But there is also another ending, that is, finally "resurrected" and returned to the previous situation. And the final outcome of a relationship actually depends on yourself.
Some people are dead and don't want to struggle for nothing; And some people still love each other deeply, but in the wrong way. Every relationship is hard-won, and it is not so easy for a person who has been with you for many years to let go.
When feelings fade, problems arise. In fact, as long as the method is right, we can get back together. But the premise is that you need to know the reasons for the weakening of feelings.
No matter whether there is disagreement or not, in the final analysis, it is because the freshness is gone. Freshness is the preservative of relationships. If it is fresh, then the passion and enthusiasm of this relationship will still be there.
What "seven-year itch" and "old age divorce" are actually because the novelty is no longer. Therefore, no matter whether you are a man or a woman, you should know that when feelings fade, smart people can turn things around and make each other passionate:
Change the mode of getting along
If the feelings are weak, try to change the mode of getting along. The mode of getting along is the key to affect the feelings of two people, some are quiet, some are peaceful, and some are fighting.
Just like Andy and Eva Huang in a recent variety show "Mother-in-law and Daughter-in-law", their mode of getting along is teasing, and they love each other and kill each other.
If your partner has begun to ignore you when getting along with you, it means that your original mode of getting along is out of date.
At this time, you will change your mode of getting along. If you used to be a slapstick type, now you should change into a quiet type, learn to understand each other more and communicate more, instead of just slapping and playing as before.
When the mode of getting along with each other changes, the freshness comes, and the other party gets different feelings. This will make you re-examine each other.
Change your style.
"Aesthetic fatigue" I believe everyone knows that empathy is one of the reasons for the weakening of feelings. Some people move on because they are tired of their other half. For example, they have the same hairstyle and dress style for many years, and even many people will no longer control their weight.
Therefore, when feelings fade, you should learn to change your style and make yourself different.
Can change the popular hairstyle and hair color; You can learn to wear it online; You can start fitness and keep fit. ...
If you are a woman, you can also try to change your makeup. In short, what makes you look more beautiful/handsome, then you have to transform it.