1, stop being humorous. Many people mistakenly think that humor is telling jokes, so they go online to find a lot of small jokes and send them out at once. This will make girls think you are shallow. Say the right words at the right time and be humorous at the right time. This is actually a habit, and it cannot be done overnight. Don't be humorous for humor's sake. 2. Understand girls' interests and find suitable topics. Chatting starts with a topic. A good topic will make two people more interesting and unwilling to talk, while no one wants to continue talking about a bad topic.