Shaanxi Normal University Press prepares lessons for healthy growth education of grade five.

There are many single-parent children around us, which are more or less different from other children. Not our feelings, but the children's own feelings. Some children feel inferior, while others are arrogant. How did this happen? In fact, in my opinion, single parents do not mean unhappiness. If parents fight all day, the harm to their children is even more terrible than that of single parents. So I am often a supporter of divorce (personal opinion). I think, as a person, no one is qualified to deprive him of his happiness, and as a child, no one is qualified to deprive him of his happiness, otherwise it is a crime! Many families, because of their parents' divorce, have developed a sense of inferiority towards their parents, so that their children will be directly affected. Reading an article in a book may be helpful to us. Now the excerpt is for everyone to read. Please learn to smile and face life after reading it. Remember, don't do to others what you don't want them to do to you! Mark. When Twain was young, his family hired a black boy named Shanshan. Mountain's father is his only living relative. One year, Shan's father passed away. Shan is very sad. He often stands alone under the big tree in a daze. Young mark. Twain can't understand your grief. He just thought it was fun to be alone in the mountains, so he wanted to play a trick on him. Just then, Mark. Twain's mother came over and said softly, "Dashan has just lost his family, and he is in pain." That's why he became like this. You should sympathize with him, not make fun of him or even play tricks on him, understand? " Mark. Twain nodded in confusion. After all, Shan is a child, and in a few days, his expression will not be so sad. One day, he suddenly became happy and looked in a good mood, humming a little song. Mark was puzzled, so he went to ask his mother, "You said Dashan should be very painful to lose his loved ones, but how did he get happy again so soon?" Is the mountain a heartless person? "Mom shook her head and said with a smile," Actually, Shanshan is a brave child! Such a big thing happened at home, and one person suffered silently. I was really worried about him when I saw him staring blankly that day! Now that he has finally had the saddest day, we should be happy for him! " Mark nodded in confusion. In the days to come, Mark often thought about this, thinking of the mountain when he was in a daze, and thinking of the mountain when he laughed. He thinks the mountains in happiness are more lovely. How can he have more smiles? So he began to try to analyze everyone's heart and guess people's feelings. He believes that happiness in the world sometimes needs to be found or created by himself. Like a mountain, his only relative will leave him forever. Of course, it is very painful, and the pain is normal. However, if he continues to suffer blindly, it will sometimes hurt his feelings and body. Therefore, Shan did the right thing. He should try to get rid of the pain and face life happily. Mark 1 1 years old, his father also died unfortunately. Suddenly, his family was shrouded in gloom and his life was once in trouble. His mother said sadly, "son, the money at home is not enough for you to go to school now. I wronged you!" "Mark comforted his mother and said," So I don't have to see Mr Croce again. What's the grievance? "So Mark went to a newspaper and began to work. Every day, he has to finish as much work as adults, but the boss pays his children's wages. He didn't have enough to eat three meals during the day and had to sleep on the floor without a bed at night. However, Mark is not worried about this. He is always looking for fun in a hard life and doing monotonous work happily every day. When people ask him why he is so happy, he always replies: "Work is a reward, and I can learn something from work itself, which is also a harvest. Why are you unhappy? " Indeed, during his typewriter writing, Mark read many articles and learned a lot from them, which laid the foundation for his later literary creation. Mark has always maintained a pure and optimistic character all his life. He wrote to Tom in humorous language. The adventures of sawyer and huckleberry. The Adventures of Finn, two famous books, is full of kindness of human nature and warmth of love between the lines, which brings wisdom and happiness to people. In fact, happiness is very simple, just like the song "Plain is true." Happiness is everywhere as long as you feel it with your heart. A smile from each other, a greeting from relatives, a ray of sunshine in the morning, a drop of dew on the grass, a rainbow after rain and so on. Life is so beautiful and happy. If there are some misfortunes in life that we cannot change, please remember that we can be sad, but we can't be down and out. Since you can't change the development of things, learn to change your mind and face it with a smile. I like this article very much, and I feel it is an inspiration. Every time I climb a mountain, I always see a bare meadow, which is so green that people feel distressed. I think only a beautiful mind can have a beautiful life. For children, the correct traction can have a better mentality. Think about Mark's mother and give Mark the right thinking when things happen. Sometimes what we want our children to remember won't impress them, but one thing, a very modest word, a leaf, may affect their life at the right time. Isn't it? Everything is not terrible because we have children! Smile and face all kinds of storms in life, let us bloom our rainbow! Where *