1, what happened to Uncle Lai?
As adults, we all know that women menstruate once a month, and women are regarded as their big aunts. For a long time, Bian Xiao thought it was a unique physiological feature of women, but it was not the case. In fact, men also have a physiological period once a month, and male friends can actually be called uncles. When uncles and aunts come to both husband and wife at the same time, their desire, body and temper can easily reach a threshold. Haha at this time
Women have big aunts, and men don't want to fall behind, so they look for big uncles. The most common male physiological period is also 28 days. During this period, men will experience a round of psychological low tide, and with the outbreak of emotions, they will cause physical discomfort such as decreased immunity and lack of desire.
In fact, the hormones in men will also change, and the contents of testosterone and androgen in men show a downward trend and are at the lowest point. Of course, men's cycle boundaries are vague, and not everyone has obvious cycles, not necessarily every month. But one thing is similar to that of women. Men on holidays are also very fragile, with symptoms such as weakness, mood swings, sadness and depression, which are mainly manifested in the following aspects:
Decreased resistance, weak constitution, easy to catch a cold, headache, backache, easy to get prostate disease; I'm fidgeting, I'm not in the state of doing anything, my rhythm and intonation become uneven, my voice is low, and my words are unclear; Indifferent and irritable, I will get angry from time to time when I see my wife or girlfriend no longer having sweet words.
Depressed and bored, I often worry about some inexplicable little things, always smoking a stuffy cigarette alone and panting from time to time; Eyes dim, seems to be always avoiding something, very fragile; Look a little shy, unhappy, unhappy; Easy to be jealous and become petty; Sexual interest is greatly reduced.
However, as long as men communicate with others more, there will be great improvement. Because of more communication, psychological adjustment can make men learn to decompress and relax themselves during holidays. If you can do what you like, you'd better relax. Usually work pressure is high. At this time, you might as well take a short vacation, turn off your mobile phone and computer, listen to music, read books and stroll around. Communicate with friends, especially male friends, and talk about some positive topics.
Finally, the small series of "Men's Sexual Health" wants to tell you that in fact, when the uncle comes, men will think a lot. As relatives of women, they can be gentle, or suggest being gentle, so that men will love you more and put you in the most important psychological position.
2. The performance of men coming to their uncles
1. fidgeting
When a man's period comes, he will show fidgeting. You ask him what's wrong, and he says he doesn't want to talk, which has been confusing you.
Fidgeting is a sign of a man's inner anxiety. He doesn't know why he is upset, but he just can't control himself.
I don't know what I want to do.
There was a time when men didn't know what they wanted to do or what they needed. He always sits reading, but always turns the book over; Or watch TV, but the TV station is tuned and I can't find what I want to watch. When going out for dinner or shopping, he is usually so opinionated that he can't make up his mind. Let you choose.
During the physiological period, a man doesn't know himself, let alone others, so don't make him make up his mind and let him stop for a while.
indifferent
He suddenly became cold, even cold, and he didn't take the initiative to talk when he saw you. When you try to get close to him, he feels unaccustomed and will give you a bad look and think that you have influenced him.
Usually active and attentive, he disappeared and became indifferent, as if he could not see you. Leave him alone, don't disturb him, the physiological period will pass.
4. unclear language
As long as you are careful, you can find that for a period of time, the rhythm and intonation of men's speech became uneven, their voices were low, their words were unclear, and they might even be accompanied by stuttering. Don't think that he has been hit by something and become stupid. In fact, it is only the most common physiological period.
When a man is in the physiological period, his nerves will become nervous inexplicably. In a tense situation, his words will change, but don't think that he has done something wrong to you.
get angry
At ordinary times, he takes care of you, not letting you suffer any injustice, not letting you shed half a tear. However, he has changed. From time to time, he will get angry or worry about some inexplicable little things. That cheerful smiling face can no longer appear on his face, pulling a long face all day.
During the physiological period, a man will have endless fire in his heart, and a little thing can be a fuse, igniting the raging fire in his heart and making him angry.
Smoke an airtight cigarette.
Men always regard smoking and drinking as a good medicine to relieve their troubles. When they are unhappy, they either go out to drink and have fun with friends, or smoke alone and catch their breath from time to time.
He hoped to get out of the trough of physiological period as soon as possible and restore his optimistic self, but before he could cope, he smoked a stuffy cigarette and tried his best.
If you don't understand your husband's psychological cycle, you are likely to suffer an inexplicable emotional blow at this time. You will find that for no obvious reason, the beloved man will suddenly alienate himself every once in a while.
He seems cold and doesn't even want to talk to you. He always hides aside, or reads books or watches TV. When you try to approach your husband, his reaction will be unacceptable. He would dodge and even say loudly, "Go away and leave me alone." If you think love is over, you are wrong. In fact, this is a cycle that men only have under the psychological "period", but it is neither his fault nor yours to be divorced from love.
When the husband's psychological cycle comes, the wife should not try to pull him back. A woman should use this time to do something she wants to do, set him free and keep him away from your attention. In a few days, he will come back by himself.
You need to make your husband feel that life is rich in meaning, and don't let him concentrate entirely on career gains and losses. If you want your husband to realize that there are many other pleasures and goals in life besides success, the best way is for his wife to try as many leisure and entertainment ways as possible through her own driving force, whether it is tourism, fitness, collection, piano, chess, calligraphy and painting, which can achieve this goal.