First, parents should set a positive example image for their children and realize the power of example. Jiang Jing, a famous educator, once said: "Only through their own personality strength can parents make continuous progress and gain their children's admiration and love." Parents and children get along day and night. Parents' words and deeds are the objects that children learn to imitate, and they should become their first teachers through words and deeds. Many times, parents' repeated preaching is not as good as a demonstration. For example, we are all familiar with the excellent cultural traditions such as respecting the elderly and loving the young, and we know everything about collecting money. No amount of preaching is as good as parents' education with practical actions. When children see their parents' respect and filial piety for their elders, they will naturally understand the truth that "filial piety is the first virtue". Therefore, parents should set a positive example for their children, such as being grateful, working hard and loving life. And through continuous self-learning and enterprising to influence children's growth, it proves that "real education lies in implementation rather than oral training".
Second, parents should understand their children, listen and communicate attentively, and truly feel their hearts. If parents want their children to have a healthy personality, they first need to create a relaxed and harmonious family atmosphere for their children. Imagine that if parents communicate with their children in a harsh tone every day, they will not only be unable to open their children's hearts, but also be difficult to get close to their hearts. Over time, there will naturally be communication barriers and communication obstacles. There is such a father and son. In order to establish his dignity, his father always looks condescending. He always loves children in his own way, giving them the most expensive remedial classes and buying brand-name clothes, but he has never heard of what children like. Children think that their parents don't really love themselves, and they are rebellious in their hearts, always against their parents' wishes, and finally there are cracks in their families. Therefore, we hope that parents can squat down and look at their children, listen to their voices with equal respect, communicate with their children patiently and understand them, so as to better educate their children.
Third, parents should create an independent growth environment for their children and improve their resilience. With the improvement of people's material living conditions, the living conditions given to children by families are becoming more and more superior. Overindulgence may lead to the decline of children's self-care ability and lack of anti-frustration ability. From crying over trifles to committing suicide by jumping off a building, there are many such cases. The important reason is that sub-healthy family education leads to children's inner fragility, and they cannot face up to and solve problems when they encounter difficulties. But choose extreme ways such as crying and escaping. Therefore, parents should define positive family education concepts, give their children reasonable and correct care, do not spoil or interfere too much, create an independent environment for their children to grow up, respect their personal wishes, understand their emotional thoughts, encourage their children to bravely face the challenges in life, and enhance their resilience and social adaptability.
In a word, different people have different opinions. Family education is an important factor for children's healthy growth, and no matter how professional and excellent school education is, it is irreplaceable. As parents, we should create a relaxed and happy growth atmosphere for children, set a positive example for children, respect, understand and encourage children, be partners and supporters on their growth path, give full play to the maximum effectiveness of family education, and help children grow up healthily and happily. (process correction)