So, what is life education? Why is life education so important? How do ordinary families and parents educate their children about life?
What is life education?
Human Resources and Social Security The Vocational Training Course "Life Education Instructor" launched by China Employment Training Technical Guidance Center in May 20 12 pointed out that life education is an education to face life and human life and death, and its goal is to make people learn to respect life, understand the meaning of life and the relationship between life and people, learn to live actively, live healthily and develop independently, and learn to care for each other, record, be grateful and share life.
The importance of life education in China's education system: indomitable spirit, strong foothold and strong middle stream.
Ouyang Kang, director of the Institute of Philosophy of Huazhong University of Science and Technology, pointed out that life education should not only be based, but also play a variety of powerful roles in the middle end.
The so-called "reaching heaven" value is the high-end value of life education. I hope that through life education, our children can become the best talents, improve their realm, let our children show the brilliance of life, and use the expectations of our parents, that is, they can truly honor their ancestors.
The so-called "venue" value is to help our college students, middle school students, primary school students, and even the youngest children learn to cope with all kinds of survival puzzles they will encounter from birth and successfully complete the course of life. Also known as the bottom line value, it is to eliminate or help them eliminate all kinds of challenges and puzzles in their lives, save their lives, save our families and save our society.
The so-called "middle stream" value is also a very common value, which is applicable to all our college students, middle school students, primary school students, all children and even parents. It is to guide our lives, so that everyone can work and live happily and make the society more harmonious and beautiful!
Everyone knows that life education is very important, but as an ordinary family, ordinary parents, how to educate their children?
In my opinion, parents' life education, the most grounded guidance and education can achieve the greatest effect.
First, cultivate children's two virtues, one is love and the other is responsibility.
If a child has these two qualities, he will cherish his life and handle well the relationship with family, school, society and others. So, how should parents cultivate these two virtues?
For example, your child quarreled with his classmates. Did you take him to have a big fight with his classmates, even to extremes? Or did you teach him to be good at coordination and handle conflicts between classmates?
In fact, through every little thing in a child's life, parents can teach him how to know the society, himself and others.
In life, parents can also arrange their children to do some simple social welfare activities, guide them to care for the elderly and the weak, and let them have a sense of love and responsibility in the experience.
At home, parents try to let their children do some housework, and adults can also assign some housework that children are interested in. Children can feel pride as a family member and feel a deep sense of responsibility.
At the same time, parents should set an example. Parents are the best role models and teachers for children. Parents in life care about others and have a sense of responsibility for family and career, and children will naturally follow suit.
Second, when the child is faced with confusion and setbacks, teach him to be optimistic and consciously respond to various challenges.
Nowadays, children are no less confused than adults. For example, they often face economic, learning, emotional, communication, perception, action and other problems, but they do not have the wisdom and ability of adults to solve these problems. At this time, parents should teach their children to consciously cope with various challenges.
Some difficulties, some parents can see at a glance, and some are often ignored by everyone. But in children, it is real and realistic, and some are even intertwined with various difficulties, which are seriously troubled at any time. These children may be wondering at any time how I live so hard. Do I want to live? How can we live better?
For them, such a serious problem will be clear at a glance every day, will be encountered at any time, and will be sharply raised at any time. What is the biggest psychological difficulty for these children? Their sensitivity to life is extremely clear, very strong, and even full of negative colors. Because of such negativity, they may have extreme life events at any time. People in this field may not have much life, but they need the care and guidance of their parents most.
How can I see a rainbow without experiencing wind and rain? Parents should start to guide their children how to face difficulties and setbacks when they are young. You can tell children some strong and brave heroic stories, such as the old man and the sea, the little prince and so on.
A child has a strong imitation ability. When he has the psychological construction to face difficulties bravely, he will follow his hero's example when he encounters difficulties in the future.
If the child is older, you can take him to participate in various persevering experiential activities to temper his strength and will in the experience. The best thing is to cultivate children's habit of persisting in sports. Most children who love sports are optimistic and sunny. Such children, if they encounter problems, are of course optimistic!
Third, parents learn to listen, spend more time with their children and pay attention to their mental health.
Mental health is a very important kind of health, but it is also the most difficult to achieve conscious health. If there is something wrong with our body, there will be organs to feel it immediately. Only the health of the mind depends on the mind.
Realize.
It is difficult for a problematic mind to understand the problems in its own mind. At this time, parents need a kind of sensitivity. When I realize that there are some problems in children, I will wake up.
First of all, we should establish a correct educational concept, adopt scientific educational methods, and pay attention to students' physiological, psychological and social adaptability. A healthy child not only has a sound body, but also has a healthy mind, and can adapt to society with a correct attitude.
Many parents expect their children to be what they think, so they will "over-educate" their children. If parents expect too much from their children and dominate them too much, they will make them vulnerable, and strong repression will distort their personality. Therefore, parents should have moderate expectations for their children.
Secondly, it is very important to create a harmonious and comfortable family atmosphere. Children who grow up in a harmonious family show emotional stability, rich and delicate feelings, cheerful personality, unity, friendship and self-confidence. For children's mental health, it is necessary for parents to create a warm and harmonious family psychological atmosphere for their children.
Life education is a profound and simple course. As parents, when educating their children, they should pay attention to them with new eyes and provide them with healthy and happy growth soil.