What kind of life do you want?

? If it was ten years ago, that ignorant and lovely pupil might have answered you:

I want to be a singer! Hahaha, when I was a child, I dreamed of standing on the stage and being surrounded by applause because I saw someone singing on the stage on TV. Although primary school began to sing often, at that time, I was really scolded every day and sang badly. However, after five or six years of training, I was praised as a person who sang with emotion when I opened my mouth, so that I later gained several good friends who sang in high school.

? If I answer you now:

Find a stable job, have a stable income and healthy parents. If you are lucky, you can buy a house of your own in your 18th-tier small city, have a happy family, occasionally pick up Creary and sing a few songs, and you can live a quiet life.

Haha, after the destruction of time, I found that plain is true, and most people are ordinary people!

I am a dreamer. If I use a few words to evaluate my former self, I am a bit arrogant and stubborn in nature. Of course, I believe many young people will go through this stage. After all, the Internet has witnessed too much prosperity. In broad daylight, I may see myself in my mind as a billionaire, living in a big villa, hahahaha, or "daydreaming" for short, and the reality in front of me will pull you back violently.

After all, he is still an ordinary person who gradually realizes the reality.

Now, I am probably a person who earns 80 yuan and spends 30 yuan on milk tea barbecue. Nothing is more important than happiness.

Life is about experiences, not results.

I know that many times we want a result too much. We feel anxious when we see our classmates getting married, buying cars, having children and finding jobs, but everyone's life has its own trajectory.

A few days ago, I saw a classmate with a good personality in my high school send his own circle of friends with depression. I was completely shocked at that time, but it was a bit wrong to think about my state for a while. There was a emotional breakdown every day for more than a month, and even some bad behaviors appeared. Then I don't know how to jump out of that strange circle. I recalled it. One's life should not be trapped by something. Some sources of anxiety are what you should do at this point in time according to the practices left by the past or China for thousands of years. But many times we should know what we want and take it step by step. Even if we don't have it for the time being, don't worry, because no one can guarantee that the road will be smooth forever. The most important thing is to ensure that we are happy.

So many times, I hope my life is dull. I can trade time for money for life and money for time. I believe that most adults are asked what kind of life you want, that is, to have your own yard, enough money, and to sit on the roadside and watch all kinds of people come and go in your spare time. I hope you don't lose yourself when you ask yourself what kind of life you want. Life experience is more important than anything else!