What should I do if my girlfriend cheats?

The best way to deal with girlfriend's infidelity. When girlfriend's infidelity, we should avoid unnecessary losses. We should prepare sufficient evidence to expose him and tell your friends and his friends, but don't stimulate her in a deceptive way like him. Because since he cheated, he certainly doesn't love you. Of course, if you try a special situation, it's another matter, just like you told him not to go out for a drink, but she went and something happened, which is unforgivable. If he is leaving and suddenly meets an accident in an alley, I think you should comfort him well, if you can accept it. Now that he has given up one of his bottom lines, you don't have to have any principles for him. You can collect evidence and then find the right opportunity to break up with him to avoid unnecessary losses. Collect evidence after your girlfriend cheats. Although it is said that only couples are not married, this issue has always been the most sensitive issue in relationships, but you should be glad that you are not married. If married, such a woman doesn't know what disaster it will bring to her family in the future. Don't panic now, get evidence first, lest he cheat when you settle accounts with him. How to collect evidence, as well as your usual living habits, depends on yourself. If he often goes out and comes home late, I suggest you follow him. If he already knows that he is cheating, he may restrain himself recently, but don't panic, he will show his flaws sooner or later. Girlfriend cheating should break up. Although it is said that the girlfriend is cheating, for many people, it will not break up, but it has touched everyone's moral bottom line. Since he betrayed his body and he didn't cherish it, you don't need to talk to him anymore. After breaking up, you will meet someone better, maybe not someone you like very much, but at least you can meet a real person. As long as you work hard to improve yourself, you can meet people thousands of times more than him again. Girlfriend broke up, so try to improve yourself. In fact, his cheating should be partly due to her own reasons. Maybe she is not as good as he thinks, or she doesn't give him enough material needs. Since he can't come back from the affair, she should strive to improve herself while ensuring that her interests are not infringed. Finally, you will be promoted to a certain high speed. When you meet a better person, and then meet the excellent self and the excellent other half, you will see his joy and regret. What should I do if my girlfriend cheats? 2 save the derailed girlfriend. First, whether you have a girlfriend in your heart is a great blow to men. Many boys will define their girlfriends because of this incident, thus denying their love for their girlfriends. Therefore, if you want to recover, you must first face up to your heart and see if you still love your girlfriend. Save the derailed girlfriend II. It has become an unchangeable fact to face up to girlfriend's infidelity and girlfriend's infidelity. If you want to recover, you must face up to this problem and think about whether you can really let go. The past has always been the past, and if it is mentioned from time to time after success, it will undoubtedly hurt two people. Therefore, if you want to save your derailed girlfriend, you must think about it clearly. Third, save the derailed girlfriend. Understand the reason why my girlfriend cheated. The first two steps are to understand the face of derailment from your own direction. Now it's time to look at the reasons why my girlfriend cheated on me and my views on whether we can continue to be together in the future. It may not count if you want to save yourself, but you should also know whether your girlfriend has this idea and the reason why your girlfriend broke up. Save the derailed girlfriend. 4. Get along after being together. Knowing the reasons for his girlfriend's infidelity, you can also find your own shortcomings. Of course, it is necessary to correct and improve. If we can continue, the best way to plan the future is to make progress together, whether in career or life. We should also learn how to deal with problems and so on. Save the derailed girlfriend. The past is the past. After being together, we have to change. We must manage together and get better and better together. But how can there be no friction and no quarrel in feelings? But when quarreling, we must remember that the past is the past, and mentioning the past will not only hurt ourselves, but also hurt each other. So in order to maintain this restored relationship, it is best to turn over. What should I do if my girlfriend cheats? 1. The performance of girlfriend's cheating is 1. I don't want to call you voluntarily, and I don't want you to see her again. When you don't contact her as often as usual, she doesn't take the initiative to call, send a message saying that she misses you, and she doesn't talk to you about her recent situation on the phone. Every time you are in Kan Kan, she becomes more and more silent. This change in women should also attract the attention of men. To maintain a long-distance relationship, someone has to pay more. Maybe she will be very happy if you visit her in her city by car. However, if she vaguely doesn't want you to see her anymore and always refuses to meet you under various excuses, it means that there must be a ghost in her heart. Maybe she's afraid you'll find out about it. 2, the attitude towards you is getting colder and colder, and the contact is getting less and less. If your girlfriend has someone else in mind, you should hear her change every time you call. Cheating women will be perfunctory and impatient on the phone. She doesn't like talking with you on the phone anymore. Every time she contacts, she always finds various excuses and reasons to end quickly. And if you can't keep in touch often, your feelings will be alienated sooner or later. If your long-distance girlfriend has an affair, you will find that the connection between you has gradually decreased unconsciously. Good night greeting every day has become a luxury. Even if you send her a message, she won't reply to you at the first time. This alienation in contact is a sign that the other party is cheating. She has become very busy and doesn't like your surprise any more. Sometimes a long-distance girlfriend doesn't answer your phone or return your messages. She may use being busy as an excuse to deal with you. But will you really be deceived by her poor excuse? Actually, the truth is often not how busy she is, but that she doesn't care about you. Because I am in love with someone else, I feel that it is a waste to spend time on you. When people in long distance love each other, they always hope that they can have time to visit themselves in their own cities. But when a woman in a long-distance relationship has derailed and fallen in love with someone else, she will no longer like this surprise from her boyfriend. Because she is afraid that you will break the secret of cheating, and then the surprise will turn into fright. Who is more embarrassed than who? Second, the reason for the breakup of long-distance love 1, no confidence. "Love really needs courage to believe that it will be together. As long as your eyes are firm, my love is meaningful. " Is Fish Leong brave enough? When I was a child, my parents said that I would take you to McDonald's as long as I scored 100, so you worked hard and wanted to take10/. This is the power of the "predictable future". The same is true in love. Set a reward content for your love, so that the future will not be far away. For example, we can travel together during holidays, relive the scenes we just met on the first anniversary, and even plan the future together and talk about future plans ... These plans are like a 100% reward in exams, which makes people more confident to fight for it. 2. Don't share a long-distance relationship. Two people can't meet, and then don't tell each other what they are doing today. This will make the other party feel unsafe, make the other party feel that you can't find you. If you don't share what you see and hear in your daily life, it will seriously lead to the other party's distrust of you, and you will do stupid things because of a whim. In fact, sharing life with each other is the most effective way to eliminate the sense of distance. From life decision-making to eating and sleeping, parents can tell each other, eliminate each other's strangeness, get familiar with each other, effectively reduce your contradictions and keep your love fresh. For example, taking food and scenery; Forward meaningful circle of friends; A funny joke; Real-time news; Share gossip; Spit out the things around you. Sharing at any time is also conducive to increasing each other's sense of security. You don't need to ask him where he is and what he is doing, because he will share it with you at any time. This state of getting along is very comfortable. 3. Cold War As we all know, couples in long-distance relationships are the most likely to quarrel. Once one side gets angry, the cold war begins. The two never meet, but they are deadlocked because of the quarrel. Both sides will ignore each other and pretend to be indifferent to each other, which will make him feel that you don't care about him. Long-distance lovers are very hard and can't meet each other. They can only maintain their relationship by chatting and making phone calls every day. Once the consequences of the cold war are very serious, if both sides refuse to bow their heads, their feelings will become weaker and weaker, and finally they will become more and more dispersed. If there is an inevitable quarrel, you should also talk about the facts, not the people. No matter how angry you are, don't say anything that embarrasses the other person. After all, both of them are familiar with each other and know that those words hurt people. Don't hurt each other for honesty in a quarrel, because the damage and cracks won't be easily erased. 4. When betraying a long-distance relationship, the usual life is still lonely. When a warm-hearted person suddenly appears, when he is ill, this warm-hearted person comes to accompany himself. When I'm bored, I start to have company. And my other half, in the distance, can't warm his heart at all. Gradually, there is a contrast, so I don't want to continue my long-distance relationship, and instead I am with this warm-hearted person. If men and women in long-distance love don't meet for a long time, both men and women will have physical needs and will be tempted one day. It is terrible for men and women who have not been satisfied for a long time. Although they are always bound by morality, only saints can do it. Now the traffic is developed, and the high-speed train from Beijing to Shenzhen takes only one day. If there is an opportunity, you should touch each other in the same physical space and feel each other's real existence. Try to make a plan for your love, how often to meet, or when to travel. Regular meeting will keep the breath of hormones between you two, increase the sweetness of love and reduce the risk of cheating on each other. It's better to say goodbye than to get married. I'm sure you'll be happy to meet once in a long time. 5. Suspicion mutual suspicion proves that your relationship is not based on trust, which is an extremely horrible thing in normal love, let alone long-distance love. Mutual suspicion will make your relationship very fragile, and everything around you may become the starting point of your conflict. If you are really skeptical about your relationship, you might as well do a test and send him a message when the other person often plays with his mobile phone: Have you done anything wrong that is sorry for me? Pull it back after you send it, and then see the other party's reaction. If he is in a hurry to explain to you, it proves that you are very important in his heart, but if you take your time and come back after a long time, it proves that you are not in his heart. Of course, it is best not to try this method easily. No one likes each other to test themselves like this, nor can they be based on the test results. If the result is not good, you should confirm it, not believe it. Third, a guide to preventing long-distance love from cheating, you need to try to regard long-distance love as an opportunity for growth, not a test. Why do you say that? First of all, we must see two premises clearly: first, long-distance love cannot last forever, and it is "one" after all; Second, people who want to be together should learn how to be alone in intimate relationships. Simply put, long-distance love is actually just a form in the whole emotional life, and this form is definitely not eternal. In any case, long-distance love will eventually become a small world and intimate relationship between two people. Therefore, before you "merge into one", use the form of long-distance love to improve yourself and make yourself independent and not completely attached to each other. After this ability is cultivated, it is good for long-distance love and intimate relationship. As mentioned earlier, many people choose to "escape relationships" because there is no sense of space in intimate relationships. In other words, sometimes being too attached is also an important reason for your partner to cheat. Therefore, it is the only way to cultivate one's sense of independence and the ability to love oneself by using the sense of distance of long-distance love. In the case of these two points, you can also prevent the other half from cheating in a long-distance relationship by these means: 1, set the same goal * * * For example, two people can agree to travel to a place they have never been to at a certain time. In this way, before the trip is reached, you will have many topics to talk about; 2, avoid setting limits Many couples in different places like to set limits to limit the possibility of the other half cheating. However, such restrictions often have no practical effect and will only increase mutual distrust. If you are really uneasy, you can simply understand each other's travel time and share a message, which not only increases your trust, but also makes you feel at ease. Love needs loyalty and trust, so always look on the bright side. When you start to doubt whether your long-distance girlfriend has betrayed you, you must feel something is wrong. Maybe you think she didn't reply to the message in time, or maybe her words are getting impatient. Anyway, there must be a chance. For two people in long-distance love, it is very hard to maintain a relationship. If you want to keep yourself from being cheated by your girlfriend and keep your long-distance relationship fresh, you must learn the skills of maintaining relationships.