0 1 novice dad "steals mine" and holds the baby on fire. The posture is so funny. Dad: I feel so scared.
I once saw such a thing, a novice father in Xi, Shaanxi Province, became popular because of the rough and lovely operation of "stealing mines". The 25-year-old novice father loves his daughter very much. Because it is a special period, there can only be one obstetric attendant in the ward, so he takes care of his mother alone. Dad revealed that it is a bit ripe to change diapers and iron milk for his daughter, but it is still customary to hold the baby.
The video shows the father holding his daughter for the first time. At first, he wanted to pick her up from the crib, but he didn't know where to put his hand. After finally picking up his daughter, his father was nervous and stiff, and his posture was very funny. He just held the child in his stomach, his neck and shoulders were shrinking, and he turned his eyes to Ma Bao from time to time and asked, "Am I holding it right? I feel so scared! "
Dad seems to have started to pick up his daughter after receiving the mother's signal. At the same time, his hands began to panic and his body began to lean back. He carefully raised his left leg to protect him, for fear of not holding his daughter steady. In short, he tried very hard to catch this little guy. Dad finally held his daughter in his arms, held her firmly, and then breathed a sigh of relief easily. In the whole process of holding the baby, dad kept staring at his daughter, probably because he was afraid of holding it wrong and making her cry.
From the baby's father's careful hug, we know that he loves his daughter very much. He also generously said that when he held his daughter for the first time, he was full of tension and fear, but he still felt "extremely happy." The netizen commented on this: "This expression and posture are really unique! Novice dad is a mystery. I am afraid that the posture of holding the baby is unified, but I will be familiar with it in the future. "
What problems will the novice father encounter?
(1) the posture of holding a baby.
Novice fathers usually encounter this problem, because the strength of newborns is too different from that of fathers, and fathers are afraid that they can't control their strength when holding their babies, for fear that their children will fall or get injured.
② Baby coax mode
Newborns don't know how to speak, and most of the time they only know how to express themselves by crying. In reality, many dads should be afraid of their children crying, but how to coax him effectively, dads certainly don't know at first.
3 help the baby take a bath.
The challenge of bathing newborns is very great. If it is not done correctly, the child's skin will get sick if it is not cleaned, and the child will easily choke and cry. Coupled with these concerns, I am afraid that fathers are even more reluctant to let go.
How should a novice father hold his baby correctly? (Take the baby's head to the right as an example)
(1) Hold a cross hug
Dad can hold the right hand to the maximum extent and hold the baby's shoulders, neck and head; The left hand should also be stretched to the maximum, holding the baby's ass and waist. The novice father can't hold the baby for the first time, because if the strength is not mastered correctly, the child will easily fall.
(2) Hold the wrist.
This posture of holding the baby is safer and more commonly used. First, put the baby's head on the elbow of the right arm and hold the baby's back and waist with his right hand and wrist. Hold the baby's ass with your left hand.
04 conclusion
Novice fathers are definitely at a loss in parenting at first, but they should also take the initiative to learn, such as mastering the baby's posture, asking Ma Bao for advice and doing some homework online in advance.