Everyone will have extremely difficult times, such as the embarrassment of life, the frustration of work, the pressure of study, and the constant fear of love. If you survive, your life will be suddenly enlightened; You won't succeed. Time will teach you how to shake hands with them, so you don't have to be afraid.
Don't argue with others easily. When someone has an irrelevant argument with you, you let him win because you have nothing to lose. In fact, the happiness of life, half to strive for, half to follow. Struggle is not with others, but with suffering. With, not go with the flow, but Zhi Zhi. I am most afraid of time and always struggle in pain. Let it be, let it be.
4. Too much pressure is often due to too much desire. Therefore, even if you can't let go completely, you should at least know that contentment is always happy, and everything in life will follow fate, and don't let the greed in your heart over-expand. The Buddha told us that we should reduce greed and desire and understand how to forgive others. Don't complain immediately if you are a little unhappy. Only by facing everything with a fatalistic heart can we live freely.
When you no longer need to prove yourself through the approval of others, you are truly powerful. Please remember to keep your heart calm and peaceful, so that you can enjoy the beautiful scenery in the endless journey of life.
6. There is always sadness in life, and the key is how to face these disappointments. The breeze blows the willows, and everything is natural. It is also a valuable experience to grow with your own experience and absorb your own essence.
7. People can really live, but don't be too serious. There is no fish in clear water, and there is no disciple when people look at it. The greatest sorrow of perfectionists is that they are untrue. Reality is the truest truth. In the real world, there are joys and sorrows. The greatest pleasure of living is to find happiness from pain. Pursuing everything is a positive thought, but it is not the best way of life. It's hard to be confused. You are easy-going and life is easy-going.
8. Don't care what others think of you and say behind your back, because these words can't change the facts, but they may disturb your heart. I'm out of my mind. Everything is out of my mind. People who know you don't need to explain. People who don't understand you are not worth explaining. People are expensive in the atmosphere, so learn to say to yourself, if this can satisfy you, I am willing to accept it. And please believe that people who really understand you will never deny you because you have something and you have nothing.
9. If you can't open it, just carry it. If you can't let go, just remember. I can't bear it, just keep it. One day ... I can't move my back, so I will take it easy! I can't remember clearly, so I put it down! If you can't stay, you will be willing! So don't take some things too seriously. Turn a blind eye and it will pass. Cherish the people in front of you and do the things in front of you. Everything is wonderful! Remember, cloudy days don't necessarily rain.
10. Being strong inside is more important than anything else. You should take care of yourself. Admit that you are ordinary, but strive to develop in a good direction; You can face life calmly and listen to your inner feelings without other influences. You can be confused. Please don't waste your time.
1 1. People are born lonely, so don't expect to rely on anyone, even your closest and favorite. The more noisy, the more lonely. Life is full of practice, so that you can be calm as water in loneliness and be safe and sound in the disturbance.
12. No one in the world can hurt your heart and no one can cure it. Only oneself can hurt oneself, and only oneself can cure oneself. This is what the Buddha said: "You are your own savior and you are your own enemy".
13. If you want to succeed, you need atmosphere first. A man of great atmosphere is calm and fearless in tone, unpretentious in character, unassuming in manner, elegant in quietness, quiet in movement and free and easy in behavior. People in the atmosphere, like a flower, have a long and elegant fragrance; Like a tree, it has lush foliage and evergreen seasons. Only people with great atmosphere can do their duty with peace of mind, do the things at hand seriously, and strive for fame and fortune and money.
14. One day, you will say something that makes you sad with a smile. Same thing, different time, different mood, different attitude. Therefore, no matter what grievances you suffer, you don't have to be sad whether you will come or not. Instead, we should calm down and think about it from another angle. You will find that there are not many things in the world worth sacrificing your mood and health. Mentality determines life. If you keep a good attitude, life will be full of happiness.
15. Life is not bitter, what is bitter is too much desire; My heart is not tired, but I am too tired to let go. Life is a process of reducing desires and demands; The profound meaning of fate is to learn to give up and return, give up all impetuous noise and return to inner peace. In life, learn to precipitate. Precipitation, not depression, is to look at impetuousness with a indifferent heart and find your own position in peace.
16. Some people say that a person's life is a book. In fact, you don't have to worry that your book is not famous enough and will be ignored because everyone has a unique story. Even in the most secluded corner of the library, someone will still pick up the dust gently. What we can do is to make it exciting enough to make people feel your life. This life is enough!
17. Even if the whole world denies you, you should believe in yourself. Don't be sad when others ignore you. Everyone has his own life, and no one can always accompany you. When you see others laughing, don't think that you are the only one who is sad in the world. Others just hide it better than you. When you feel inferior to others everywhere, remember that you are just an ordinary person.
18. Human feelings are very thin and the wind blows away; Love is very fragile. When it is washed away by time, it is gone. In life, many people and things can't be seen clearly when they are in front of us. Only when the distance is getting farther and farther, will they gradually become clear.
19. Strive to improve yourself. Being poor and weak is often easy for blx. Blow up all over when you touch it, for fear of being ignored. Only economic and spiritual independence will make you more emboldened and less angry. Only by struggling can we get ourselves out of the vicious circle …
20. Indecision is the greatest negative energy in life. From the perspective of life, any choice on your life path is wrong, no matter how you choose, there are mistakes; So, the choice is coming, A and B, take one away. There is no right or wrong in life, only persistence after choice.