I have thought about this problem, thinking that I can have both. Up to now, I find my mind constantly jumping back and forth in two directions.
Some people say that money is very important, and I can't deny it.
Nine times out of ten, life is unsatisfactory, and money has the most basic dignity. I read a report yesterday that an old man should have two things in his hand, so that his old age will not be miserable (1, money, 2, house). Besides, whoever says money is important will not be happy, and every little luck in life is the driving force of happiness.
If you want happiness, you need to work hard and achieve yourself at the same time. Who can be happy at work? People are never satisfied. Only by aiming at money can we make ourselves happy.
But not as those who used to be poor together know. Having money is not necessarily happiness, and having no money is definitely not happiness. What is the job for? Don't you just want to make your family better off? What does it matter if you are happy or not? I think it is important that there are more girls or about 30, and the family burden is not too heavy. If you can get angry with a new coat, who wants to steal oil from the gutter?
Some people say:
Although I really want to say that money is very important, because I am trying very hard to suppress my thoughts on money now, I actually find that I am unhappy every time I quit my job, so I feel happier subconsciously.
Of course, being happy is very important. Interest is the premise of everything. Do what you like, have high interest, and get twice the result with half the effort. Learn to adjust your state.
You can't suffer indignities every day to earn money. The gain is outweighed by the loss. What's the use of making more money without health? Every day, stress will crush a person's spirit. So happy work is more important.
Others said:
1, material foundation takes precedence over spiritual pursuit. In today's society, living without money may be a problem; 2. Happiness: What is happiness? How to make yourself happy? Everyone will face many challenges and work pressures. Only by facing up to these pressures and challenges, setting goals to overcome them, and taking the completion of challenges as the goal, can you get real happiness.
I think this question depends on personal needs. If you need money to support you more in real life, then money is definitely important and you have to compromise at work. If life is easy, then work is just fun, and I prefer to work happily.
Because my mind occasionally fights between the first and second views, and the adult world is not black and white, so I prefer the third view.
Happiness and money are inseparable. Being rich can make you happy, but the process of becoming rich may make you unhappy. However, with the upgrading and changes of society, people's spiritual needs are growing. If I were you, between high salary and happiness, I might choose a moderately happy one with a slightly higher salary, or I might be unhappy because of the high salary, and then move to an environment with a decent salary and atmosphere. Here, I mainly look at the demand. When all the needs are met, then consider how to make them compatible, because it is difficult to find a job compatible with them.