For example, the relationship between colleagues in the business department can't be very good, and most of them just exist on the surface. I am the channel manager of a brand lighting store, and my colleagues are always responsible for business development. I have a good impression on him, because the office often helps to repair this and move that, and is very enthusiastic. The change of his impression lies in one thing. Once, Yong was in charge of taking care of a new college graduate in the business department, called Lin for short. Lin is open-minded, curious and diligent. In less than a month, he opened a bill for 500,000 yuan and became a regular employee in advance. The boss of the company specially rewarded him. It spread all over the company, only to find that Yong's attitude towards him was getting worse and worse. Usually very friendly and even swearing at Lin, sometimes business resources are deliberately not allocated to him. This attitude of the superior disheartened Lin and decided to resign and leave the company. Yong resumed his usual kind persuasion attitude, but in the end he didn't drive him away, and our impression of Yong was greatly reduced. In fact, it is normal for colleagues to have competition, especially when interests are linked, and the effect brought by cooperation should not be underestimated. If you don't control your jealousy, you can only lose both sides. Company leaders are very taboo to praise only one person for a long time, and they are also making many enemies for him.
Another example is that my neighbor is a teacher. Once I had a fruit group purchase activity, and everyone who had an appointment came to my house to get my own strawberries. Finally, I lost a strawberry. Because my family installed surveillance to prevent thieves in the early years, I looked at it. It turned out that the neighbor next door took an extra copy, but I still hoped that she took it by mistake, so I sent a notice to the owner, hoping that the neighbor who took it by mistake would take it by herself. As a result, after waiting for a day, the other party still didn't. Everyone is greedy for petty gain. If you don't control it, you will really lose a lot because of small things. Even if you do 99 good deeds, you will remember the wrong person better.
It is understandable that no one is perfect. In the face of interests, if you can control your inner dark side well, I believe you will get more than you think.