How do rural left-behind children grow up healthily?

Rural areas in China are full of left-behind children. Due to the rapid development of society and the temptation from outside, farmers no longer just stay in the countryside. Going out of the countryside with great expectation, some try their best to change their fate-leaving the countryside; Some people are forced by life and have to go out to work to make money. In this case, left-behind children and the elderly inadvertently become a social phenomenon, and left-behind children and empty nesters came into being. Today, after a long time, their lives have become people's most concerned livelihood issues.

The so-called healthy growth is more about their mental health. However, everything is divided into two parts, and left-behind children obviously present two extremes: the first kind of children are no different from most children, even higher in thought than ordinary children, they are optimistic, strong and sensible; Know how to care for family and others better than ordinary people; Although life is hard, they can enjoy it and keep smiling. But the society pays more attention to the other kind. They are introverted, unsociable and even insecure. Some of them become reckless and have problems because their separated parents are infinitely spoiled. Of course, the main reason why they become like this is that their guardians don't care enough. When they grow up, they lack emotional care and care from their parents, and even lack the correct guidance from their guardians.

Parents are the emotional enlightenment in children's life and the safety of children. Staying behind means being separated from the closest people, and this separation happens when they need their parents' care and companionship most, and its influence can be imagined.

When it comes to the healthy growth of left-behind children, I am thinking that no matter whether their parents are around or not, the care that children should receive cannot be vacant because their parents are far away. Although the love of parents can't be replaced by anyone, grandparents, as temporary guardians, have provoked this responsibility, so it is essential to learn to communicate with children and have normal care and companionship. Parents who are far away from home should also give their children the care and communication they deserve regularly. In behavior and speech, people who are far away from home or with them should set good examples, because children will always follow the example of adults when they grow up, and both good and bad will be passed on to them. Therefore, whether a child is good or not depends on whether the elders are diligent in education.

I don't want more left-behind children in my next life. I hope that as a parent, no matter how busy and difficult you are, you should take the upbringing and education of your children as your primary responsibility, because no matter what will happen in the future, only when your children grow up healthily and happily can your family be truly happy and society be harmonious and stable.