Why do boys feel bad about happiness? When a boy knows that his wife is pregnant, he will be very happy, because he has been upgraded to a father, and the subsequent worries will make him feel as uncomfortable and anxious as his wife. Why? Come and have a look with me!
Why do boys treat 1 badly?
Why do men feel uncomfortable?
Expectant fathers are afraid of happiness, and there is a related professional term "pregnancy-related syndrome" in the medical field. Mainly because of the psychological fluctuation of the wife after pregnancy, the prospective father is insane, which in turn causes some physiological changes. Blood tests on prospective fathers with harmful symptoms showed that the contents of corticosteroids, prolactin and androgen in their bodies were all increased, accompanied by pregnancy reaction.
Psychological fluctuation
When your wife is pregnant, do you have the following psychological fluctuations? 1, I'm going to be a father, is it true? I am so excited! 2. It's amazing that the wife can put the baby in her stomach! 3. Should children be healthy? Must be healthy, right 4. My wife is pregnant. How should I take care of her? 5, my wife's morning sickness is so severe, how uncomfortable! 6. How to raise a child when he is born? 7. With children, the pressure to make money in the future is even greater! If you have these thoughts, it means that you attach great importance to your wife and baby, but you are more prone to pregnancy-related syndrome.
How to avoid pregnancy-related syndrome
1, be a good school
Always read some books on health care and baby care during pregnancy, actively accompany expectant mothers to attend pregnant women's classes, learn about pregnancy knowledge, and reduce psychological fears and worries.
2. Be a visual school
Watch photos and videos of cute babies with expectant mothers and post photos of babies at home. Under the influence of vision, you will look forward to the arrival of your baby more and more and overcome your fears.
3. Be a casual person
Let nature take its course The fate between the baby and you has arrived, so accept it happily! Take the expectant mother out to get close to nature, enjoy the pregnancy together and accept the arrival of the baby happily.
Why do boys hate happiness? May have doubts about parent-child relationship.
Men are selfish in many times, especially in this complicated society. Some men don't trust their wives all the time, so they will have some doubts when their wives are pregnant, especially using some unscientific contraceptive methods, such as pregnancy after in vitro fertilization, which makes them feel agitated, surprised and happy about their wives' pregnancy, and it is difficult to ask their wives, and then they will be restless and miserable. Relevant experts need to remind you that in vitro is often unreliable. In many cases, some strong sperm often secretly advance, and women are prone to pregnancy.
A perceptual fear of death.
The arrival of a new life is a very happy thing, but for some sentimental fathers, the arrival of a new life will trigger their fear of life. Just like middle-aged people become grandfathers, they will feel that time passes quickly, and there are not many days left, and there will be some inexplicable anxiety and anxiety, which will cause them to be uneasy.
Insecurity, fear of falling out of favor
Many times a man is actually a big boy. While they are full of joy at the arrival of new life, they are worried that the arrival of new life will lower their status in their wives' minds, and even worry that their children will take away their wives' love. Indeed, after having children, some wives transfer part of their love to their children, and their love for their husbands is relatively reduced, which somewhat disappoints the "big boys". Therefore, expectant mothers should not ignore the care and care for their husbands after pregnancy. A husband who is tired of running around to create a better life for you and your children also needs the warmth of home and the care of his wife.
Worried about the health of his wife and children.
When the wife is pregnant, the health of the wife and children becomes the most important worry in the husband's mind. Every family expects to have a healthy child, but now all kinds of pollution, radiation and food safety have become the big challenges of pregnancy, and prospective fathers will be very worried. It was not until his wife gave birth safely and smoothly that their hanging hearts were put down. Experts suggest that after pregnancy, women should stay as far away from the high-radiation working environment and living environment as possible, avoid contact with pollution sources, eat more fruits and vegetables, drink more water, and exercise properly is helpful to the health of mother and baby. At the same time, we should have full confidence in ourselves, believe that our children must be healthy, and give more good signals to our husbands, and the anxiety symptoms will gradually improve.