Parents can play some balls with their baby, buy some light balls to play catch games with their baby, and practice catching balls with both hands can exercise their baby to eliminate distractions, such as anger, anxiety and depression, because this will make the baby gradually like sports. You can also pick up soft things. Like a little pillow.
2. fishing; catch fish
Fishing is a very good way to exercise people's patience. Parents can take their children fishing together. Although the atmosphere is quiet, it is warm and harmonious, which can make children gain more.
Step 3 fly a kite
Flying kites is the favorite of many children. I believe many people have fond memories of flying kites in their childhood. Parents can take their babies to fly kites in the suburbs on weekends or holidays, which can not only breathe fresh air, but also exercise their arm strength and eyesight, make their children open-minded and enhance communication and exchanges between parents and children.
Step 4 swing
Swing is really fun. Parents can act as boosters, supervise their children and gently push the swing for their babies. You will hear the baby's cheerful laughter, and your heart will be very happy, which will enhance the feelings between parents and children. It is said that swinging for 20 minutes every day will increase the "happiness factor" secreted by the brain by 80%.
After reading the above, I believe everyone has a better understanding of parent-child games. The emergence of parent-child games not only solves the communication problem between parents and children, but also helps parents to know their children better and get close to them, which makes many parents who have a headache for parent-child relationship find a good solution. But I still want to remind parents to pay more attention to the safety of their children in the process of parent-child games. I hope I can help you.
Children who are arranged to grow up often feel inferior. Visitors or friends often complain: my child is 4 years old and still needs breastfeeding; The child is 6 years old and needs parents' help in taking a bath. Why can't my children clean up their toys like other children?
In life, we often see such a scene. Parents hold rice bowls and earnestly beg their children to eat. The child is absent-minded, and the spoon doesn't open its mouth until it is fed. It takes an hour to finish a meal. Children play with toys and their parents instruct them to play like this. They also bring fresh toys from time to time to attract children's attention. Finally, the toys were thrown all over the floor, so that parents could nag and tidy up. It's time for the child to take a bath. Parents are not at ease to ask, do you know how to wash your hair? Lower your head and close your eyes. Wash your hair first, then rinse it ... when the child comes out, he complains that there is foam there. "I'll help you wash it next time."
These parents have one thing in common. They have become agents of their children's lives. Those abilities that can develop naturally after exercise are firmly bound by parents' criticism, accusation and protection. In fact, since children have deciduous teeth, they can start with their own spoons and basically eat by themselves. With the development of children's coordination ability, basic life items such as packing toys and taking a bath can be completed after certain training.
In this way, parents worry about themselves and hinder the healthy development of their children. Specifically, there are the following aspects: 1 Children are too dependent on their parents. Everything is done by parents, and children will get used to "using clothes to get enough food", which not only destroys the independent will, but also forms the bad habit of being lazy and dependent. 2. Affect the development of muscle groups. In the process of doing things, children's flexibility, muscles and coordination ability will also be developed. Parents do everything on their behalf, depriving children of opportunities for development. 3. Stop children from developing themselves and knowing the world. The process of children's understanding of the world and themselves needs to be carried out through interaction with the surrounding environment. How does a child protected by his parents interact with his surroundings? How can you see your position clearly when you can't hear different voices and touch the surrounding cold and hot? 4. Affect the establishment of self-confidence. Poor self-care ability will also affect the development of children's other abilities, such as social communication ability and problem-solving ability, thus affecting children's confidence in doing things. In severe cases, children will feel anxious, timid and even have anxiety and depression. When a child reaches a certain age, but still can't control his basic life, he will doubt himself and worry about his inability to support himself. So, you are either old or anxious.
How can parents let go and avoid becoming agents?
First of all, understand the child's development stage, let go at an appropriate time, and give some guidance and behavior training. For example, when children can basically order where they want with a spoon, parents can put rice in a small bowl and make a demonstration to encourage their children to eat with a spoon. It should be noted that at the beginning, children should be allowed to play with rice, grasp it with their hands and eat a meal all over the table. After several attempts, you can slowly learn to eat by yourself. Secondly, be a supporter of children and encourage them to explore the unknown. For example, if a child takes a bath, tell him what he can't do and call his parents. Children should be allowed to pay some "tuition fees" in the process of learning, for example, breaking things, soiling clothes and washing them badly. Third, be a helper for children, not an agent. Many parents complain that the current handicraft class is for parents, and the children themselves will not and do not want to do it. In the process of handcrafting, parents are supporters and helpers, inspiring and guiding children to finish their works, which is not only a good opportunity for parent-child interaction, but also can lead children to solve problems, achieve goals and build self-confidence.
Too strong a mother is not conducive to the growth of children. In some families, mothers are very strong. Almost all the big and small things in the family are decided by the mother alone, and she often accuses her father in front of her children and belittles her image. This is not good, that is not right. Husband and wife quarreled about educating their children and denied their father's methods, so the father ignored the education of their children. What mom says is what she says.
A child's food, clothing, housing and transportation are all taught, guided and arranged by his mother. Everything about the child is done for him three times, five times and two times, and the child is not allowed to start work. Take the son as the only object of emotional sustenance.
How to decorate your home, what clothes to wear when you get up in the morning, what to eat for dinner, where to go on weekends, what specialties your children learn, and so on. The mother has the final say in everything at home, and the father is like a servant. Of course, children have no right to speak.
The mother helps the child think everything, asks the child to follow the prescribed path, and thinks that all the arrangements she makes are beneficial to the child. As long as children follow their own ideas, they can approach and achieve their goals according to the predetermined track.
In fact, this will make children gradually lose themselves, lose the right to choose independently, and lack the ability to stand on their own feet, which will seriously affect their lives.
Always compare the shortcomings of children with the advantages of other children, and you can't see the little progress of children. Once there is a little mistake or mistake in the exam or other aspects, parents will blame them, and once they fail to meet her requirements, they will be scolded.
In fact, this kind of life is very tiring. Once you feel that you are inferior to others, you will be depressed and have some bad emotions, which will soon spread to children and make the whole family lose happiness.
Mother's words and deeds play a very important and direct role in the formation of children's own way of thinking and behavior. How to lead children to grow up healthily is a skill that many mothers lack in real life.
Although parents love their children, they inadvertently ignore their fathers, and children lack an object of recognition when they grow up. In family education, father and mother play different roles, and neither side can completely replace the other's contribution. Mom and dad are the first people of the same sex and the opposite sex that children know. Being friendly with them can help children learn how to get along with friends of the same sex and the opposite sex when they grow up, which determines their interpersonal skills.
Boys in a family without a father's role will lack a correct definition of men and masculinity. In a family, the mother is more comprehensive, the father can make decisions on key issues, and the children can participate in various family discussions and decisions democratically. Only in such a family atmosphere can children experience intimacy, respect and equality.
Mothers should learn to help their fathers establish an image at home. Instead of criticizing and accusing their fathers in front of their children, they should show respect and trust for others in front of their children. Strong mothers should also learn to be gentle, and their pronunciation and intonation should be gentle and polite, not too overbearing. Otherwise, it is easy for children to form unhealthy psychology, which is extremely unfavorable to their growth.
A harmonious relationship between husband and wife can create a warm family environment, which makes both husband and wife feel happy and will unconsciously affect and infect their children, so the children will grow up happily.
In front of children, mothers should give their fathers and wives equal status and space, so that children have the opportunity to develop feelings with their fathers. At the same time, husband and wife should respect each other's differences and create a democratic, independent and respectful family atmosphere for their children through consultation and cooperation.
In real life, the consequences of a strong mother are also terrible. Mothers instill in their children the idea that the role of father is gradually ignored. In the eyes of children, the mother gradually lost her gentleness and thoughtfulness, but became tough and strict.
Family education is not only a science, but also an art, which needs scientific teaching wisdom and parenting methods. Be a gentle mother. Educating children correctly will make them happier and help them grow up.
Kai-fu Lee: The growing' 10 inspiration Kai-fu Lee (196 1 12.3-) is an executive in the information industry and a researcher in computer science. From 65438 to 0998, Kai-fu Lee joined Microsoft Corporation, and then founded Microsoft China Research Institute (now Microsoft Asia Research Institute). Joined Google on July 20th, 2005, and served as global vice president and president of China. On September 4th, 2009, he announced his resignation and founded innovation works as the chairman and CEO.
First, be modest and confident.
When I was 4 years old, I said to my parents, "Kindergarten is so boring. I don't want to go to school. I want to go to primary school. " My mother saw that I was full of confidence and decided, "As long as I pass the exam, you will go."
Fortunately, I was admitted, because I was too young, my parents took the initiative to help me contact private schools.
One day, my neighbor's aunt saw me and joked with me, "Can you read?"
"I haven't seen 99 points yet." The implication is to get 100 points every time.
A week later, I came home with a 90-point test paper and was really beaten by my mother. Mother was very angry: "I remember what you boasted to your aunt that day." I hit you not because of poor grades, but because you are too arrogant. "
From then on, I wrote down this lesson and benefited from it all my life-self-confidence, but self-confidence should be modest.
Second, talent is interest, and interest is talent.
I started studying in America when I was ten years old.
I started my first business in high school and made napkin buckles with my classmates. Because my clients are my parents, I made some money. In the second year, I asked my tutor to start over. I wanted to find a real client. At that time, the school changed the lunch time from 70 minutes to 50 minutes, and the students had great opinions. We seized this opportunity to sell T-shirts with "I want longlunch" printed on them to our classmates, which was very popular.
Many years later, someone asked me: What if I don't know what I like? I told him: then spend more time looking for interest; If you can't find it again, I'll give you a secret-talent is interest and interest is talent.
Thinking is more important than preaching. Opinions are more important than puzzles.
I chose the computer department because of my interest in college. Nick, the head of the department, conveyed an idea to us-thinking is more important than preaching, and opinions are more important than solving doubts.
Education is what remains when all knowledge is forgotten, that is, the ability to learn.
I disagree with you, but I support you.
In my graduation thesis, I met a little trouble, which was different from the direction of my tutor. Do you resist authority or stick to your own ideas? My tutor's attitude towards me is-I don't agree with you, but I support you. Not only let me try it myself, but also won me financial support. His words are still impressive: "In the field of science, we must have brains and everyone is equal."
5. Frustration is not a punishment, but an opportunity to learn.
After graduation, I stayed in school to teach. One of my tasks is to teach a group of talented high school students programming. After eight weeks of teaching, all 60 students passed the exam. I'm glad to get my salary from the dean.
There is a stack of students' comments on the teacher on the dean's desk. I asked to see it, and the result was terrible.
My classmates nicknamed me, calling my class "8 o'clock opening and closing theater", saying that my class made people sleepy, and God knows how good I felt at that time.
But frustration is not a punishment, but an opportunity to learn. I took the initiative to consult popular teachers, who taught me to make eye contact in teaching. If I am shy, I will look at the top of my classmates in the last row. If you are nervous on the stage, put your hand on the podium, and people won't see you shaking. To this day, I still keep these habits.
6. Innovation is not important, but useful innovation is important.
I taught for two years, joined Apple, and then went to SGI (American Visual Computing Technology Company). I made a cool 3D browser in SGI. Has anyone used it under the stage? No? Of course, because of the failure, a team of about 100 people eventually lost 90 jobs.
Why did such a cool product fail? Because scientists make products, the standard of measurement is "new", but the industry first requires "useful".
The same is true of our entrepreneurship-innovation is not important, but useful innovation is important.
Seven, we need to change what can be changed with courage, accept what cannot be changed with heart, and distinguish differences with wisdom.
In 2005, Google will enter China, and I want to jump ship. As a result, my master Microsoft was very angry and the problem was very serious. Google and I were taken to court. Microsoft used tens of millions of dollars to hire top lawyers to stop me, and the media also questioned my integrity.
I used all my legal and computer knowledge, and with persistence, the lawsuit won.
Sometimes, we need courage to change what can be changed, heart to accept what cannot be changed, and wisdom to distinguish the difference.
Eight, if you are thirsty for knowledge, if you are open-minded.
In September 2005, I started working at Google. I learned not only the most accurate search technology and the largest data center, but also the best innovation model and how to build a company that engineers yearn for most.
The United States has done a survey, and people have changed four to five jobs on average in their lives. If you are eager for knowledge, if you are stupid, you must keep it forever.
Follow your heart and lead your life with it. Everything else is secondary.
Everyone always has something to stick to. Follow your heart and lead your life with it. Everything else is secondary. Don't let anyone's opinion drown your heart.
The value of a person lies not in how much you have, but in how much you leave behind.
I chose innovation works this time, which was established in September this year. I try 20 new ideas every year and split 3-5 independent operating companies. My goal is to turn it into an entrepreneurial Whampoa Military Academy.
Is this the right choice? What is the purpose of life? Is it money? Will you be happier after you get it? Where is your value?