We can't live to live. Survival is not that easy. We may have a lot of troubles every day, but we should also encourage ourselves every day. Let's share the positive energy article of the morning meeting.
I will share positive energy articles in the morning meeting 1 and live a wonderful life.
I don't want to be a robin or a second-hand human. I am going to explore the true meaning of things on the basis of absorbing the lessons and understanding of predecessors.
Some people talk in the same way. They can spit out a lot of famous sayings and anecdotes about celebrities. How about Bill Gates who opens his mouth and the biggest salesman who shuts up? He seems to know a lot of theories and doctrines, but those theories and doctrines were not invented by him. He just mechanically and passively repeats what others say. He is just speaking for others, giving his time to others, and even smug. Such people don't live their own lives. Such people have no personality.
I called a netizen of mine the other day, and she was learning about the training of their company. When I asked her what she thought of the training materials, she was full of what our teacher said. I interrupted her and said what she thought. She said that those people are successful people. I told her you have a brain, too. How about thinking with your head? She was giggling there, and I never understood what that laughter meant.
Krishnamurti told us that traditional education makes independent thinking more and more difficult. Echoing followers leads to mediocrity. If we advocate success, are not easy to be different, or resist the environment, there may be danger-fear breeds and prevents us from understanding life wisely. This fear of life, struggle and new experiences stifles the spirit of adventure in our hearts. All our environmental upbringing and education are urging us not to be different from others, for fear that our own thoughts and social models are different, which will make us give wrong respect to authority and tradition.
There is also a thinking brain, and I will make full use of it, use it to think positively, to discover the meaning of my life, to discover my own existence value and the meaning of life. By absorbing the crystallization of predecessors' thoughts, we will build our own spiritual palace step by step. This is my place, my spiritual home. I want to build a wall for it piece by piece, plant those beautiful flowers with my own hands, and irrigate them with sweat called thinking, so that they can thrive.
I don't want to be a second-hand human. I also have a brain, and my thinking is no less than anyone else's. I want to live my own life. My private life.
The value of life
-Don't let yesterday's depression overshadow tomorrow's dream!
At a seminar, a famous speaker held a $20 bill in his hand and didn't make an opening speech.
Facing the 200 people in the meeting room, he asked, "Who wants this $20?" Put one hand up. He later said, "I'm going to give this $20 to one of you, but before that, please allow me to do one thing." As he spoke, he crumpled up the money and asked, "Who wants more?" There are people holding hands. He added, "Well, what if I do this?" He threw the money on the ground, stepped on it and ran it over with his foot. Then he picked up the dirty and wrinkled bill. "Who wants it now?" Someone still raised their hands.
"My friends, you have had a very useful lesson. No matter how I treat that bill, you still want it, because it hasn't depreciated, and it's still worth 20 dollars. On the road of life, we will be knocked down, bullied or even crushed to pieces by our own decisions or adversity. We feel as if we are worthless. But no matter what happens, or what will happen, you will never lose value in the eyes of God. In his view, dirty or clean, dressed neatly or sloppy, you are still priceless. "
With the direction, why are you afraid of the long road?
I don't know if it is an inherent habit of my personal growth. At the beginning of the Spring Festival every year, I will make some growth plans for myself, such as work plan, life plan, study goal, travel plan, financial planning and so on. These plans are neither vigorous nor so-called big dreams, but because of these modest plans, I feel that I have a goal and direction, and I can run all the year round.
Because of this, over the years, I feel as if I got rid of laziness, regained my confidence and realized many small wishes.
For example, from 2009 to 20 10, I plan to use two years to accumulate funds for my parents and build a house in my hometown. Maybe it's the pressure that motivates me. I not only work hard, but also try to save money at ordinary times. After that, I really earned100,000 yuan for my parents by relying on the accumulation of my own work and the remuneration of part-time writing. This is the first time since I graduated.
20 1 1 I told myself that I would use my spare time to complete two or three small plans: fitness, driving test and travel. That year, I took part in a lot of physical exercise, and my body has been very healthy. The whole person is full of youthful vitality, and even colds are rare all year round. After work and fitness, I worked hard to practice driving test. In July, I completed the driver's license test within three months as I wished, and became one of the few female employees with driver's license in our unit. That year, I also fulfilled my travel promise and traveled to Xiamen, Guilin, Beihai and other places.
Every year since then, I have been like this, and almost no year has I made some small plans for myself. For example, on 20 12, my husband and I planned to get married after five years of long-distance love, so we chose to take wedding photos hand in hand on the picturesque Lijiang River, so that the beautiful scenery of mountains and rivers could witness the moment and eternity. For example, 20 13 feels that the work has encountered a bottleneck and intends to change jobs. That year, after some preparation and hard work, I got my wish and got a job I had been eager to try.
After that, year after year, the time is changing and the plan is changing. However, what remains unchanged is that I always stick to the plan, choose to start and never stop. From getting married and having children, to buying a car and a house, to trying my hobbies, I cheer for myself every time I achieve a small goal.
Perhaps, the realization of one small plan after another seems unremarkable, and even in the eyes of many people, it is far from being realized. However, for me, it is precisely because there is no generous family conditions, no innate appearance advantages, and no external resources that can be used. Therefore, these little things have become precious and valuable. They not only made me say goodbye to my inferiority complex and regain my confidence, but also made my life really gratifying. For a girl who works hard alone in a foreign land, this realization and transformation again and again is like the foundation of a tree. Even if it can't bloom at will for a while, it can still take root hard until one day it is deeply rooted and can bloom in the wind.
I often say that planning is the most common way for me to get rid of laziness. Indeed, when I make a plan, I will put it in the most conspicuous position every day to remind myself to achieve it. Once I am a little slack and lazy, I will have a sense of inexplicable self-blame. This kind of remorse often urges me to grit my teeth and tell myself to stick to it, but repeated grit my teeth has given me many unexpected good results.
This is probably the real reason why I have been making plans and choosing to start for so many years. I don't want to waste my time and spend every day in a daze.
Speaking of which, I remember that a friend who works in Shenzhen mentioned the word muddleheaded when chatting with me today. He said that it was his first day at work today, but he felt that he had nothing to do. After a day in a daze, he felt that life had no vitality at all. I joked with him and said that you still don't like leisure days. Will you be excited if you are too busy to fly? He said he wanted to be busy, so that he didn't have time to think, worry or feel idle.
It's true. Sometimes, when we are free, we begin to think about this problem. The more we think about it, the sadder it gets. The sadder we are, the more melancholy we are. Once this kind of mood lasts, it is not a good thing. So I often tell myself that when I feel that I have nothing to do, I must study and find something to do for myself, even small things, such as reading books, watching movies, going out for fun and so on.
These seemingly trivial things give us the goal and direction to run forward, and once we have the goal and direction to run, why should we be afraid of the long road?
The positive energy article of the morning meeting shared the inspiration of 2 1 and broken arrow.
If you don't believe in your will, you'll never be a general. During the Spring and Autumn Period and the Warring States Period, a father and son went to war. The father became a general and the son was just a pawn. Another horn sounded, the drums roared, and my father solemnly raised an quiver with an arrow in it. The father solemnly said to his son, "This is the treasure arrow at home. It is extremely powerful when you carry it with you, but you must never take it out. " This is an extremely delicate quiver, made of thick cowhide, inlaid with faint shiny copper edges, and look at the arrow's exposed tail.
You can tell at a glance that it is made of fine peacock feathers. The son is beaming and greedily speculates about the appearance of the shaft and arrow, as if the arrow whizzed past his ear and the enemy commander died in response. Sure enough, Bao Jian's son is heroic and invincible. When the trumpet sounded, the son could no longer resist the heroic spirit of victory and completely abandoned his father's words. A strong desire drove him to shout and pull out his treasure arrow, trying to find out. Suddenly he was shocked. A broken arrow, there is a broken arrow in the quiver. I have been fighting with a broken arrow! My son broke out in a cold sweat, as if the house had lost its pillar in an instant and collapsed.
The result is self-evident, and my son died tragically in the disorderly army. Blowing away the misty smoke, my father picked up the broken arrow and spat heavily: "If you don't believe in your will, you will never be a general." How stupid it is to pin victory or defeat on a precious arrow, and how dangerous it is for a person to give the core and handle of life to others! For example: pin your grades on the teacher; Put your hopes on your parents; Put happiness on children; Insure the crew with life insurance ...
Philosophy of life: You are an arrow. If you want it to be tough, sharp, penetrating, sharp and saving, you can only be yourself.
Step 2 catch up with the exam
A scholar went to Beijing for the third time to catch the exam and stayed in a shop where he often lived. Two days before the exam, he had three dreams. The first dream is that he grows cabbage on the wall. The second dream is that it is raining. He is wearing a hat and an umbrella. The third dream is that he is lying naked with his beloved cousin, but his back is to his back.
These three dreams seem to have some profound meanings, so the scholar hurried to find fortune-telling dreams the next day. Hearing this, the fortune teller patted his thigh continuously and said, "You'd better go home. Think about it, isn't it futile to grow vegetables on high walls? Isn't it unnecessary to wear a hat and an umbrella? My cousin and I are lying in the same bed, but back to back, is it impossible? "
Hearing this, the scholar was disheartened and went back to the store to pack his bags and prepare to go home. The shopkeeper was surprised and asked, "Isn't there an exam tomorrow? How did you go back to your hometown today? " The scholar said this and that. The shopkeeper was very happy: "Hey, I can interpret dreams, too. I think you must stay this time. Think about it, isn't it high to grow vegetables on the wall? Doesn't wearing a hat and an umbrella mean that you are prepared this time? Lying naked in bed with your cousin doesn't mean you should turn over? "
Hearing this, the scholar made more sense, so he took the exam happily and got a flower exploration.
Philosophy of life: positive people, like the sun, shine wherever they shine. Ideas determine our life, and what kind of ideas we have, what kind of future we have.
It's beautiful to hold your head up and chest out.
Although it is a black cow, the milk is white. Jenny is a little girl who always lowers her head. She always feels that she is not beautiful enough. One day, she went to the jewelry store and bought a green bow. The shopkeeper kept praising her for wearing a beautiful bow. Although Jenny doesn't believe it, she is very happy. She couldn't help raising her head, eager to show it to everyone. It doesn't matter if she accidentally bumped into someone when she went out. Jenny walked into the classroom and met her teacher head-on. "Jenny, how beautiful you look with your head held high!" "The teacher lovingly patted her on the shoulder and said. That day, she was praised by many people. She thought it must be a bow, but when she looked in front of the mirror, there was no bow on her head. She must have lost it when she came out of the jewelry store. Self-confidence is a kind of beauty, but many people lose a lot of happiness because they care too much about appearance!
Philosophy of life: whether you are rich or poor, whether you look like a fairy or plain, as long as you hold your head high, happiness will make you cute-the kind that everyone likes!
4. Life draws a leaf.
As long as you believe, there will always be miracles. Although the hope is slim, it will last forever. American writer Ou; Henry told a story in his novel The Last Leaf: In the ward, a dying patient saw a tree outside the window from his room and fell down one by one in the autumn wind. The patient looked at the rustling leaves in front of him and his health went from bad to worse. She said, "When all the leaves are gone, I will die." When an old painter learned about it, he drew a leaf with green veins with a colored pen and hung it on a branch. The last leaf never fell. Because of the green color in life, the patient miraculously survived.
Philosophy of life: Life can be without many things, but only without hope. Hope is an important value of human life. Where there is hope, life is endless!
5.flying spiders
Faith is a never-ending force. When you believe that you can succeed, you will succeed. One day, I found a black spider making a big net between two eaves in the backyard. Can spiders fly? Otherwise, from this cornice to that cornice, there are more than ten feet wide in the middle. How is the first line pulled? Later, I found that the spider took many detours-starting from a cornice, knotting, walking along the wall, climbing forward step by step, carefully raising its tail to prevent the spider silk from touching the sand or other objects on the ground, walking through the clearing, and then climbing up the opposite cornice, the height is almost the same, and then tightening the spider silk, so it will be the same in the future!
Philosophy of life: Spiders can't fly, but they can make webs in midair. It is a diligent, sensitive, silent and tenacious insect, and its net is exquisite and regular, with Zhang Kaicheng gossip shape, as if with the help of God. Such an achievement reminds people of those who are taciturn and some hidden wise men. Then, I remembered that a spider can't fly, but it still weaves a web in the air. Miracles are caused by persistent people!
Share the positive energy article of the morning meeting 3 1. It is important to choose who to associate with.
A horse and a donkey heard that Tang Priest was going to the Western Heaven to learn Buddhist scriptures. The donkey found it difficult to travel, so he gave up. But the horse immediately followed and got back the scriptures through the eighty-one difficulty. The donkey asked, brother, is it hard? Ma said: Actually, when I went to the Western Heaven, you walked as much as I did, and you were beaten blindfolded. In fact, I'm afraid I'll be more tired after muddling through.
It is very important to choose your close friends. Don't touch people who bring us negative energy. Such people only know each other and don't have to be close!
2. How to avoid risks
Seeing a mad dog coming in the distance, the lion quickly dodged. The little lion said, "Dad, you dare to fight with the tiger and compete with the cheetah, but now you are avoiding a mad dog. What a shame! " "The lion said," Son, I ask you, is it glorious to defeat a mad dog? "The little lion shook his head. Is it bad luck to let a mad dog bite? The little lion nodded. In that case, why bother a mad dog? Assess the situation, the wise will not win everything. So don't give yourself a hard time. Some people don't have to pay attention/
You will be what you want to be.
A man caught a baby eagle in Ying Chao at the top of the mountain. He took the baby eagle home and put it in the henhouse. Eagles and chickens peck, play and rest together. It thinks it is a chicken. The eagle has grown up and its wings are full. The owner wants to train it into a falcon, but it has become like a chicken because it is mixed with chickens all day.
You can't work hard, you can only try your best.
A young man wants to learn philosophy from Socrates. Sue took him to the river and suddenly pushed him into it. The young man thought it was a joke and didn't care. As a result, Sue jumped into the water and pushed him to the bottom desperately. The young man panicked and instinctively let him try his best to push Socrates away and climb ashore. The young man was puzzled and asked Sue, who replied, "I just want to tell you that you must have the determination to survive in a desperate situation in order to have real gains."
Never listen to those who are used to seeing things negatively.
Once upon a time, a group of frogs organized a climbing competition. Finally, all the other frogs dropped out of the competition, only one remained. After great efforts, they finally became the only winner who climbed to the top of the tower. A frog jumped up and asked the magic weapon of success, but was surprised to find that the winner was deaf. He didn't hear a word. It was impossible to climb up.
6. Always remember that you are working for yourself.
There was an old carpenter who was about to retire. The boss could not bear to part with him and asked him to build another house before leaving. Although the old carpenter agreed,
But my heart is no longer working, and the materials I use are poor and the work is rough. When the house was built, the boss said it was his retirement gift. I didn't expect him to build a house by himself. He was ashamed and regretted it.
7. Only when there are difficulties will there be opportunities.
A piece of ice in the Sahara desert was melted by the sun, leaving only a small piece. Bing sighed and said, "The desert is a hell of ice, and the North Pole is a paradise of ice." The sand said to the ice, "Ice is the most precious thing in the desert, and ice is the least valuable thing in the Arctic." If we are desperate, it is the time to show our highest self-worth, and in times of peace and prosperity, no matter who we are, everyone is similar.
8. Life should not be scribbled.
A friend of Dumas' submitted a manuscript to the publishing house and was rejected. This friend came to Dumas for advice. Dumas' suggestion is simple: find a copywriter to copy his manuscript, and then make some changes to the topic. This friend followed Dumas' advice, and his article was taken a fancy to by a publisher who rejected him-no matter how good the article is, who will read it? Truth: No matter how ambitious people are, they will be buried by their hasty life.
9. Good deeds are always accompanied by success.
Legend has it that a gold mine was discovered somewhere, and many people rushed to hear the news. As we approached, a wide and deep river blocked the way. Without bridges and boats, everyone is at a loss. At this time, a person went back and bought a boat to ferry everyone with the toll. Although it is expensive to cross the capital, people who are eager to dig are on his boat. Later, he made a fortune by the endless stream of gold diggers every day, and most people who crossed the river returned empty-handed.
10, sometimes balance is just an excuse to escape.
A friend said this: "A young man under 30 said that he didn't want to struggle at present, but wanted to practice by himself. Looking at his confused face, I told him, young man, don't talk about work-life balance too early, otherwise you can only get a low-level balance, and Buddha also depends on gold! The sound of climbing is far away! Young people must struggle to a certain stage! Sometimes balance is just an excuse to escape! "
1 1. If you want to stand and do nothing, you must stand very high, very high.
The crow stood in the tree and did nothing all day. The rabbit saw the crow and asked, can I do nothing all day like you? The crow said, of course, why not? So the rabbit began to rest in the open space under the tree. Suddenly, a fox appeared. It jumped up, grabbed the rabbit and swallowed it. If you want to stand and do nothing, you must stand very high, very high.
12, knowledge is very important, fixed thinking kills people.
There is a donkey who has been grinding all his life. His master pitied him and let him graze freely on the grass. But the donkey turned a blind eye to the vast world, but turned around a tree step by step. It turns out that this donkey has been grinding all his life and knows nothing but turning. Your world comes from your vision. If you stand higher, you can see farther.