1, don't care too much about children, too much about making children overly self-centered and thinking that everyone should respect him, and as a result, they become arrogant people.
2, don't bribe children, let children know the relationship between rights and obligations from an early age, and they can't enjoy rights without obligations.
3. Don't get too close to children. Children should be encouraged to live, study and play with people of the same age, so as to learn how to get along with others.
Don't force children to do things they can't do. Most of their self-confidence comes from success. Forcing them to do what they can't do will only hurt their self-confidence.
5. Don't be too strict, demanding or even abusive to children. Beating and cursing will make children have unhealthy psychology such as timidity and escape, and even lead to abnormal behaviors such as resistance, cruelty, lying and running away from home.
6. Don't criticize children in public, and don't criticize or laugh at children in front of friends. This will cause children to hold grudges and be shy, which will greatly damage their self-esteem.