1 Appearance etiquette
Don't wear makeup in front of the opposite sex
Hair should not be greasy, mouth should not smell, and it should be neat in public. It is not advisable to hold a mirror and make up in the car.
The etiquette manual suggests that makeup should be in a special room, not in front of the opposite sex; Make-up should not be too heavy or too thick. If the makeup is not complete, avoid others and make up the makeup in time. Do not borrow other people's cosmetics, do not discuss other people's cosmetics.
Standing has a standing phase, sitting has a sitting phase. There are seven common sitting postures: sitting posture is suitable for the most formal occasions; Hanging legs and knees, men are suitable for formal occasions; Legs folded, ladies wear short skirts suitable for formal occasions; Cross feet, suitable for men and women in various occasions; Leg adduction is suitable for both men and women in general occasions; Stretching forward and bending back is the most beautiful sitting posture for women; Thigh overlapping type, suitable for men's informal occasions.
2 dress etiquette
The suit and white socks don't match.
On formal occasions, men should wear cool suits of the same color. Special attention should be paid to the matching of suits and shoes and socks: slow-walking shoes, sandals and sports shoes should not be worn in suits, and dark brown leather shoes and dark socks should be worn in solemn suits. You can't wear white socks in a suit, except a white suit. When a lady wears a suit, all buttons should be buttoned.
Don't wear the ring all over your hands. Different fingers wear rings with different meanings. The index finger means courtship, the middle finger means love, the ring finger means married, the little finger means single or single, and wearing the middle finger and the index finger at the same time means married, and the couple have good feelings.
3 acquaintance etiquette
Don't call me "miss" casually.
For service personnel, people generally call them "miss", "lady" or "sir" according to their gender. However, because the word "Miss" has a special meaning in some places, we should use this kind of address carefully, such as "you", "waiter" and "shop assistant".
When introducing others, the general rules are: introduce men to women first, young people to the elderly, low-ranking people to high-ranking people, guests to the host, and those who are late to arrive first.
4 Conversation etiquette
Look at each other leisurely.
In the process of conversation, staring at each other is the minimum etiquette requirement, and the eyes should change with the development of the conversation.
During the conversation, the two sides may make eye contact. At this time, it's best to be steady and don't panic. Let them look at each other naturally 1-3 seconds, and then slowly look away.
5 Visiting etiquette
It is not advisable to visit more in summer.
Choose the right time to visit other people's homes. It is hot in summer in Chongqing, which is easy to make people fidgety and dry, and it is inconvenient to dress and behave. It is not appropriate to arrange too many visits in summer. If you visit your work unit, you'd better not choose Monday. In addition, home visits try to avoid lunch breaks and meal times.
There are also taboos for giving gifts to guests. Traditionally, it is considered as a "yes-man", but it is generally not given "4"; Generally, white items are not sent, and festive red is sent; Can't send clocks to the elderly, send pears to couples; You can't send medicine to healthy people, and you can't send personal items such as belts to friends of the opposite sex.
6 communication etiquette
Greeting messages are not forwarded.
Telephone, letters and short messages have become a bridge between people. However, the etiquette manual suggests that the average talk time of the work phone should not exceed three minutes at a time.
Nowadays, holiday information is flying all over the sky, and people often receive many of the same information. Etiquette manual believes that it is best to use your own name to send text messages to unfamiliar people, and the content of text messages should be polite. It is best not to reprint or copy holiday greetings casually. It is inappropriate to talk to people and send text messages during the meeting.
7 catering etiquette
You can't blow hot pot with your mouth.
In the dining etiquette, I specially wrote a section about the most distinctive hot pot dining etiquette in Chongqing.
You can't eat hot pot shirtless, and you can't wear shorts and slippers. Ordering is also particular, generally let guests order first; If you take the initiative to order food for your guests, you should first ask for their opinions and take care of their tastes.
After taking the food out of the pot, put the food in the oil pan for a while, cool it and mix in the seasoning. If it is still hot after being put away, don't blow it with your mouth, so as not to give people the feeling of spitting. Don't spit out what you eat; In case of special reasons, you can cover it with a napkin and put it in the slag tray after taking it out. Used napkins should not be thrown on the floor.
8 home etiquette
Spouse doesn't read text messages
"Respect each other as guests and grow old together" shows that a happy life between husband and wife also needs to follow certain etiquette. One of the hardest things to do is to respect privacy.
The etiquette manual suggests that husband and wife should trust each other, face each other's contacts with friends of the opposite sex calmly, be good at leaving privacy space for each other, and don't read their spouses' text messages casually.
How to deal with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, etiquette manual suggests, often go home to see, often listen to mother-in-law said. The most important thing is to remember her mother-in-law's birthday. If the daughter-in-law can remember her mother-in-law's birthday, give her a gift or cook a meal for her, it will make the old man very moved.
9 Travel etiquette
Don't eat while walking.
It is also impolite to have a lot of people watching as soon as there is something strange in the street. The etiquette manual advises citizens not to eat when walking in the street, not to stop talking or watching for a long time on the road, and not to fight in the street.
Chongqing is a city that climbs mountains and climbs mountains. When going up and down the steps, we should also pay attention to certain etiquette norms: when going uphill, let distinguished people or ladies go first; When going downhill, let a distinguished person or lady walk behind a person, which is for safety. In addition, the weather in Chongqing is humid and the steps are easy to get wet. When going up and down the steps, do not push the pedestrians in front or forcibly grab the road.
10 Gong * * * Etiquette
It's best not to send flowers when visiting the sick.
When visiting patients in the hospital, many people will carry a basket of fruits and hold a bunch of flowers. In fact, flowers are not the most suitable visiting gifts, especially for people who are allergic to pollen. It is better to send fruits, such as apples symbolizing "peace", peaches symbolizing "escaping this robbery" and red envelopes representing reality. For people who are hospitalized for a long time, they can send magazines or books that patients like better. It is best to control the visiting time within half an hour.
Chongqing people love drinking tea, playing mahjong, playing cards and playing chess in teahouses. The etiquette manual suggests that teahouses should not play cards for gambling purposes, and the game process should not affect others loudly, let alone be exported as "indecent" and smoking.
What is the specific content of the manual? After careful reading, the reporter found that it involves ten aspects, such as appearance and posture, clothes, acquaintances, conversation, visit and delivery, as well as specific details closely related to life, such as dressing up, taking a bus and boat, public places, mother-in-law relationship and neighborhood etiquette.
1 Appearance etiquette
Don't wear makeup in front of the opposite sex
Hair should not be greasy, mouth should not smell, and it should be neat in public. It is not advisable to hold a mirror and make up in the car.
The etiquette manual suggests that makeup should be in a special room, not in front of the opposite sex; Make-up should not be too heavy or too thick. If the makeup is not complete, avoid others and make up the makeup in time. Do not borrow other people's cosmetics, do not discuss other people's cosmetics.
Standing has a standing phase, sitting has a sitting phase. There are seven common sitting postures: sitting posture is suitable for the most formal occasions; Hanging legs and knees, men are suitable for formal occasions; Legs folded, ladies wear short skirts suitable for formal occasions; Cross feet, suitable for men and women in various occasions; Leg adduction is suitable for both men and women in general occasions; Stretching forward and bending back is the most beautiful sitting posture for women; Thigh overlapping type, suitable for men's informal occasions.
2 dress etiquette
The suit and white socks don't match.
On formal occasions, men should wear cool suits of the same color. Special attention should be paid to the matching of suits and shoes and socks: slow-walking shoes, sandals and sports shoes should not be worn in suits, and dark brown leather shoes and dark socks should be worn in solemn suits. You can't wear white socks in a suit, except a white suit. When a lady wears a suit, all buttons should be buttoned.
Don't wear the ring all over your hands. Different fingers wear rings with different meanings. The index finger means courtship, the middle finger means love, the ring finger means married, the little finger means single or single, and wearing the middle finger and the index finger at the same time means married, and the couple have good feelings.
3 acquaintance etiquette
Don't call me "miss" casually.
For service personnel, people generally call them "miss", "lady" or "sir" according to their gender. However, because the word "Miss" has a special meaning in some places, we should use this kind of address carefully, such as "you", "waiter" and "shop assistant".
When introducing others, the general rules are: introduce men to women first, young people to the elderly, low-ranking people to high-ranking people, guests to the host, and those who are late to arrive first.
4 Conversation etiquette
Look at each other leisurely.
In the process of conversation, staring at each other is the minimum etiquette requirement, and the eyes should change with the development of the conversation.
During the conversation, the two sides may make eye contact. At this time, it's best to be steady and don't panic. Let them look at each other naturally 1-3 seconds, and then slowly look away.
5 Visiting etiquette
It is not advisable to visit more in summer.
Choose the right time to visit other people's homes. It is hot in summer in Chongqing, which is easy to make people fidgety and dry, and it is inconvenient to dress and behave. It is not appropriate to arrange too many visits in summer. If you visit your work unit, you'd better not choose Monday. In addition, home visits try to avoid lunch breaks and meal times.
There are also taboos for giving gifts to guests. Traditionally, it is considered as a "yes-man", but it is generally not given "4"; Generally, white items are not sent, and festive red is sent; Can't send clocks to the elderly, send pears to couples; You can't send medicine to healthy people, and you can't send personal items such as belts to friends of the opposite sex.
6 communication etiquette
Greeting messages are not forwarded.
Telephone, letters and short messages have become a bridge between people. However, the etiquette manual suggests that the average talk time of the work phone should not exceed three minutes at a time.
Nowadays, holiday information is flying all over the sky, and people often receive many of the same information. Etiquette manual believes that it is best to use your own name to send text messages to unfamiliar people, and the content of text messages should be polite. It is best not to reprint or copy holiday greetings casually. It is inappropriate to talk to people and send text messages during the meeting.
7 catering etiquette
You can't blow hot pot with your mouth.
In the dining etiquette, I specially wrote a section about the most distinctive hot pot dining etiquette in Chongqing.
You can't eat hot pot shirtless, and you can't wear shorts and slippers. Ordering is also particular, generally let guests order first; If you take the initiative to order food for your guests, you should first ask for their opinions and take care of their tastes.
After taking the food out of the pot, put the food in the oil pan for a while, cool it and mix in the seasoning. If it is still hot after being put away, don't blow it with your mouth, so as not to give people the feeling of spitting. Don't spit out what you eat; In case of special reasons, you can cover it with a napkin and put it in the slag tray after taking it out. Used napkins should not be thrown on the floor.
8 home etiquette
Spouse doesn't read text messages
"Respect each other as guests and grow old together" shows that a happy life between husband and wife also needs to follow certain etiquette. One of the hardest things to do is to respect privacy.
The etiquette manual suggests that husband and wife should trust each other, face each other's contacts with friends of the opposite sex calmly, be good at leaving privacy space for each other, and don't read their spouses' text messages casually.
How to deal with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, etiquette manual suggests, often go home to see, often listen to mother-in-law said. The most important thing is to remember her mother-in-law's birthday. If the daughter-in-law can remember her mother-in-law's birthday, give her a gift or cook a meal for her, it will make the old man very moved.
9 Travel etiquette
Don't eat while walking.
It is also impolite to have a lot of people watching as soon as there is something strange in the street. The etiquette manual advises citizens not to eat when walking in the street, not to stop talking or watching for a long time on the road, and not to fight in the street.
Chongqing is a city that climbs mountains and climbs mountains. When going up and down the steps, we should also pay attention to certain etiquette norms: when going uphill, let distinguished people or ladies go first; When going downhill, let a distinguished person or lady walk behind a person, which is for safety. In addition, the weather in Chongqing is humid and the steps are easy to get wet. When going up and down the steps, do not push the pedestrians in front or forcibly grab the road.
10 Gong * * * Etiquette
It's best not to send flowers when visiting the sick.
When visiting patients in the hospital, many people will carry a basket of fruits and hold a bunch of flowers. In fact, flowers are not the most suitable visiting gifts, especially for people who are allergic to pollen. It is better to send fruits, such as apples symbolizing "peace", peaches symbolizing "escaping this robbery" and red envelopes representing reality. For people who are hospitalized for a long time, they can send magazines or books that patients like better. It is best to control the visiting time within half an hour.
Chongqing people love drinking tea, playing mahjong, playing cards and playing chess in teahouses. The etiquette manual suggests that teahouses should not play cards for gambling purposes, and the game process should not affect others loudly, let alone be exported as "indecent" and smoking.