My ex-girlfriend and I are the same age, and we are a typical campus love. After graduation, our parents met and got married, but my ex-girlfriend always carried the car and the house. My home is in the town. Although my home is ok, it is still difficult to buy everything at once. Besides, how can a fresh graduate of mine afford these?
I don't want to depend on my family for everything. After all, my parents are old, even if they are willing to give it to me, they can't bear to have it all! I am relatively independent, which clearly shows my attitude. I say we pay the down payment on the house at home first, pay the mortgage together, and then buy a car when we have savings later. My girlfriend disagreed and broke up.
Two years later, I met my wife at work. She is five years younger than me. We fell in love when I was 27. Although I had no car or house at that time, she still admired me. I feel relaxed, stress-free, and happy with her. We got married soon, now we have a car and a house, and we gave birth to a son last month.
When I met her, I felt very lucky and happy. I think it will be less stressful to find a woman younger than myself, and she has a sense of admiration for you, so that the marriage can last longer and be attractive to each other.
The man is 4-6 years older than the woman. First of all, the man can be as mature and stable as his father, and both sides can resolve many contradictions in life. Moreover, the man can make people feel safe like his brother, and many problems encountered by both sides can be effectively solved. Finally, the man can make people feel close like friends and make the communication between husband and wife closer.
However, love itself is not measured by age. I believe that true love is unconditional. Age is only a reference and must match the psychological age of both men and women. In real life, finding true love and real marriage partner still needs the personality and fate of both men and women.