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One thing that impressed me deeply, I remember a classmate of xx, just call her Xiaole. Xiaole never deserts in class and always looks very serious. She remembers what the teacher said. Don't go out to play after class, don't chat with people, just read; Not to mention studying at night.
I once thought that this should be the legendary schoolmaster. Until the first monthly exam, I was shocked to find that I thought it was Xueba's Xiaole and actually got the countdown of the whole class. Is it because she didn't play well, but even if she didn't play well, it wasn't that bad? I was really confused at that time.
Later, by chance, I sat at the same table with her and found that all her efforts were fake. In class, she actually didn't listen carefully, just in a daze; After class and evening self-study, she is not trying, but secretly reading novels.
Her pretending efforts fooled everyone, but she couldn't fool herself. Countdown is the best proof.
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Don't talk about others, in fact, think about it carefully, why don't you be such a person?
I remember when I used to live in high school, I would go home with a lot of books every weekend, dreaming that I could brush the questions crazily and recite English words in classical Chinese when I got home. As a result, I forgot all about it every time I went home, so I had to carry the books back on Sunday.
As soon as my freshman finished the CET-4, I bought a vocabulary book of CET-6, and imagined brushing the questions and memorizing words in the library. Indeed, I did go to many libraries when I was a freshman, but I took my mobile phone with me. You should know this feeling, so you can't help but want to move your mobile phone, brush Weibo and look at your circle of friends. It won't be long before you finally find yourself playing with your mobile phone in another place.
Ironically, I used to wonder why I couldn't catch up with others when I worked so hard.
Well, after reading so much, can you find your own shadow in it? Open your circle of friends and see if you have sent any photos of the library working hard and the gym sweating?
Only you know how much time you spent reading in the library and whether you went to the gym for the first time after getting a card. Pretend to work hard, you can fool everyone, but you can't fool yourself.
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Because you envy those who work hard and want to be such a person, you made up your mind from the beginning, but in the process of implementation, you found that you couldn't last that long, so you have to create an illusion of hard work.
But what you don't know is that the better people are, the lower their popularity is.
In the eyes of truly excellent people, it is only normal to soak in the library all day, and going to the gym is only an essential episode every day. In their view, hard work is daily life, just like eating and sleeping, and there is nothing to show off.
On the contrary, those who don't work hard can't wait to tell the world if they do something that seems to work hard. It's like ... it's like a three-or four-year-old child doing a little thing, telling his parents and asking for praise. For them, the matter itself is not that important, what is important is the praise and praise after doing it.
In fact, hard work is not a great thing. As long as you are willing, as long as you are willing to make up your mind, everyone can fight for their own life.
Think about it carefully. Who are the truly outstanding people who can stand loneliness, resist pressure and settle down to work silently? What's the use of pretending to work hard and getting praise from others? Can praise make you successful? In life, you have to fulfill yourself in the end. In that case, why don't you settle down and work hard?