First, I feel that life is becoming more and more deliberate. In recent years, the work pressure is relatively high, which is completely different from my feelings in state-owned enterprises in previous years, and I am much more tired. I earned more money than state-owned enterprises, but I didn't save much. For example, the work intensity is high, I feel very tired every day, and I have to massage and decompress on weekends. I usually eat fitness meals every month, and the money is basically spent on fitness and health. I always feel very deliberate. I have also observed my colleagues around me, changing to a new lv every month, and always complaining that my boss won't give me a raise. I always feel that this kind of life is somewhat artificial and deliberate.
Second, there are always some people who have low material desires and strong happiness in life and network. They can always find some subtle happiness in ordinary life, which reminds me of my childhood. At that time, I felt that time passed slowly, and every family was not so rich, but every family had delicious food and laughter. In fact, this is the life I really want in my heart.
I remember one day, my husband and I discussed happiness. I said that happiness comes from freedom, time freedom, financial freedom and openness. We have an open mind, financial freedom is far from being achieved, and with good health, time freedom is a natural thing. So I said that our core issue is financial freedom. Many studies show that 75 million yuan is the goal of middle class wealth freedom. He smiled contemptuously again. People's desires are endless, so there is no freedom of wealth. I think, yes, you can pursue a wealth goal. The process itself is not free. It is better to learn to reduce your desires on weekdays, so that you will be happy on the road to freedom.
Generally speaking, I hope I won't be swayed by desire. Live a free life on weekdays. So, I started to act.
1. Ask yourself why before you buy something. Dealing with old things is faster than dealing with new things.
After returning home, Mr. Huo also likes to throw away things at home. There are fewer and fewer things at home, and I feel more and more comfortable. We will sort things at home according to the frequency of use, and we must dispose of things that are not used for one year. While cleaning up, there is also an important job to classify and recognize your real needs. Through sorting, I found that my most sundries were concentrated in the closet. Besides, the frequency of changing clothes is still very low. So we may only need two sweaters, two pants, a skirt, a down jacket and 2-3 T-shirts, which can meet the needs of my little Internet diaosi aunt. The last thing I want to throw away is books. There are more and more books. I'm not depressed. I like having a big bookshelf at home. It is full of all kinds of books. Helpless, our family is too small, so Mr. Huo began to buy books for me.
While cleaning up the house, I thought about what the carrier of home really needed.
Most importantly, I need a bathroom where I can relax and enjoy like a forest. When I went in naked, the temperature had just reached my favorite temperature, and hot water poured down, accompanied by birds singing in the jungle and the sound of the sea. There is a French window that allows me to see all the spring, summer, autumn and winter outside.
Next, we need an outdoor kitchen, pick them in our own garden and put them in bamboo baskets. As soon as the boiling water is hot, a rich organic dinner will be ready at the family farm. We can choose to bathe in the bright sunshine, or under the grape trellis in the yard, or on the chair by the window, listening to the sound of rain beating on bananas. Start a beautiful day.
My husband and I both like books very much. We love reading thousands of books and Wan Li Road. I hope there is a space that I like to show. It can be a diverse space. But I don't like this research. I think reading can start anywhere you like. It doesn't mean that you can put yourself in a box called a study, or decorate a box like a study. Play games in it. I think good books, good wine, good tea, things enjoyed by the world, tourist souvenirs and flower houses can all become * * * spaces.
Living room, big, not too full. You can watch movies, play games and sit around with friends. Children can play here easily and without obstacles. Because of the warm ground in winter, they wear small vests and blow whistling fans. The living room is near the yard. Even part of the courtyard owner's living room.
Bedrooms and sleeping places should be small and comfortable, with warm floor lamps, warm beds and floor-to-ceiling windows. You can see the moon and stars. Now you can listen to stories and say good night to the city.
The gym can be outdoors, and the toilet is not necessarily with the bathroom. My small home may be160m2 yard,160m2 house. One yin and one yang is my favorite home.
2, the diet tends to be light, prefer vegetarian food, and feel that the original things are more beautiful.
I don't like luxury goods, but the beautiful things must not be stingy with money, and must be taken down.