be suitable for me.
Encouraged by Gala, I finally jumped into a joint venture, from the original back office to logistics management, and finally became a supply chain manager.
Of course, these are all stories.
What I want to express is that my life is different because of Gala.
I began to be full of hope for life and learned how to fight for myself. These are things I never dared to think about before.
After seven months of love, we got a marriage certificate.
I changed from a helpless orphan girl to Mrs. Zhang.
At the wedding, the master of ceremonies asked Gallas to make a speech. He said, "I hope Wen Li and I can live such a dull life."
At the wedding, the most I said to Gallas was thank you.
Thank him for giving me another home.
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After we got married, we lived with our in-laws.
Speaking of it, my mother-in-law is kind-hearted and always loves me as her own daughter. There has never been any contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law
Gala is also the legendary husband who cares about his family and hurts his wife.
To say sorry, it may be that we have been married for three years and have never had children.
In-laws have children, and Mr. Zhang Yao always says let nature take its course.
In fact, before getting married, Gallas said that she would not have children for the time being until her career was stable.
So, I've been very cooperative.
But this kind of thing is afraid of accidents.
In the year when she was pregnant with her daughter, Gallas was promoted to assistant to the president of the group.
Besides, I just got a new job and travel a lot, so I'm too busy to think about whether I'm pregnant or not.
At that time, I didn't menstruate for two months and gained a lot of weight. I thought it was obesity caused by endocrine disorders.
I even started running and skipping rope. Once I jumped off the rope and my stomach hurt badly, so I thought about it.
A test, it was pregnant.
I hesitated for a whole week before telling Gallas about the pregnancy.
One is surprise, and the other is that I am still here after all this, which shows that this is my destiny and I want to stay.
But I know very well that Gala is not ready to be a father, not to mention that he is going abroad for a month on business.
Sure enough, his first reaction was that the child could not stay.
The reason is also very good: "I am going abroad soon, and I don't trust to leave you alone." What's more, we're not ready to get pregnant, and you've been exercising vigorously. What should I do if my child is unhealthy? "
I don't make any noise, just use silence to show my attitude.
He sighed and said, "Then go to the hospital for a check-up tomorrow and see what the doctor says."
The next day, we went to the hospital and the results were very good. The doctor said it should be nothing serious.
Nevertheless, Gallas insisted on not doing it. He said, "Everything should be planned. You can't have it just because you have it. You have to be prepared. "
But I am more and more reluctant, and none of us can convince anyone.
This is the first time we have quarreled since we got married. What I thought at that time was that I would keep the children even if I got divorced.
Perhaps my attitude surprised Gallas.
The day before going abroad, he suddenly said to me, "If you really want this child, stay!"
Looking at him, I cried.
Although I am a timid person, I have contradictions with people around me, but I am really stubborn when I meet anything.
In hindsight, it was the first and only time I showed my tough side in front of Gala.
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At that time, I thought that Gala did not welcome the arrival of this little life.
But I didn't expect that when he came back from a business trip, his suitcase was full of nutrients for me.
Although he didn't say anything, I was relieved at that moment.
Later, in the third trimester, in order to take care of me conveniently, he rented three bedrooms and one living room near the unit, and even went to the Yuezi Center without telling me, and invited the new moon.
He told me silently with his actions that J and J and jīng were ready for the arrival of their children.
After his daughter was born, he was happier than anyone else, scrambling to feed her milk powder and change her diapers.
From insisting on not having children to becoming a super daddy after the birth of my daughter, I believe that Gala loves me and my children.
So, when my daughter was two years old, Gala was sent to Beijing by the group to manage the newly opened investment company, and I didn't stop her.
In my opinion, the affection between husband and wife is mutual. You are good to me for three points, and I will give you seven points back.
Gala is so considerate of me that I can't let him choose between me and my career.
Although it is a different place, we have video calls every day. Every weekend, he will rush back to Xi 'an from Beijing.
He always takes the latest flight back on Friday, and then takes the early flight on Monday, just to spend more time with my daughter and me.
When my daughter was three years old, the second child unexpectedly came again. This time, Gallas did not object.
At that time, his annual salary rose to more than 500 thousand, and we bought a big flat bed, and life became better and better.
2019101On October 30th, the day before Gala's birthday, I gave birth to my youngest son.
From then on, we are a happy family with children in the eyes of others.
If I hadn't happened to see Gala's WeChat, I never doubted our loyalty.
After all, Gala is perfect for me and my two children.
In March this year, he applied to transfer back to Xi 'an on the grounds that his daughter was going to primary school and his father could not be absent.
Every day except work, he gives all his time to his family.
Needless to say, for me, from the moment he got married, his salary was directly transferred to my card, and occasionally extra income was transferred to my card as soon as possible.
He will carefully prepare gifts to celebrate my birthday and various festivals.
My daughter went to primary school this year, and he bought me a Tesla. Because the tram is not limited, it is convenient for me to pick up and drop off.
Aren't these all love?
However, once the door of doubt is opened, trust becomes so fragile.
Since I saw the WeChat sent by my ex-girlfriend that day, I began to reorganize my ten years with Gala.
Sadly, Gala never said to me: I love you!
He has done a lot for me and my children and fulfilled his responsibilities as a husband, but he just never said these three words.
Perhaps his love for his ex-girlfriend has run out.
And with me, it's just the right person, not the one I love.
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Actually, Gala's ex-girlfriend has never appeared in our life before.
The only time I took my child to Beijing was to attend his college reunion with Gala.
During the dinner, some classmates gossiped about his last relationship, and I realized that he was so infatuated in the past.
He did many things for his ex-girlfriend, including writing love poems in the school forum. At that time, they were one of the best campus couples voted by the forum.
I'm a little sad to hear that. After all, Gala and I don't seem to love each other, so we just got married.
But it is also a relief to think that the person who has been with him is me.
What's more, I was surprised to learn that Gala's ex-girlfriend went to Canada not to study abroad, but to marry a rich man.
I think no man can accept such betrayal.
But now it seems that I underestimated the lethality of my ex-girlfriend to Gala.
At that time, I couldn't eat well or sleep well, and I was uneasy.
Gala's 40th birthday is coming. I wanted to prepare a surprise for him.
Now, he surprised me in advance.
But the birthday is coming. After all, I don't have any substantial evidence of his affair. After all, Gala didn't ask for a divorce.
Moreover, the day before his birthday, his daughter clamored for cake, so he bought his own baking products on a whim and gave them to his daughter himself.
Watching father and daughter busy in the kitchen, I really don't want to break such a beautiful situation.
On Gala's birthday, I cooked a big table of his favorite dishes.
But Gala seems to be in a bad mood, so check her mobile phone from time to time.
Maybe, I'm waiting for a blessing message from my ex-girlfriend.
Looking at his familiar face, my mood is more complicated, uncomfortable, unwilling, angry and all kinds of emotions are intertwined.
I wanted to have a good talk with him, but when I prepared my words, he had gone back to his study and left his mobile phone on the dining table.
I sighed and picked up my mobile phone to send it to him.
Suddenly I want to see what he said to his ex-girlfriend.
Gala's mobile phone password is the birthday of the female é r.
I opened his WeChat, and sure enough, my ex-girlfriend was in the nearest contact information.
I shivered and clicked on the familiar and unfamiliar avatar.
Surprisingly, it was full of messages from the other side, and Gala didn't reply a word.
The latest sentence, ex-girlfriend said: I dreamed of you yesterday.
At that moment, I didn't know where I got the courage, so I replied directly, "You are a big head ghost in a dream. I'm Gallas' wife. Don't send him this kind of information again. "
After sending this WeChat, I swept away the haze in my heart for days.
Fuck his ex-girlfriend!
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Then, I slammed my mobile phone in front of Gala and said with a straight face, "Your ex-girlfriend is back, go find her!"
Having said that, I suddenly feel like crying.
But Gallas smiled. He said, "Wife, I haven't seen you like this for many years."
Seeing that I didn't talk, he stood up and took my hand and continued: "I was thinking about how to solve the problem of ZHE perfectly, but it's useless now. Thank you for making the decision for me directly. "
It turns out that lái is really Gala's ex-girlfriend.
Her company has business dealings with Gala Group, and he learned the news as early as March, so he applied to transfer back to Xi 'an just because he didn't want to have any more intersection with her.
"She and I ended as early as ten years ago. I avoided her, not because I was afraid of rekindling old feelings, but because I didn't want to cause unnecessary trouble. You know, once the relationship between men and women is involved, many things are unclear. "
This is the first time Gallas has seriously told me about his work.
He used to say that he didn't want to mix work and life. After all, we are in different industries, even if we know, it will only increase our troubles.
Therefore, he always reports good news instead of bad news.
Instead, I misunderstood ràng.
Now that I think about it, so do I. My business, my children's business, I just want to share good news with him forever.
We are all afraid of causing trouble to each other.
But the husband and wife just want to get into trouble with each other and need each other, so that they can last long and get better.
After ten years of marriage, Gala and I completely opened our hearts because of our ex-girlfriend's WeChat.
That afternoon, we were in the study, laughing and laughing, and finally hugged each other tightly.
In the living room, from time to time, there was the slapstick sound of my daughter and son.
The family finally recovered its former excitement.
The so-called years are quiet, but that's all.
There is not so much grandeur in real life, only the simplest, truest and most precious companionship in ordinary life.
I always thought love was complicated.
In fact, love can be very simple, whether it is love at first sight or long-term love. In the end, we all need each other's warmth, support, respect and tolerance.
From now on, you have me and I have you.
We have never said "I love you", but we firmly believe that the only person who can grow old with me in this life is you.
Author: Liu Xiaonian, source: Liu Xiaonian who writes stories. I am Liu Xiaonian, a story writer and a second-child mother. He is the author of The Second Child Age, Women who Cook Dare, Breathe, Entrepreneurial Couples, etc.
The omen of dream of eating hot pot
Although you can succeed in middle age or prime of life, with the care and promotion of your elders, or with the help of your parents, you must guard against the sudden decline when you are young or old, or the instability of suffering, loss, failure or being killed as pornography, and the omen of bad luck. Good luck is better than bad luck.
Good or bad luck index: 93 (the content is for reference only and does not represent the position of this site)
2, dream of eating hot pot should be taboo.
"Appropriate" should be decisive, popular science should be spread, and toilets should be cleaned.
Avoid talks, the cold war and reading ancient books.
What does dream of eating Hotpot mean?
Dream of eating hot pot is a good omen, which means family harmony.
Meng Meng Meng chi hotpot
These two days, your thoughts are a little ahead of time. You always think more about the future and feel that the current reserves are insufficient. So there will be a strong desire to continue to enter xiū. Campus is an environment that can match your mood. On-the-job training class is also a good choice! At present, your attention to things will be relatively low, and often in the end, there are not many work/academic tasks actually completed. However, it is full of hope.
Travelers dream of eating hot pot, so it is suggested to postpone going out in case it rains.
Dream of eating hot pot, according to the analysis of the five elements in Zhouyi, talks about the auspiciousness and brightness of color.
red
The lucky number is
Peach blossoms are in bloom.
Due south direction
, the financial situation is
Due north direction
The food shipped is
Cauliflower
Dreaming that the pot is a symbol of bad luck. Dreaming that the pot is broken indicates that there will be ominous signs of fertility, vitality and vitality.
often
Dream of fire
Or dream of dealing with fire, working by the fire, being in the fire, being thirsty and impatient, etc. It may indicate that you will suffer from diseases such as high blood pressure. It is best to go to the hospital for examination in time.
People in love in dream of eating Hotpot show that relatives have opinions, don't be discouraged, and there is still hope for marriage.
Businessman dream of eating Hotpot means that there is money to be earned, and it is smooth and satisfactory.
Dream of eating hot pot for pregnant people indicates that boys and girls will be born in summer. Be careful when it is difficult to divide the meter m 4 n.
Dreams about fire usually contain positive and negative signs. On the positive side, fire symbolizes power and wealth. On the other hand, fire represents destruction and disaster.
People who go to school dream of eating hot pot, which means that they can pass the oral test and have the hope of admission.
Dream of eating Hotpot, a person born in the animal year, means that the weather is smooth, although there is no obstacle to right and wrong.
Pregnant people dream of burning money to eat hot pot, which means that shēng is a man, Chunzhan is a woman, or there are freaks, so pay attention to observation.
Business people dream of not eating hot pot, which shows that people are not harmonious. It is expected that the adjustment will be smooth.
People in love want to eat hot pot in their dreams. Too many comparisons and different personal marriages should be more considerate.
Dreaming that the pot is a symbol of bad luck. Dreaming that the pot is broken indicates that there will be ominous signs of fertility, vitality and vitality.
Seeing a group of fish swimming around happily in the dream shows that your relationship has been stuck in the same place, so I hope it can develop further. If you want to go fishing with a fishing rod in your dream, it means that you are too impatient and may scare each other. If the fish you catch in your dream runs away or swims away, it is a warning. If you don't take the initiative, the other person will ignore you.
Often dream of fire, or dream of fighting with fire, working by the fire, being in the fire, thirsty, impatient, etc. It may indicate that you will suffer from diseases such as high blood pressure, so it is best to go to the hospital for examination in time.
I dreamed of inviting people to eat hot pot. According to the Five Elements Theory of Zhouyi, the lucky number is
Peach blossoms are in bloom.
Forward non-orientation
, the financial situation is
southeast
, auspicious color is
black
The food shipped is
sunflower
Pregnant people dream of inviting people to eat hot pot, which indicates that boys will have girls in summer. Beware of ground breaking or tire gas.
Eating hot pot copy alone?
1, it's good to eat hot pot alone, at least no one will argue with you for meat.
2. It's cool to eat hot pot alone, and there is no embarrassment as expected.
3, finally completed the highest state of loneliness, eating hot pot alone.
It is also important to eat hot pot alone. After all, only when he is full can he spare the energy to love others.
5. What is the experience of eating hot pot alone? You are sure to gain weight tomorrow.
6. If the weather is cold, you must eat hot pot. If no one invites you, you must eat by yourself.
Dare not go shopping alone, dare not watch movies alone, dare not eat hot pot alone.
8. Eat hot pot at home with friends in the afternoon, and feel at home alone after friends leave.
9. I really want to eat hot pot, but I don't want to go alone, so someone will go to eat hot pot together!
10, a person eats hot pot, a person watches movies, wants to fall in love intermittently, and chí wants to be single continuously.
1 1. When will the hot pot girl come? If I start eating alone now, no problem.
12, I can't understand the loneliness of a person eating hot pot, but the happiness of eating and cooking is really happy.
13, when a person eats hot pot, every dish must be cut to the soul. As long as the stomach is not lonely, love will stay.
14. After a person eats hot pot, he can't finish even the smallest two dishes.
15, eating hot pot alone, I don't care what others think, strange or lonely or interesting, I am very calm.
16, one person eats grilled fish, one person eats barbecue and one person eats Gustav Hugo, because he has a big appetite. Thank you. I don't need company.
17, it seems a little pathetic to go out to eat hot pot alone? My aunt looked at me with surprise and sympathy.
18, I dreamed that a person was eating hot pot, and all the dishes were served, almost ready to eat. It's sad to wake up.
19, it seems that eating hot pot alone is not so lonely. However, when I look up and see a "person" sitting opposite, my heart will be more practical.
20. For the first time in many years, I felt lonely. I went to the supermarket alone instead of watching movies and eating hot pot.
2 1, you can eat hot pot alone, drink alone, watch a movie alone, and get an injection alone, and you can have a good life.
22. I didn't have a birthday. Eat hot pot alone, see a doctor alone, watch a movie alone, and go shopping alone. I am a mature adult.
23. I live alone, watch movies alone, eat hot pot alone and run to the emergency room in the middle of the night. I really don't know what else I can do alone.
24. How can anyone think that eating hot pot alone is lonely? Don't be cold enough to eat alone! Especially when everyone else is at work and school.