A healthy relationship:
1. Both sides are getting better. Athena Chu, the star, said in the program that if a girl looks in the mirror and finds herself becoming more and more beautiful, you will fall in love with the right person. A good relationship will make people beautiful from the inside out. In addition, the idea of becoming better is not utilitarian, but spontaneous internal driving force. In fact, everyone has an ideal self, and a good relationship provides an atmosphere of hard work and progress.
2. Respect each other's borders. When many people establish intimate relationships for the first time, they always rely on cross-border behavior to prove the intimacy of this relationship. After being together for a long time, the life trajectories of both sides will get together, and it will become very difficult to establish a border.
3. Feelings should also make ends meet. Feelings are mutual, and intimacy can only be maintained through the efforts of both sides. It is not a healthy intimate relationship to rely on one party to take the initiative to pay, or to deceive oneself for feelings. In the final analysis, in any relationship, what we pursue is psychological balance. If the relationship is unbalanced, it will be full of contradictions and pressures.
4. Continuous emotional maintenance. In a healthy intimate relationship, neither party will let the passion retreat or disappear, but will create romantic surprises to keep the relationship fresh. There is no feeling of not needing maintenance. When the hormones gradually fade, it is very important to maintain the mood.
5. Attract each other and grow together. Man is a gregarious animal. The essence of love is to find someone with the same frequency, live and work together, and face the ups and downs of life together. Of course, this only refers to the normal love situation of ordinary people, not including people who find objects for a certain purpose. Of course, self-feeling cannot be called love. It is at most another form of business.
To sum up, we should maintain a healthy love relationship and don't lose ourselves in blind love.