[105] [Accompany the baby through the fourth grade]-About children's sexual health education

I saw a message in my son's school the other day. The school brought a special lecture on "Girls' Secrets" to the fourth-grade girls in the school, and greatly appreciated the care of the school.

I saw my son reading this picture book at the weekend and asked me, "Mom, can I watch the next episode now?" After getting my consent, my son looked very interested.

This picture book Growth and Sex is a full-color book written by Mr. Hu Ping for children. Show children how to prevent sexual assault, physiological and psychological changes in adolescence, prevent AIDS, refuse drugs, and treat sexual information in the media correctly. The language in the book is easy to understand. It is a book that children can understand and understand, and it is also a book that helps parents answer their children's "embarrassing" questions.

I first learned about Hu Ping when my son was 6 years old. At that time, a child attended a sexual health education course and was good at understanding virginity. This course is very rigorous, and the age requirements for children to attend classes are very strict. 6-7 years old means "protecting children's privacy", 8-9 years old means "boys and girls are different" and "where am I from?" My son participated once at the age of 6 and once again at the age of 8.

In family education, we often teach children "don't talk to strangers, don't let others touch your body", thinking that this is to teach children to protect themselves from sexual assault. In fact, this makes children lose their sense of security in the world and even affects their ability to develop interpersonal communication. How to teach children to protect themselves more scientifically, not only to establish a sense of security, but also to stay away from sexual assault?

When children lack normal ways to receive sex education, they will seek abnormal ways to obtain sex information and satisfy their curiosity about sex. If normal channels of sex education are not provided for children, children can only obtain sex information through abnormal channels: pornographic websites, pornographic books, pornographic videos, adult foul language, peer communication and so on. Children's knowledge of sex is kept secret, and we can't know what they get from this information.

Nothing hurts children more than stealing sexual information!

Find some suitable books, take some suitable courses, and interpret children's sex with love and science! Building a healthy sexual physiology, healthy sexual psychology, healthy sexual values and healthy sexual communication skills for children, so that children's sex has a healthy development state, which also lays the foundation for children's future marriage and family happiness.