Huang Duoduo, as the daughter of Huang Lei, has made a breakthrough? Huang Lei's daughter? The label is not only because she looks sweet and looks free, but also because she has already become the most ideal daughter image in the minds of most parents, modest, enterprising and has her own personality.
Take Huang Duoduo's hot search for dyeing his hair before. When it comes to ordinary adolescent girls, parents will inevitably worry that their daughter will go astray, but when it comes to Huang Duoduo, everything seems to be taken for granted.
Huang Lei and Huang Duoduo have a very harmonious father-daughter relationship, and they get along like friends.
Because Huang Lei said: I never treated her like a child. She is a considerate person. She has her secrets, her thoughts and her life. She does not belong to me. We are independent individuals. I won't impose my will on her. We get along like friends. ?
This child is such a magical creature. The more you respect and trust him, the more he will make you feel at ease On the contrary, you always doubt him and think he is a child. Without the ability to control himself, he will try his best to do bad things and make you uneasy.
Rousseau, a famous educator, said: If you want to stay on the right path forever, you must always follow the guidance of nature. ? Every child is brought into this world by his parents without knowing it, but the child is by no means a vassal of his parents, nor is it a substitute to help them realize their unfulfilled ideals.
Only by giving children enough freedom to adapt to this society and meet their own challenges can they get real growth and inner prosperity after repeated failures and setbacks.
Giant baby raised by parents: pretending to be a child will make you safer.
A few years ago, a prodigy named Wei Yongkang became a topic of conversation for many people. Wei Yongkang mastered 1000 Chinese characters at the age of 2, finished junior high school at the age of 4, entered a key middle school at the age of 8, went to college at the age of 13, and was admitted to the Chinese Academy of Sciences at the age of 17.
Wei Yongkang, a prodigy who was admitted to the university in advance.
But when Wei Yongkang went to college, he couldn't even take care of himself. He can't wash clothes, can't tie his shoelaces, and it's difficult to deal with people. As a result, at the age of 20, he was expelled from school on the grounds that he could not take care of himself and affected his studies.
My mother is proud of Wei Yongkang. She was interviewed when she was admitted to a university in Wei Yongkang. She said: Nothing is as high as reading? In this case, when she faced the fact that her son was expelled from school, she said it was unacceptable. She thinks that every child comes like this. Why is the social tolerance for Wei Yongkang so low?
In fact, no one denies Wei Yongkang's talent and Excellence in learning, but there is no doubt that his lack of self-care ability and social adaptability has seriously affected his future development.
Perhaps, in Wei Yongkang's mind, his mother will meet all his requirements, but he doesn't want to go out of his mother's shelter and face the future life alone, which undoubtedly makes him a young eagle with tied wings, and it is difficult to fly to the vast sky.
The giant babies who don't want to face the growth get only a short sense of security.
Education is life, and the process of education and life is integrated, rather than preparing for a certain life in the future. ? This means that all the methods of education are wrong, and those giant babies who are misled by the wrong way of raising cannot stay in infancy forever. Although pretending to be a child will make them safer, this kind of security must be short-lived and nihilistic.