Some people think that the furthest distance in the world is between heaven and earth, just as Perilla says it is "a thousand miles away" and Li Bai says it is "the horizon of the Yangtze River", and heaven and earth can never be connected. There is always a barrier between heaven and earth, including the existence of mountains, seas, humans and other creatures, which cannot be broken through. But isn't Dongpo also in ChanJuan and * * *? Isn't Brother Taibai also "touching towels" on children? From this point of view, the sky is not high, because the heart is connected; The land is not wide, because there are feelings. No matter you, me, him, even if we are everywhere, all of us are so close that we seem to hear each other's breathing! We understand that heaven and earth are not far away. As long as our hearts are together, you can go as far as possible, that is, when you and I are closest. Someone once said that the furthest distance in the world is not between heaven and earth, but between life and death. The person you love most, if you leave yourself, you will never come back. The so-called "people can't be resurrected after death" also refers to the painful mood of the lover after leaving himself. But why someone can't be erased in our minds, we always remember. In that case, life and death are not the furthest distance. Because there is love in our hearts, we will not lose it, we will not forget it, and the people we love will live in our hearts forever.
Someone once said that the furthest distance in the world is not between life and death, but when I stand in front of you, you don't know that I love you. It's not that you don't know I love you when I stand in front of you, but that you can't be together when you clearly love each other. There are many lovers who are separated because of misunderstanding, farther and farther because of contradictions, and can never be together because of separation. But how many of them meet again after separation, and still retain that precious emotional memory? This proves that some things will not be forgotten after experience. If you stand in front of each other, if there is no fate, just like Wu Mi and Mao Yanwen passing by, they will never become lovers; Liu Lanzhi and Jiao Zhongqing could have been together day and night, but they died. At this time, you are in the nearest time, but you are in the farthest place. On the contrary, no matter how far it is, it is only one step away.
Someone once said, it's not that you can't be together when you love each other, but that you can't resist your thoughts but pretend not to put you in your heart. It's not that I can't resist my own thoughts, but that I deliberately pretend that I don't put you in my heart at all, but dig an insurmountable ditch for the people who love you with my indifferent heart. What's the difference between this and sitting opposite your parents, staring at their haggard faces, trying to figure out each other's thoughts with your parents and building an invisible cold wall in the middle? From babbling to being knowledgeable, only parents are closest to their children and spend the most time with them. However, with the growth of age and social changes, there has been a generation gap between parents and children, and the closest people have crossed from the nearest living distance to the farthest distance. From talking about the closeness of friends to talking about the remoteness of strangers, parents and children's hearts are like two people standing alone on both sides of the endless and choppy sea, unable to communicate and out of reach; It is also like a wanderer wandering in a foreign land, watching the helplessness of not going back on the other side of the mainland.
It turns out that the furthest distance in the world is not other distance, but the distance between two hearts. The distance between heart and heart cannot be shortened in one day or two. Only when the master of the heart tries to shorten this distance will there be no insurmountable gap in the world.