General principles of interpersonal communication

In our society, interpersonal communication has become a necessity in life. People who leave friends, colleagues, leaders and various social relationships are very lonely and isolated. This society is made up of all kinds of people. People living in today's society need to communicate. In the process of interpersonal communication, we need a principle, which is also a principle that we must follow to ensure that interpersonal relationship circulates on a healthy and normal track, deviating from the principle of communication, and the development of interpersonal relationship will branch at any time because of possible problems. The first principle in interpersonal communication is independence and equality, which is a basic principle that we must abide by. In all kinds of social occasions, we must ensure the equality and independence of the communication subjects, and we must not depend on others for communication. In communication, we should pay attention to ensuring a person's dignity and personality, and not lower one's personality in exchange for social communication. Second, in the process of mutual communication, we should keep a certain distance from our friends. Don't get too close, or you will bring shame on yourself. Friends' life experiences and experiences are different from yours, and they must have their own unique side in dealing with problems and affairs. Therefore, don't change others' will and ideas by yourself. Treat friends only by making suggestions on some issues. Third, pay attention to your identity and status. The ancients said that those who know people know people, and those who know people know their friends. It is wise to know that others need knowledge and know yourself. Therefore, in the communication with friends, it is a very important principle problem to straighten out one's identity and position. People need humility to get the love and acceptance of others. On the contrary, people who are too sharp-edged have no friends in real life. Fourth, people should pay attention to loyalty, which is a very important principle in interpersonal communication. Only by being honest with friends and solving practical problems for friends at critical times can friendship between friends be formed. Nobody likes people who run away when something happens. Sincere friendship between friends needs to be cultivated and cherished. Interpersonal communication should pay attention to principles, but clear water has no fish, and people have no friends. Everyone has his own shortcomings. It can't be perfect Therefore, we should give consideration to both oil and water and handle some special relations flexibly. In order to make your social circle bigger and bigger.