Excuse me, how did you all find a good-looking, kind and self-motivated little brother?

Tell my sister's experience for her reference.

First, find it in your own social circle. If you say that you are a house girl, have no social circle, and only like to play games at home alone, then I want to tell you, if you are not open yourself, how can a little brother come to the door? If you want to find a good-looking, kind and self-motivated little brother, you have to push the door and go out.

Where can I find it? Ask yourself what hobbies you have, and find them among people with similar interests in your circle. The probability of finding the right little brother is still quite high. Because everyone is in the same circle, it is easier to have the same topic, and there are more familiar friends around. It's easy to know the root of the matter. Usually, if you take part in more activities in the circle, you will soon build feelings and do what everyone is willing to do, and it will be easier to cultivate feelings. I won't tell you that your brother-in-law and I have exercised in countless English corners.

Second, it is important to look pleasing to the eye and choose your favorite type. Why do you choose your favorite type? Because everyone has different eyes and tastes, stick to your own taste. Not necessarily the most handsome, but it must attract you. My ex-boyfriend was so handsome that when he fell in love with me, I was carried away by his appearance and thought I liked him, so I plunged into it. Later, it turned out that we were not suitable. Then I met my husband now. His appearance is very masculine. I liked him as soon as I saw him, because I always liked masculine boys. This kind of boy naturally attracts me. Since you like it, don't avoid it. No matter what others say, he is old and doesn't match his age. Just like it yourself. Radish and vegetables have their own love!

Third, we should pay attention to details and understand his character. For example, if you really meet a boy you like, dating is inevitable. Do your homework before dating. How to order food can show whether he often dates girls and knows girls well. The location of the appointment can show his financial situation and preferences; The content of the conversation and the details of eating can also provide his connotation and some basic etiquette information. This stage is the primary stage of understanding a person. Do more homework and don't take it lightly. For example, I dated a boy and met another friend walking the dog. The boy's behavior towards the dog makes me feel that he is very caring. Later this boy became my husband. It turns out that after we had a child, he really became the "father of twenty-four filial piety", so some details can only be understood by you in communication. The key is to open your heart and eyes to find the one that belongs to you. I believe you will find your little brother.