Addiction to online novels can easily lead to psychological barriers;
Nowadays, fantasy, otherworldly, distorted facts and love novels are very popular among teenagers. The plots of these novels are illusory and divorced from real life, but why do children like these novels so much? Indulge in it, will it have a negative impact on children?
The status quo is obsessed with fantasy, and children can't stop.
Ms. Zhou, who lives in Mianfang Road, Zhengzhou City, has had a hard time with her son recently. ? I don't even want to talk to him. ? Ms. Zhou complained. Reading books at sixes and sevens all day is almost ruined. ?
Ms. Zhou's mouth? What a mess. This book refers to fantasy, revision and different kinds of online novels. Through Ms. Zhou's description, the reporter learned that children like to read such books from the second day of junior high school. At first, she thought it was a good thing for her children to study. Even fantasy books can help children expand their thinking. Who knows? I picked up a book and leafed through it, and found the contents. Naive? It's terrible, but it describes some gods, enlightenment and immortality of Warcraft, and some very yellow and violent content? She tore up the book in a rage.
? I went to the toilet at midnight to see him. I can't believe I downloaded these contents on my mobile phone. ? Ms. Zhou, who is tough, grabbed her mobile phone and threw it out of the window. Her son never spoke to her again, but she found such a novel through different channels.
Wei Wei, 16 years old, also likes online novels, but prefers romance novels that travel through. Recently, she read a book called Dream Back to the Qing Dynasty, which tells the story of the heroine's emotional entanglement with several princes when she returned to the Qing Dynasty through time and space. ? Many students around me like reading these novels. ? Wei Wei said.
Analysis of children in reading? Realize yourself?
What are the reasons why teenagers are so obsessed with romantic novels on the Internet? Although teenagers are physically mature, they are constrained by the outside world and cannot realize their wishes, so they have to pass. Fantasy? To meet and realize self, and online novels just meet this psychological demand. ? Kong Derong, chief physician of psychology department of Zhengzhou Eighth People's Hospital, said? Children are often frustrated in real life and find a place to accept themselves and realize their self-worth through online novels or games. ?
Wang Haiyong, director of the Learning Research Association of Zhengzhou Education Society, also believes that fantasy online novels are popular because they conform to the psychological growth and thinking characteristics of teenagers. Wang Haiyong analyzed that some parents have too many restrictions on their children, so that children can't find their own position and sense of value, so they empathize with books and hope to realize themselves through imagination. In online novels, imaginative teenagers find unprecedented excitement and satisfaction.
Suggest diverting attention and reducing it? Book addiction?
? Whether it is internet addiction or fantasy, modifying reality or novel addiction, the criterion for judging all addictive behaviors is whether this behavior will seriously affect the normal study, life and social interaction of teenagers. ? Wang Haiyong said,? Nowadays, the content of online novels is not very standard, which can't guide and educate children, and there are not many novels with culture and nutrition, so I personally don't recommend reading more. ?
? Some books are just to attract teenagers, and some plots are too explicit, which will make some teenagers unable to control themselves and produce impulsive imitation, which will lead to bad consequences. ? Kong Derong said, how about it? I suggest watching fantasy novel less or not, and even watching it should be moderate. ? Kong Derong reminded parents to find that children have? Addiction? When there are signs, you can't just reprimand and stop the children. Instead, we should consult with children, respect their opinions, teach them how to choose novels, and set the time to read novels and guide them reasonably.
Based on the purpose of children seeking mental decompression, parents should first understand their children's hobbies and interests. Diversion method? To relieve the pressure on the children, right? Book addiction? Dependence. If there is an opportunity, you can also take your children out to travel during the holidays to increase their contact with the real society. But after adjustment, I still can't quit. Internet book addiction? Parents should consider giving their children professional psychological counseling.
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