Children's mental health is manifested in six aspects: first, their intelligence development is normal, and their IQ is above 70 (including supernormal children above 130);
Second, have a positive and optimistic mood, love studying and working, and have confidence in life;
Third, have good interpersonal relationships, be willing to associate with others and be helpful;
Fourth, to know yourself correctly is not only your own strengths and weaknesses, but also your own interests and specialties, with realistic development goals;
Fifth, sound personality, cheerful, honest, responsible, able to face difficulties;
Sixth, we can treat the reality correctly, adapt to the environment quickly, accept new things and new concepts quickly, and keep pace with the times in our thoughts and actions.
It should be noted that the mental health standard is only a relative measure, which should be understood and applied dialectically and comprehensively. To judge a person's psychological characteristics, we should fully consider its stability, and we can't simply draw conclusions based on one thing. In other words, just because a person occasionally has some abnormal psychological activities and behaviors doesn't mean that this person must be psychologically unhealthy, it depends on the specific situation. The state of mental health is not static and fixed, but dynamic and changing, which can change from unhealthy to healthy and from healthy to unhealthy. In other words, mental health only reflects the specific state in a certain period.
Ten manifestations of children's mental health: perennial depression
If children are often unhappy for no reason, it is probably because of inferiority.
Excessive shyness
It is normal for children, especially girls, to be a little shy, but if they are too shy (including never daring to sing in front of children, never wanting to show their faces, never daring to meet strangers, etc.). ), they may have a strong sense of inferiority.
Refuse to make friends
Generally speaking, normal children like to associate with their peers and attach great importance to friendship, but most children with inferiority complex are not interested in making friends or can't make friends, or are regarded as "scourges"? .
It's hard to concentrate.
Children with a strong sense of inferiority often have difficulty in concentrating when studying or playing games, or can only concentrate for a short time. This is because "it won't disappear? Inferiority is at work.
Always suspicious
Children with low self-esteem are often very sensitive to the comments of parents, teachers and friends, especially the criticism of others, which is even more unacceptable and even bitter. At this rate, they may develop into "paranoia"? To the point where there is always a false suspicion that others don't like it or blame themselves.
Excessive pursuit of praise
Inferiority children feel inferior? However, they often pursue the praise of their parents and teachers more abnormally than normal children, and may adopt dishonest and inappropriate methods, such as cheating in exams.
Degrade and envy others.
Another allergic reaction of children with inferiority is that they often belittle and envy others, such as gnashing their teeth because of being praised by the teacher at the next table, and even staying up at night. Psychologists believe that this is a channel they designed to relieve their psychological pressure caused by inferiority complex, although it often doesn't work.
Will only be pessimistic and disappointed
A large number of children with low self-esteem tend to give up on themselves, do not strive for progress, and think that they can't do it anyway, and it is useless to work hard. What's more, it may also show self-abuse behavior, such as deliberately running around the street, going out alone at night, and refusing to seek medical treatment and take medicine when you are sick. This seems to be deliberately putting yourself in danger or trouble. If you are accused by your parents, you will say, "I am inferior anyway? Make an excuse.