1, what happened to Xiaoji
Xiaoji is a single mother. She works in a restaurant. She once told me about her love experience:
"In order to attend the bodybuilding class, I have to readjust my weekly schedule. Once in the fitness center, I was waiting for the teacher in the lounge and met my current husband, Short.
I met him by chance. Short is a contract worker. He came here to look for a job. It's incredible that we should fall in love so much later. We are so different.
He likes to keep changing, while I like to collect antiques and enjoy a stable life. He likes staying at home at night, while I like eating out. "
You see, their hobbies are so different. If they hadn't met in the lounge, Xiaoji might never have found Short.
2. Find a partner with the help of friends.
Pony is a policeman. He said, "I met my wife Wei through my friend Ake." Ake and Wei are good friends. He introduced Wei to.
At first, I just called Wei and met him once. Now, Pony and Wei are married, and he is very grateful to Ake for introducing them.
"If it weren't for Akma, I don't think we would have known each other. I like sports, but she is not interested in sports. The only chance for me to meet her was that Ake invited me to his birthday party. That night, I played cards with Wei. "
"In fact, from then on, Wei and I had a little spark of love, but we didn't continue to associate at that time. I still remember the feeling at that time. I think I am a lucky man now. Now my marriage is very happy and we have children now. "
From this example, we can see that if a man doesn't like parties like Ake, his chances of meeting the right person will increase if he attends parties, dances or weddings occasionally.
Similarly, a woman like Wei doesn't like sports. If she takes part in sports meetings and various celebrations and celebrations, her chances of finding a soul mate will also increase.
3. Pink's Lucky Plan
Let's take a look at Pink's experience. Xiao Fen, an interior designer, told me, "I met my husband Er Ming by chance. Once, my client wanted to change a bathtub and didn't know where to buy it. So someone gave me his phone number. "
"Then I called him. Oh, my god, there is just what I need in Erming. While he is providing me with goods, I also find that he is the person I can entrust for life and the most suitable person for me.
We fell in love with each other immediately. It was fate that brought us together. I've never bought myself a bathtub. He is always out of my life. "
If her client doesn't want a bathtub, Pink will never find her husband because she is not interested in a bathtub at all.
Er Ming is a real outdoor athlete, a rough man who is slovenly. He seldom goes shopping and certainly doesn't consult interior designers. Their paths will never cross.
If Xiao Fen has no lucky items, then the only way for Er Ming to find Xiao Fen is to spend more time shopping. Spend some time visiting interior design shops.
And Xiao fen can only meet Er Ming if she walks out of the small circle that makes her comfortable. Go camping, join a nature club, or take part in a rafting adventure. Only in this way can she get what she wants.
Why are they so lucky?
Single people always mistakenly think that soul mates should have the same hobbies. So, they try to find like-minded people as lovers. Most of them find like-minded partners in the places they go most often, but they never think that they are more likely to find soul mates in places where people with completely different interests gather.
It is because of the differences that they are attracted to each other, learn from each other's strengths and become perfect lovers.
If you can't find the right person in your usual place, try to go to places you don't often go to. Even if you don't find your other half right away, at least you will start to experience more feelings.
You will become more appreciated, and the more attractive you are, the more attractive you will be.