How to deal with the separation anxiety of kindergarten children?

Many treasure mothers have to cross the anxiety syndrome of separation from their babies before going to kindergarten. If this period of time is handled well, then the baby will get through it smoothly, and can adapt to the life in kindergarten quickly after going to kindergarten, unlike some other children who cry and growl after leaving their mother and don't want to stay in kindergarten. This brings a lot of trouble to Bao's father. In fact, every child basically has separation anxiety when he just left his mother to go to kindergarten. So how should parents solve the baby's "separation anxiety"?

1。 Correct understanding of infant separation anxiety disorder

First of all, we should learn about Bao's father himself. Parents should understand that this is a process that every child has to go through before leaving their parents, and they should also review whether they have done some docking work in advance before their children go to kindergarten. It is important to accept the children's emotions, deal with them lightly, don't feel it is difficult to solve them, and feel sorry for the children, making it more difficult for them to leave their parents. Therefore, when this happens to children, parents should help them build up confidence and invest in a new life.

2。 Do a good job of prevention before children go to kindergarten.

Prevention is better than remedy afterwards, and so is disciplining children. First of all, parents should give their children an opportunity to know kindergarten as soon as possible, and they can contact their brothers and sisters who have already gone to kindergarten. You can also take your baby to the kindergarten to familiarize yourself with the environment, simulate the atmosphere of the kindergarten, and make the baby feel that the kindergarten is fun and not afraid. In addition, we can cultivate his regular work and rest and regular behavior, do some separate training appropriately, exercise the baby's independence and self-care ability, and let the baby get used to the rules of kindergarten in advance and eat and sleep by himself. Of course, the most important thing is to give the baby effective companionship before the baby is one year old, because enough companionship can make the child feel safe and make the child more confident to leave his mother and explore independently.

3。 Correctly handle the baby's separation anxiety disorder

When the baby has separation anxiety, parents must not blame, but accept it. You should stand in the baby's point of view, understand the baby, spend more time with the baby to make them feel comforted, and you can also share your feelings of going to kindergarten with the baby to make the baby more confident. Also use positive emotions to infect your baby, and never show your worries in front of your baby. Another is to actively cooperate with teachers, communicate with teachers more, understand the baby's situation at school, and let teachers know that parents care about the baby. Actively cooperate with the homework assigned by the teacher and finish it with the baby. Letting the baby return to kindergarten with homework will bring the baby a sense of belonging, and will also increase the baby's interest and confidence in kindergarten, so as to gradually adapt to kindergarten.

Therefore, it is normal for a baby to have separation anxiety in kindergarten. The key is how parents look at it. Parents should be caring and careful parents, and take preventive and coping measures as soon as possible to reduce some troubles, which is conducive to the healthy growth of children.