1. Based on equality and respect: both parties in love should treat each other equally and respect each other's feelings and opinions. There should be no situation in which one party leads and the other party passively accepts.
2. Smooth communication: Good communication is the basis of establishing a healthy relationship. Both parties in love should understand each other's needs, hopes and ideas, and be able to express their feelings and opinions frankly.
3. Support each other: A healthy relationship should support each other. Both parties in love should encourage and support each other and grow and progress together.
4. Freedom and independence: Both parties in love should maintain personal freedom and independence, and should not rely entirely on each other to meet their own needs and desires. At the same time, we should also respect each other's independence and freedom, and should not excessively control or interfere in each other's lives.
5. Honesty and transparency: A healthy relationship should be based on honesty and transparency. Both parties in love should express their thoughts and feelings frankly and avoid hiding or deceiving each other.
6. No violence and control: A healthy relationship should be free from violence and control. Both parties in love should respect each other's rights and dignity and should not use violence or control to achieve their goals.
7. Have enough private space: Both parties in love should keep a certain private space, and they should not rely too much on each other or interfere in each other's private life.
In short, a healthy relationship should be based on equality, respect, smooth communication, mutual support, freedom and independence, honesty and transparency, no violence and control, and enough private space. If a relationship lacks these characteristics, it may lead to unhealthy relationships and emotional problems. Therefore, both parties in love should establish good communication and trust in the early stage of love, maintain mutual respect and support in love, and create a healthy relationship. At the same time, if you find yourself or your partner with unhealthy love characteristics, you should communicate and deal with them in time to avoid further deterioration of emotional problems.