Experience lecture on family mental health education 1
/kloc-On the afternoon of May 3, I attended a family education symposium with the theme of "improving the level of family education and paying more attention to the healthy growth of children" in Yangchuntang, Qingyuan, and I was deeply touched.
Schools can build such a good platform for parents and schools to exchange and learn. As parents of students, we are very grateful to the school! As a parent, I can only sum up the cultivation of children's good behavior habits in two words: helplessness. Children just listen to the teacher, but at home is different from at school. Why? Because of the sacred position of teachers in children's hearts, teachers love them most, teachers are omnipotent and uncompromising ... Teachers are the best motivators for children. When children need praise and help, as the parents of their first teacher, we are not as experienced and patient as school teachers. I think that when children enter school, our parents should also enter school, study with their children and graduate together. ...
According to the spirit of this report, combined with the good practices and shortcomings in our family education, after careful reflection, I will pay attention to the following aspects in future family education:
First, care for children and let them grow up in a happy environment.
Family environment is very important for children's growth. Because of the nature of our work, we can't spare much time to spend with our children. Children have been in full-time care at school since kindergarten, and now almost all of them are brought by grandma in the first grade. What's more, neither side pays attention to their emotional control. Being a typical loving father and strict mother at home, there are often some unnecessary quarrels and conflicts, which give children a feeling that their father can be presumptuous at home and lead to poor academic performance. This lesson is extremely profound and irreversible. The biggest feature of education is irreversibility. In this regard, we must correct it in time. First of all, the two sides communicate with each other, understand each other, eliminate misunderstandings and spend more time with their children. If children want to thrive, they should create a happy environment, so that children can feel the warmth of home and the happiness with their parents.
Second, set an example and cultivate children's good conduct.
The first is that parents agree. Husband and wife should be highly consistent in educational principles and concepts, and should not fight with each other, leaving their children at a loss. Secondly, we should form good living habits. Good habits benefit people for life.
Third, respect children and improve their good personality.
In the education of children, we should treat them as subjects with independent personality and respect them, and we should not do everything instead, let alone spoil them. When you encounter something, you should discuss it with your children, let them participate in family management, and learn to handle some basic affairs. Don't think that they can ignore their opinions just because they are young. This is not desirable. The core of people's mental health is self-esteem and self-confidence. As long as self-esteem and self-confidence are achieved, psychological problems rarely appear. If you don't take children seriously, you can't talk about cultivating children's self-esteem. Help children deal with interpersonal relationships. At this stage, children's interpersonal relationship is mainly partnership. Good peer relationship can make children get respect among peers and have a sense of belonging to love, which is very important to cultivate children's self-esteem and self-confidence. At the same time, it is necessary to cultivate children's modest personality, lower themselves and learn to be tolerant and harmonious.
Fourth, persevere and strengthen children's quality education.
We should strengthen self-reliance education. Let children learn to do their own things, establish the spirit of "suffering" from an early age, learn to take care of themselves, and understand the hardships of life. Therefore, it is necessary to cultivate children's ability to cope with setbacks from an early age. We can start with some small things, such as not rushing to agree to children's requirements and let them grow up in "adversity". It is necessary to cultivate children's broad interests and hobbies. This in itself is a manifestation of loving life, which can promote children's positive psychological development and is also an important way to improve their comprehensive quality. It is necessary to provide various conditions to cultivate children's interest, especially reading interest, select some books with profound thoughts, and cultivate children's habit of "deep reading".
Due to my limited professional knowledge, these experiences are superficial. I suggest that schools organize systematic lectures on family education on a regular basis through the platform of parent school, so as to improve the level of family education of parents as a whole and cooperate with the teaching work of schools to achieve coordinated and sustainable development.
Experience of Family Mental Health Education (Lecture 2)
Last Thursday, my son's primary school organized a lecture on family education and invited experts from Beijing Industrial and Commercial Bureau to give lectures. Although the lecture was not long, I benefited a lot. I have several experiences:
First, we should fully understand the significance of family education.
Good parents are better than good teachers. Parents should be children's first teachers, and children are the easiest to imitate their parents' words and deeds. Only by organically combining family education with school education can they receive the best educational effect. Only when parents realize the importance of family education and take the initiative to do it well, can children grow up healthily, grow into towering trees that shelter from the wind and rain, and become pillars beneficial to society! Therefore, every parent should be aware of this, not only to give their children enough freedom, but also to create superior material living conditions to be competent. Stocking also needs a certain degree, and parents need free education and planning to promote their children's healthier growth!
Second, several effective methods of family education
1, teach by example
Children need to develop good study and life habits, which are most influenced by their parents. You tell your children not to throw clothes around, but you throw them on the sofa when you get home. You have been educating your children. This effect will obviously not be effective. You don't let children watch TV and play games online, but when they are doing their homework, they are comfortable watching vulgar TV dramas and playing online games, which makes them feel embarrassed. Therefore, setting an example is more useful than a thousand words.
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