Xin Jie, who loves fitness.

These two days, a-mei, a long-lost friend, made a crying expression in the group, and then sent a message saying, "Because I gained weight, I was ruthlessly abandoned by the male god." Then he dumped another photo of a beautiful woman, with the postscript: "This is my ex-boyfriend's current girlfriend".

At the first sight, I saw that the girl in the photo was an elegant and dignified lady, a kind of temperament beauty that people could not leave their sight at a glance.

The information of the explosion instantly boiled the silent girlfriends, and the sisters all ran out. Instead of comforting the injured Amei, you sprinkled salt on Amei's wound sentence by sentence: "You deserve it, who told you that you can't control it the most?" Obviously, the once chubby little cutie has now become a veritable big fat man. Who will you dump if he doesn't dump you? "

It turns out that a-mei, who looks clever, graduated from college and worked as a designer in a home design company with a salary of 5000 yuan in January, which is a decent job in our small town.

I met Feng, who is also a designer, at a home design exchange meeting. They fell in love at first sight, adored each other and fell in love soon.

Ah Mei, who was a little greedy and slightly fat, relaxed because she was in a happy mood, let go of her mouth to eat, and her attitude towards work became more arbitrary, so she stopped working as hard as before. After work, I either play mobile phones or watch Korean dramas, and scoff at my boyfriend's charging model.

Feng often advises her to have a self-disciplined attitude towards life. If a person can't even control his own mouth, what strong willpower can he have to do a good job!

Ah mui said casually, what's the matter? It's just that she's a little fat, which has no effect on her work. I never thought that when Ah Mei's detached mentality made her weight soar to 150 kg, her steady and plain work was in crisis, and her boyfriend Feng also fell in love with a female white-collar worker who worked as a middle manager in a foreign company and broke up with Ah Mei. However, Ah Mui didn't agree, complaining that Feng couldn't say he didn't love.

It's just that Ah Mei never expected Feng to say such a sentence: "I will let you die without regret, knowing that what I want is a partner who can share my values, outlook on life and enterprising spirit." Knowing that obesity has seriously affected your life and work, you still don't have the perseverance to lose weight, and all of them end in failure. In the workplace, you are also getting lazier and lazier. All the girlfriends you work with have been promoted and raised, and you are still standing still except for the skyrocketing weight. "

"I thought I admired you because of you, a kind and chubby girl who not only graduated from a famous university, but also had a positive and enthusiastic work enthusiasm. I tried to charge you. You just brushed your mobile phone and watched TV, but you still can't settle down to charge. What I want is a partner who goes hand in hand with me. I don't need a partner who suffers from lazy cancer in thought and behavior. "

In fact, ah mui doesn't understand this truth. Even love can last. Your temporary beauty may make excellent men stay for you, but there is no internal support for the conservation of knowledge. In the long run, it will be as indifferent as drinking boiled water. Who wants to stay for you?

True love is snobbish, and everyone has the right to choose better. There are often excellent girls standing beside the male god. No matter in the workplace or in love, people with high-quality resources will always get more favor and attention.

Not long ago, I was invited to attend the wedding of a distant cousin who settled in Chongqing. I haven't seen my cousin for years. I didn't expect this to surprise me: my cousin used to be almost as fat as a-mei, but now she has a bumpy figure and a charming temperament. The groom standing beside her is handsome and polite, and the key is a well-educated and quality rich second generation. This is a good family that many girls dream of!

After the wedding, I dragged my cousin and asked why it changed so suddenly. I looked like a beautiful woman in the city and found such a reliable brother-in-law.

It turned out that a few years ago, my cousin went to Chongqing to work hard and suffered a lot, but she still couldn't get a foothold in Chongqing, let alone find an excellent partner.

Later, she realized that if she wants to be happy in work and love, she must have the same status and figure. So after work, she began to charge her books to absorb knowledge, so as to enhance her value and charm. Then she took time to go to the gym to exercise, and three meals a day were balanced in nutrition. Under the heavy work pressure, all the indexes of her body are excellent.

In the long run, I changed from a small clerk to the general manager of a foreign trade company. Because of my strong sense of responsibility and ability, my salary has soared to seven figures.

When you are the queen yourself, you will naturally attract the emperor. This is the most suitable sentence for your cousin.

Being beautiful is an advantage, and living beautifully is a skill. This is the most cherished sentence of women now, and my cousin has done it.

To live as you like, the road must be uneven, but after going over mountains and mountains, you will meet your strongest self, and you will be in the best state to meet the best people to love you.

Because only you are good enough can you deserve good love and good people.

When you seem to be living a high life, long-overdue love will come unexpectedly, meet you and meet the right person.

You will appreciate your efforts and live the life you like.