Philosophy of Beautiful Life Part I: How to Interpret Life?
We often feel tired, but we think too much. We always say that life is boring, but in fact we have no taste. We are often busy with business, but we are not satisfied. We are always competitive, but our vanity is too strong.
Every time, we see that others have made some achievements in a certain aspect and gained some unexpected brilliance through their own efforts. At this time, we will have some envy and jealousy more or less. Maybe we will try our best to show ourselves and prove that we can do what others can do, and we can be as original as others.
Every time, when we are alone and left out in a corner, we always complain about how boring real life is. Every day, every moment, we are depressed. Maybe, it's just that we are all too adrift to wake up alone. We only know how to pursue the so-called excitement blindly, thus forgetting the pleasure that silence brings us. Many times, only in silence or even in the dead of night can we stir up the intriguing fragments of the past and have the infinite imagination and inspiration brought by silence.
Whenever we encounter unexpected setbacks in life, we always complain that the reality is too helpless and sigh that fate has been teased. In fact, isn't every bumpy road a test? Life is like that rugged mountain road, which is rugged in nature. We must take different roads in different ways.
Everyone has a youthful and frivolous age. At that time, I knew nothing about life, always imitating the intrigue and confusion of others, pure and innocent. Under the temptation of the secular world, we become cunning and scheming. We regard indulgence as a natural style and indulge at will.
Later, when we grow up, the fallacies and heresies that we have tacitly accepted as truth are completely fragmented, because we have all experienced them personally and only grew up in the process of planting and cultivating, melting from the initial unreality into the real society and overthrowing those feudal ideas.
Some people say that people should live well when they are born. I think we should live for ourselves and not be influenced by the world. Even if it is just a humble grass, it is not as expensive as bonsai flowers, but we still have our own open world and sunshine for us to grow freely.
A tree can grow to a certain height and cover a certain area, but if it grows too strong, it will stand out. When the wind comes, the smaller trees will support each other, while the tall and powerful trees can only resist alone, and eventually the branches will break and the leaves will fall, losing their former prosperity.
So do people. Some people cannot satisfy their greed. No matter where they are, they seem to be used to pushing their luck, treating the golden mean as not striving for progress, and often giving up all their efforts in the end.
Just like love, it seems that the simpler people are, the happier they will be in the end. Simple people know how to be satisfied, easy to be satisfied, and never take feelings seriously. So, they are enough and happy.
On the contrary, those who are cynical and so-so, their love is always so wonderful, wave after wave, and they are numb after many experiences, and may never capture the sincere sweetness again.
Facing the future, if life urges us to make a choice, then I will definitely choose a grass-like lifestyle and defend my ideal world in the face of the faint sunset.
The second philosophy of beautiful life: Life is short, go crazy, dream and pursue.
When we were in middle school, there was a topic in the Chinese textbook: Mr. Lu Xun wrote &; Ldquo There are two trees in my yard, one is jujube and the other is jujube &; What does rdquo reflect Mr. Lu Xun's mood?
I have a friend named Lao Luo who dropped out of school when he was here. He said,&; Ldquo How do I know what Mr. Lu Xun really thought when he wrote the second paragraph, but the Education Committee knows that there are still standard answers. & amprdquo
Another friend of mine, Feng Tang, found a black shop selling teachers' reference books, yellow ones. A student shouldn't have that book, but he can buy it with money, which says the standard answer &; The sentence mdash& ampldquo represents Mr. Lu Xun's uneasy mood under the white terror in the occupied area &; rdquo。 He just copied it on paper.
The teacher said to the class:&; Ldquo, only Feng Tang got it right. & amprdquo
Lao Luo and Feng Tang saved the time of memorizing standard answers, and both did their favorite things early. I belong to the third kind, and I can't get rid of it and I don't have the courage to resist. I kept quiet in the classroom, but I didn't listen to anything. I bowed my head and scribbled on the paper. During the exam, I tried to figure out Mr. Lu Xun, and the paper was marked with a red cross.
After a long time, I became passive. I am the last to go to school and the first to leave every day.
At that time, the small county town in Shanxi was still frozen, leaving schools with nowhere to go, no buses, no shops, no food stalls and no newsstands. There is Red Star Cinema, but you can only go in when the school organizes patriotic movies. This is the entertainment center of the whole city. Several old people were sitting in the sunshine at the gate of the cinema with their children in their arms. There are no pets like cats and dogs. The child led the vole around with a rope. It stands on its hind feet and eats dry steamed bread with its front feet. There are two cracked billiards boxes in front of the cinema, which cost fifty cents an hour. There are some gangsters with cigarettes in the corner, which makes them squint. In the cold wind, the monkey played naked, the collar of the military coat stood upright, and the skirt was dragged on the ground and rubbed black. They are rude and fierce when chasing girls, and there is no romantic feeling.
In addition to these &; Ldquo idle people rdquo everyone is working. The quantifier mdash, which describes the products on the assembly line, is embedded by everyone. My parents are here. Ldquo& amprdquo dropped out of school and suffered from turmoil. It was horrible to think that they would be inferior if they could not enter the company. They hope that I can be admitted to the university's financial accounting major in the future and be assigned to the railway bureau after graduation. Neighbors say it's a good job and it doesn't need wind and rain. As long as the abacus is played fast, a pair of blue sleeves on the arm can be stable for a lifetime, and you can take the train without spending money. In order to make me live like this, my parents protect me in their way&; Mdash extracurricular books are&; Ldquo casual book rdquo, I can't see it; When eating, you can watch news programs broadcast nationwide, because there may be exam content in them. In my opinion, it is not as interesting as reading Xinhua dictionary. At mdash some Chinese characters look good. Reading reference books while eating was praised. My mother asked my sister to learn from me.
I'm not in the mood to live this life, because even if I am given freedom, I don't know what to do.
In high school, my mother bought me a red tape recorder to learn English. Short wave can be received by Taiwan Province Radio Station, and I will always listen when there is no one at home &; Ldquo Voice of Asia &; Rdquo& ampldquo China Broadcasting Network &; rdquo。 Hosts Wu, Xie Desha, Shen Wan, Lin Xianzheng, & hellip& amphellip I don't know if I wrote these names correctly, but after 20 years, when I wrote down each name, I can still hear their voices. They are my friends. In a program, Shen Wan said that a man named Ka Kui Wong died unexpectedly that day, and he played his song "Care for Forever". She said:&; Ldquo should cherish life when he is alive, because we don't know where he will be next minute. & amprdquo She cried when she said it.
I didn't know who Ka Kui Wong was at that time, and what she said was nothing unusual and ordinary, but it touched me. No adult has ever talked to me like this.
It's the first time for me to think of a profession that can do this. It turns out that communication is done by people and everything is for people.
Half a year later, I was admitted to the financial accounting major of Railway Institute and did the first active thing in my life. Mdash went to Hunan Radio Station to find a job. The leader sent me away because I had to learn broadcasting as a host, which was assigned by the state. Back at school, I recorded a program on tape, which was copied from another voice in Chen Lerong and went to the radio station. A host named Shang Neng listened for five minutes and said,&; Ldquo is on my show tonight. & amprdquo He did so without asking the leader's permission.
In this way, I entered the communication industry until now.
Essay 3 on the philosophy of beautiful life: going further in different ways of thinking
The journey of life will not always walk in the dark, it has a gap, and the sun will shine in. Whether you can see the light depends on whether you open your eyes. We should learn to cherish every day of our lives. Because the beginning of every day will be the first day of the rest of our lives. A person should be flexible. In adversity, difficulties and pressures force his body and mind. At this time, he should know a&; Ldquo song. Words. In good times, luck and environment are good for me. At this time, I should know a&; Ldquo stretches the word rdquo. If people are too strong, they will be reckless and vulnerable to setbacks; If people are too weak, they will be indecisive and miss the opportunity. Bind hard wood with soft rope. If you change your mind, you will go further. Turn a corner flexibly and you won't be strangled.
Life can't be lived by mood, but by mentality. To be a low-key person is to look at everything in the world with a peaceful mind. Early rafters rot first, so that we won't struggle needlessly. Don't be strong in doing things. A few times to put yourself in other's shoes and change your attitude can change the problem. Give a step for a while, and you won't be overwhelmed. Stay one step and make three points. Flexibility is a gentleman Bending is not flattering and humiliating. When I was sick, I found that health is the most important thing; When you are hungry, it is most important to find food and clothing; When I passed away, I found that time is the most important thing. However, when I was away, I found that everything was important and nothing was important! & ampldquo disaster comes from a temporary unbearable &; rdquo。 & ampldquo Heroes would rather suffer immediate losses &; The purpose of rdquo is to keep green and gain other benefits by eating short-term losses. What's the point if you suffer huge losses or disasters or even lose your life because you don't eat immediate losses?
The turning point in life is often premeditated. We have been looking for a beginning. In fact, it has pushed the door left unlocked a little, waiting for you to see the sunshine coming in. Sunlight shines through the cracks in life, and I hope that what germinates is hope. Flexion and extension are the real strong ones. When I am sad, I find that happiness is the most important thing; When I was lovelorn, I found that love is the most important thing; When I was poor, I found that money was the most important thing. Once the time is right, he can rise like an underwater diving dragon, display his talents and create achievements. So, eat&; Ldquo direct loss &; In order not to suffer more losses, rdquo gains longer-term benefits and higher goals. Grasping the present in prosperity is a kind of kung fu, and living in the present in adversity is a realm. Sticking to one's own opinions is easy to enter a dead corner, causing psychological pressure and increasing physical and mental burden.
To be a man, you should be crooked, judge the situation, and be a hero who knows the times. Bending is a broad and inclusive mind. It is better to have more than one thing and less than one thing. We should know that the doctrine of the mean is the whole, waste is straight, and depression is surplus. A sage with merit, facing the reality, abandoning all selfish desires, tolerating the unbearable people in the world, enduring things that ordinary people can't bear, stands tall with his broad mind, indomitable tenacity and extraordinary mind. That's not a fairy, but all of us.
Bending is a sign of maturity. The more you bend, the farther you shoot. It is brave to dare to bow. Keep a low profile and you will fly the highest. It is more effective to bend over and talk; Only by actively bowing your head can you raise your head, and only full ears of grain will bow their heads first to show an inferiority complex. When you confirm the original intention of forbearance and understand the value of forbearance, you can bear hardships and stand hard work, starve, swallow your voice and bear the burden of humiliation, and eventually you will become a man of great achievements and a real person.
& ampldquo Happiness lies in misfortune, and misfortune depends on misfortune. & amprdquo& ampldquo extremes meet, extremes meet &; rdquo。 & ampldquo The water overflows when it is full, and the monthly surplus is gone. & amprdquo These ancient teachings contain profound philosophy of life. No matter how high your position is, you should keep a low profile and don't make public. Folk proverbs. It is no good being crazy &; That's the truth, rdquo. Be a man, be flexible. Combining rigidity with softness, combining rigidity with softness, rigidity is rigidity, softness is softness, and softness is the real strength. People often say&; Ldquo got a knife on his head &; Rdquo this knife hurts you, and it will also make you learn from a painful experience; This knife can smooth your spirit and carve your courage. A little tolerance is a great harm. As long as we are still in various calculations and struggles, some disturbances will never end. Some people say that patience is a compromise. In fact, compromise is not a simple concession, but a kind of knowledge based on knowing yourself and yourself.
A wise man said:&; Ldquo's different results in life stem from different mentality. & amprdquo Indeed, if the world becomes gloomy, it is because your own heart is not bright enough. As long as you reduce a desire, you will get a kind of happiness. & ampldquo If you can't stand what you can't stand, then you can't do it. & amprdquo, a hero in appearance and a powerful man in heart, is actually a headstrong man; And & ldquo; It's better to submit to humiliation than to suffer immediate losses &; Rdquo people are real heroes. Such patience is not submission, but progress in concession; Not to be a slave, but to seek perfection. No matter in life or work, compromise is not only for&; Everything goes well in ldquo's family &; Rdquo, and. Ldquo stability and unity &; Rdquo also hides a kind of persistence, which is actually a firm determination. Flexibility is the art of bending, bending in time and living flexibly. If you want to go high, you should go low first, and from another angle, you will get unexpected gains.
Don't be surprised when things change; Push and drag, don't be a strong duck on the shelf, bending is the accumulation of success. Learn to detour and give up temptation, and you will have the final glory. Desalinate the desire for benefits and you will get everything. If you lose, you gain, and if you lose, you gain. Heroes would rather suffer immediate losses. The way of a saint can only be won if you work hard and can't afford to lose. A grain of fine sand sticks to the foot and a pebble sticks to the heart. Of course, I can't bear to face things. People who can't bow their heads are because they look back on past achievements again and again. It is universal to underestimate yourself, and it is persistent to value yourself. Only selflessness can cultivate a healthy and happy outlook on life.
Essay 4 on the philosophy of beautiful life: the sky is far away when the concept changes.
No matter how optimistic a person is, he will have more or less troubles. There should be no people without troubles in this world. So where did the trouble come from? Life is like a kaleidoscope, constantly changing. Some people and things related to us are constantly happening. There are always some things that are not what we want, and there are always some people that are not what we think. I think so, too. Why is he so wrong? So, the trouble came.
According to Groans, there are only four words for a person's greatest sin: being selfish by nature. Indeed, once a person makes a mistake, he always looks for reasons from other aspects, either blaming others or blaming Zhang San Li Si. It seems that all his unhappiness is brought by others, and it is their fault. He never thought about what he didn't do well enough and whether he was ignorant. Thus, resentment, anger and annoyance, the five poison pills of life, are born in the heart. They lurk in our hearts like poisonous weeds, making waves in our internal organs, devouring our healthy bodies and eroding our peaceful hearts. Over time, it develops from quantitative change to qualitative change, poisoning attack and disease. Therefore, all diseases are caused by the injustice of the heart. Without qi, there is no disease.
However, how to be calm? It depends on your accomplishment. Old Mr. Wang Fengyi taught people to find their own shortcomings and admit their mistakes, that is, to repent rather than argue. This is a good medicine and a wise move to eliminate troubles. I don't know how many incurable diseases have been cured by this method. This method is so effective that it is incredible. What he means is that if you cure the disease first, your sex will change, your heart will be enlightened, your breathing will be smooth, and your body will be fine. What is sex? Sex is virtue, virtue is long, life is long, and yin is long. This truth is very enlightening. If a person always has resentment and hatred in his heart, and his eyes are always fixed on other people's shortcomings, how can he not be disgusting? You blame others, others blame you, and there is no winner. They are all losers in life. Find your own fault, you forgive others, others forgive you and accommodate each other, and you will be happy. Why not? To find your own fault is not only to let go of others, but more importantly, to let go of yourself and decompress your mind. Without the burden, your body and mind will be relaxed and quiet, your mood will be open, your internal organs will function normally, your spirit will be hidden inside, and your illness will come from safety?
Even so, not everyone can do it. There is still a long way to go between knowing and doing. Mencius said:&; Ldquo love is not pro, but benevolence; There is no medicine to save people, which is contrary to wisdom; Courtesy people don't answer, respect people, and those who don't do well are asking for it&; rdquo。 If you can't find your own fault after repeated self-examination, then you will understand that this person is crazy. Since he is crazy, why do you care about him? For example, if a dog bites you, do you still want to chase? If you win, people say you are worse than a dog. If you are tied to a dog, people will say that you are like a dog. If you lose, people say you are not as good as a dog. It sounds bad, but it's not rough. That's the reason. People have different tempers, different personalities, different minds, different tolerance and different accomplishments. As the saying goes, when the forest is big, there are all kinds of birds. If someone is really rude to you and you can't stand it, you can comfort yourself with this sentence. He's crazy. Why do you bargain with a madman? It's not crazy, it's yourself.
As soon as the concept changes, the sky will be far away. If you want to go to the foot of the mountain, you can cross it. If the mountain doesn't turn, the water doesn't turn, and the boat doesn't turn, you can't change things. Then you can look at things from another angle and think from another angle, or you can recover from the mountains and rivers and have a clear understanding of Lu 'an. All problems are not problems, but your view of the problem is the fundamental problem. If you always find fault with others and get into a dead end, you will push yourself to the wall. You can't see other people's faults, but only see yourself, and you will be calm. If you only look at others and seek benefits, you are all benefactors. With a grateful heart, where can there be resentment, trouble and anger? If so, what's the use of happiness? She is like grass on the earth. When the spring breeze comes, the countryside is desolate, with corners and grass everywhere. If so, how happy life is and how beautiful life is.
Essay 5 on Beautiful Life Philosophy: Feel the Colorful World
Chatting with friends makes my mood restless for a long time. It seems that I can only live up to my conscience by writing something, otherwise I will be restless and restless.
When the unforgettable and lingering truth is shrouded by doubt, distrust and the resulting indifference, some first feelings in my heart are: humiliation, resentment, sadness, and the decision that has been made countless times: I will never talk to him again in this life. This is how we grow old in countless times of anger and indifference, which is caused by our personality and will not change in this life.
I don't expect much from him. Like when I was a child, I was at most a good classmate who was a little closer than the average classmate. Now even ordinary students have never done it. I have worked hard for it more than once in my life, but I have failed again and again. Since it is difficult to meet the minimum requirements, what can we expect? Do you understand? Friendship? Or true feelings? Nothing matters anymore.
I know, we really answered that sentence: because we loved, we are not enemies, because we were hurt, we are not friends. Let us grow old in a state of neither enemy nor friend, in a state of anger and indifference caused by resentment. This is beyond the reach of human resources. I have understood that the grievances buried in previous lives will be entangled in this life. Since they are entangled, I will leave them there to prevent people from slowing down for a while, suddenly feeling cheated, their true feelings being trampled on, worrying again and again, and changing their attitudes again and again. It's not funny.
On the world of mortals, it is better to have friends in the world of mortals, close friends or confidants. However, this should be impossible to satisfy. Since fate has not met, why should we pursue it unilaterally? Whose life has no regrets? We are just ordinary people who can't be ordinary anymore. Why pursue the so-called perfection? Such a luxurious life is beyond the reach of ordinary people like us. All we have is an ordinary and real life, and romance does not belong to us.
The world is blurred, we are often lost in a smoky world, and dusty fireworks always make you and I dare not breathe freely. Why do you want to ask others deliberately? After Qian Fan's death, looking back on that year, that innocence and dream had already drifted away. Now, the years have left us only desolation and emptiness. Today, it is only to fill the so-called loneliness and moisten the dying heart, that's all.
Everyone comes to this world as a passer-by, and meeting is luxury. They should turn around and forget. Why go back to being the one who knows the situation? In the end, they were exhausted, scarred and torn to pieces.
There are many creatures. If we know that, we should live a sober, happy and free life and bind our own hearts. What are the benefits? Letting go is the best way. You are free, I am free, and everyone is free.
A person who didn't believe in fate at first, after a long time, went to Qiu Lai in spring, and flowers blossomed and fell, and repeated it many times. From then on, he believed in fate, and that's what happened between us.
Finally understand that some roads can only be taken by one person, mountains and water can be forgotten in pairs, and days and months can have nothing to do with each other. By contrast, we are nothing. No matter how good people meet, even if they walk through the rainy season together, they will one day be separated at a ferry. At that time, wasn't it still a person's floating world, and the water flowed forever?