First of all, proper solitude is conducive to the development of self-body and mind, which is worthy of recognition. We live in a world full of people, especially people living in big cities are in contact with different people almost all the time and are forced to accept information from the external environment. In the long run, it will cause a lot of loss of personal energy, form a physical and mental burden, and even lead to illness. Proper solitude is conducive to improving one's independent thinking ability, improving one's concentration and achieving inner peace and stability.
But a person for a long time has an impact on his health. First of all, a person may do some harm to the body for a long time. People who have been lonely for a long time generally have high blood pressure and low immunity, and the probability of suffering from Alzheimer's disease is higher. Loneliness may also affect individuals' sleep patterns, attention levels and logical reasoning. Being alone for a long time may cause this person to feel lonely.
The harm of being alone for a long time
We know that a normal person will have physical and psychological problems after feeling deprived. This is also the main reason why psychologists advise people not to be alone for a long time.
Otaku culture
In modern society, "otaku culture" has become the mainstream culture, and many people laugh at themselves as "dead fat houses". Although this kind of ridicule is humorous, the problem behind it cannot be ignored, that is, more and more young people don't like to go out of their homes. They began to hate socializing and liked to eat alone, watch movies alone and sleep alone.
Although in literature, we often praise the "lonely" people and give a lot of praise to the lonely people in literary images, from the psychological point of view, it is ok to be alone occasionally, but it is not advisable to be alone for a long time. No matter how much you love a person's life, I suggest you walk more.
Socialization is a threshold for many people, and it is difficult to take the first step. However, after taking the first step, you can feel how happy you are with friends and how happy you are to meet like-minded people.
Some current situations that usually occur when a person is alone:
First, it is prone to emotional problems. When a person is alone for a long time, they feel nothing at first, and there is no problem, but over time, because they have no contact with others, no one will share and answer the problems encountered in their emotions and life, and many emotional problems will easily appear at this time. For example, some people are prone to depression, while others are prone to irritability. Because of the lack of reference to communicate with others, people who have been alone for a long time will find it difficult to adjust their emotions. After a long time, some people's personality will also change, become indifferent and withdrawn, and it is more difficult to get along with others.
Second, it causes mental illness. In view of the first two points, long-term solitude may eventually lead to mental illness. For example, some people may suffer from depression because they are alone for a long time, unable to communicate with others, depressed, unable to do anything, and have lost their hobbies.
Third, lack of social support. If a person is alone for a long time, it is difficult to establish contact with everything outside, and his language function and interpersonal skills will gradually deteriorate, thus easily losing the support of friends and family, getting rid of everything and slowly losing it. Over time, close people will stay away from them. Lack of corresponding social support will make a person more vulnerable psychologically, because they lack people who can share and help them.
Therefore, in fact, many people in society will like to be alone, with many identities, different occupations, maybe some people around you and so on. But if you are in a person's situation for a long time, there will definitely be many psychological problems, and these psychological problems will not solve themselves, eventually forming a "vicious circle." So what we have to do is try to get back into the crowd again.
I like living alone very much. I play computer and mobile phone alone. If you are hungry and too lazy to cook, order takeout. When I'm really bored, I just go out for a stroll.
This state lasted for a long time, and I enjoyed it at first, but after a long time, people will feel irritable. The smaller the circle around you, the less you want to break through, and the more inner struggles, but life has become accustomed to this.
I think living alone can make people get rid of trivial things in life and purify their minds temporarily, but after a long time, people will become less and less willing to socialize, their language expression will be vague and their mentality will become more and more fragile, which will lead to many psychological diseases in the long run.
Living alone is beneficial, but it should be moderate. The so-called cautious independence means not to lose yourself when you are alone. Temporary solitude is to better yourself in the near future.
That must do more harm than good.
Staying alone for a long time will make you want to live alone more and more. But the nerves are getting weaker and weaker, and long-term insomnia is a bad trend.
I listed all kinds of attacks I had experienced when I lived alone for many years. I tend to be different: 1, and my social skills are weakening. They are not familiar with some basic polite expressions and common questions or answers in interpersonal relationships, and they are not good at understanding other people's ideas. 2, naturally began to be lazy, work and study are arranged in the absence of pressure, less and less nervous. 3. Bored. Often feel very boring, very boring. 4, IQ decline, daily contact information is too little, so there is no difference, the brain has a sense of atrophy.
When you realize the silence of yourself and your surroundings, there will be some stronger music. This is my temporary idea, and I hope to see more good suggestions. Living alone also has the advantages of being alone, and I have benefited a lot.
The bad side of a long-term lonely person is:
1 I love living alone more and more and don't let people visit, no matter who;
2 the ability to understand social communication, such as the ability to understand weakened.
Although used alone, everyone knows that this lifestyle is not good, so there are some changes, but with the increase of time and energy, everything has advantages and disadvantages.
Sometimes you don't talk for too long, and the next time you talk to others, it always looks more special. This may be an act of revenge. I began to find myself spending the winter and summer holidays with my parents. I always feel that I am used to myself. I may miss someone more and more.
Scientific argumentation has long concluded that big data shows that the advantages outweigh the disadvantages for women and the disadvantages outweigh the advantages for men.
Everyone has a different personality. Living alone for a long time, I feel almost out of place to communicate with others. Sometimes I hide my light, and sometimes I feel that I have a great personality.
People are group animals, which determines the need for communication between people. If you have to live alone for various reasons, such as spending a year preparing to set up and register a branch in Cambodia last year. My body can live alone, but my mind can't live alone. I must be close to "organizations", such as your lover, your colleagues and so on.
If a person chooses to live in physical and psychological isolation, it is actually a kind of self-marginalization; To put it bluntly, it is tantamount to eliminating yourself and taking the initiative to go out. This is undoubtedly harmful to yourself.
"Nothing is more painful than dying", and living alone is a typical portrayal of this mentality. Can a person with a dead heart last long?
With the word "long-term", living alone will definitely do more harm than good. Man is a gregarious animal. After meeting the most basic survival requirements, the pursuit of other levels is to deal with people.
"People", "subordinates" and "numerous" are all composed of "people". Why? Because people need to be together. It's okay to live alone. You don't like being around when you are alive, but you should communicate with others more and don't close yourself. Living with others is an ability. Living with your lover and family, love will make life better and better. Share with others, make more friends and save money.
Bad, it will make people become taciturn and introverted.
Everyone has different personalities and needs. It's best to look at personal preferences.
That must do more harm than good. Being alone first is a kind of practice. A lot of things have to be faced by yourself. So you have to accept it. But if a person chooses not to have too much communication with the outside world for a long time, he will stand still. You have to have relatives and friends. Feel the little luck in life.