1, students' mental health problems are often ignored. As a middle school student, on the one hand, the pressure of homework is relatively high, on the other hand, adolescence will inevitably encounter various "growing troubles", which will be reflected in their own psychology to some extent. When a person feels confused and depressed, what he needs most is to talk and get sincere understanding and help from others. After reading the discussion on this topic, I hope teachers and parents can understand children and give them equal communication and help. I also hope that students can learn some lessons from it and spend their campus life happily and calmly.
2. The psychological shadow buried by acne
When I was in the first year of high school, my body grew taller inadvertently, and my face bloomed with youthful "brilliance". I haven't had time to hang my eyebrows happily. Generally, acne can be cured without taking medicine or injection, but the acne on my face has been seriously infected due to improper treatment, so I have to see a doctor, and the effect is not good in a short time. Accompanied by physical pain, followed by a heavy psychological burden, so there is less communication and dialogue with classmates, especially in the face of girls, I feel very ashamed, afraid to look up, and my mood is extremely low. Gradually, I slipped into the abyss of inferiority, and my personality also moved towards self-isolation. It was the respectable teacher who took me out of my psychological shadow. Here, I would like to advise those middle school students who have the same distress as me to put aside their worries, because some physiological phenomena are actually nothing serious, and there is no need to feel inferior for them. You should communicate with teachers and classmates more, treat these temporary phenomena correctly and openly, and don't let them affect your good mood.
3, the hidden dangers of adolescence
Behind the seemingly bustling campus life, there are actually many lonely hearts. One is the inferiority complex caused by poor performance or appearance ability. These students often can't see their own strengths, and long-term depression causes psychological problems. Out of shyness or fear of being laughed at, most students choose to "drink bitter wine by themselves" and seldom tell their troubles to outsiders, even friends or family.
Psychologists analyze that every child has the following four psychological needs:
1. Parents' love and care;
2. Being accepted and respected;
3. Get the appreciation of others;
4. Have a position at home.
Some children can use good behavior to please their parents and gain appreciation, so as to meet their psychological needs; But some children can't do this. When psychological needs are not met, inappropriate behavior will be used as compensation.
Four kinds of misconduct
Number one: attract attention. Children need their parents' attention to feel their parents' attention. When children can't get their parents' attention from good behavior, they will use wrong behavior to achieve their goals.
The second type: struggle for power and profit. Children, like adults, feel important and need to be respected and accepted by others. When children feel that their parents use power to dominate themselves, they will show their ability by resisting. The more parents exercise authority, the greater the children's resistance.
The third type: revenge. In the process of fighting for power with parents, children are often losers; He turned to revenge for stabbing his parents. The child thinks that only in this way can parents know his importance.
The fourth type: give up on yourself. When a child feels that he is useless and even loses the courage to confront and retaliate, he will escape other people's demands by showing incompetence.
Psychological problems need not only the help of parents. In the end, you have to rely on yourself! Parents are the best teachers for children. Nowadays, parents are busy working hard for their careers. To put it mildly, they are working hard for their children. Now, their daily life depends on schools, lunch classes and boarding schools. Sometimes, parents seldom accompany their children on Saturday and Sunday. It will inevitably have an unnecessary psychological impact on children. Children nowadays should learn to be strong and independent. After all, you still have to rely on yourself in the future, but don't have pressure! Still have fun!