First, dress up.
1. It is best to wear a skirt that looks gentle and generous, reaching to the knee.
2. Give priority to solid colors, and don't choose white for yellow and black skin, which is black.
3. You can wear light makeup, and don't wear too much eye makeup and lip makeup.
4. Wear shoes with smaller shoes. Older people prefer to wear feminine clothes.
5. Don't carry a bag with obvious logo, it's best to keep a low profile and simple.
6. Nails should be transparent and nude, never black.
7. You can tie your hair up. Don't look messy.
8. Don't wear grandiose ornaments. Everything is simple.
Second, choose gifts.
1. Know the preferences of elders in advance and do what they like.
If you are still a student, don't use expensive gifts, which will make people think that you are putting the cart before the horse.
It's best not to send cigarettes, it's unhealthy and tacky.
4. Try to ensure that your family has gifts: give them to your mother-bird's nest, skin care products, etc. Send it to dad-red wine, tea, etc. Send sisters-lipstick, necklace, etc. Send nephews-racing toys, etc. ; Send them to grandparents-latex pillows, foot baths, etc.
Third, look at parents' taboos.
1. Not diligent.
Don't stick to your boyfriend all the time. You can follow him wherever he goes.
Don't boss your boyfriend around in front of his family.
4. When eating, wait for your elders to move chopsticks before taking them.
5. Don't drink with your elders.
6. Pay attention to your manners when eating, and don't make any noise.
7. If the boyfriend's parents cook at home by themselves, no matter whether laver is appetizing or not, they must say it is delicious.
8. Don't spend the night. At about 8: 30 in the evening, I have to go home and say that there is access control at home.
Fourth, basic etiquette.
1. Don't look around when you go in.
You can offer to help in the kitchen or help clean up after dinner, but don't really roll up your sleeves and go to work. If you are asked to help with housework when you visit your parents for the first time, you should consider it properly.
Don't leave your hair on the sink after using the toilet.
4. Take the initiative to set the shoes after entering the door.
5. At the dinner table, you can take the initiative to help your elders hold soup and pass paper towels.
6. No matter how the other person's family is, be modest and courteous, neither humble nor supercilious.
7. Try not to wear perfume, but try not to wear it so strongly.
Five, conversation etiquette.
1. Smile more.
2. Talk as little as possible, if you talk too much, you will lose.
3. Don't automatically stand up and adjust the atmosphere, and wait for the other parent to open the topic.
4. Don't bicker or fight with your boyfriend.
5. Sweet talk and praise your family.
6. Don't bow your head and play with your mobile phone in front of your elders.
7. When the elder asks you something, think about it a little before you answer.