In 2006, a girl of 18 years old in Henan gave her mother a small amount of poison, and her mother went to see a doctor because she was unwell. During these days when her mother was ill, the girl felt that her home was finally quiet. This quiet day has returned to its original state in a few days. The girl decided to poison again, but this time it completely killed her mother. The girl was sentenced to life imprisonment, and she did well in prison. Later, her sentence was reduced to 18 years and she is still serving her sentence in prison.
When the parents divorced, the mother asked the child to sever the relationship with his father and never spoke to each other again. Lv Hui (pseudonym) was born in 1987. His parents have a decent job, a good income and a very harmonious family. Lv Hui is an only child and her family dotes on her very much.
However, an accident broke up the family. Lv Hui's father was in a coma because of alcoholism at a dinner party. He saved his life under the treatment of the hospital. However, due to long-term treatment, Lv Hui's father lost his job, and then his career was very unsatisfactory. Lv Hui's father is very depressed and often drinks to drown his sorrows. The contradiction between husband and wife is getting more and more serious, and he often quarrels.
1993, at a family gathering, Lv Hui's father accused Lv Hui's mother. Lv Hui's mother felt that she had lost face, which made her lose face in front of her relatives. They quarreled again and finally became hands-on. Lv Hui's mother couldn't bear it any longer and chose a divorce.
After the divorce, Lv Hui lived with her mother. During the divorce, Lv Hui's mother promised that if Lv Hui's father gave up drinking and behaved well, he would remarry two years later.
Lv Hui has always kept this sentence in mind, looking forward to the early arrival of that day. Lv Hui often contacted his father, hoping that he would give up drinking, get back together with his mother and return to his former happiness.
But Lv Hui's mother completely cut off contact with Lv Hui's father, and Lv Hui was not allowed to contact his father.
When her father died, her mother punched her every time she was in a bad mood. Unfortunately, arrival again. At the age of 9, Lv Hui's father died of illness, and her parents' dream of reunion was shattered.
After his father died, Lv Hui's home was almost gone.
Since then, Lv Hui's personality has changed a lot, but her mother doesn't care much about fluff.
Later, Willy's mother married a man, but the marriage didn't last long before she divorced.
In this way, Lv Hui's mother got married twice and divorced twice. For her unfortunate marriage and emotional failure, Lv Hui's mother blamed all the mistakes on Lv Hui, and always scolded Lv Hui, making Lv Hui feel redundant in this family.
Although Lv Hui has been trying to please her mother, she will always be 1 in the class, but her mother is still the same, and nothing has changed.
After Lv Hui entered junior high school, Lv Hui's mother beat and scolded Lv Hui whenever she didn't listen to her mother, and even the rolling pin in the kitchen was interrupted.
After the second divorce, my mother brought five boyfriends home a year, and so year after year passed. Lv Hui's mother got married again, but it wasn't long before her mother divorced again.
After the divorce, my mother began to make frequent boyfriends, and every time she made a boyfriend, she took her boyfriend home. Within a year, five different men came to this family.
Lv Hui is very sad. She doesn't feel the warmth of her family and hates her mother's behavior, so she really wants to get rid of her mother.
After going to college, Lv Hui felt that she could finally get rid of her mother. At a party, she also met Chen, who is six years older than herself, and they became boyfriend and girlfriend. However, I didn't expect Lv Hui's mother to know that she was very dissatisfied and asked Lv Hui to break up. She felt that the Chen family was ordinary and unworthy of her daughter.
I ignored my mother's request and didn't comply this time. I moved in with Xiao Chen, too. Lv Hui's mother was very angry when she found out and tried to break them up in various ways.
Lv Hui was so desperate that she didn't know why her mother had to do this to herself since she was a child. In a rage, Lv Hui swallowed all the pills in the drawer at home. Mother found the fluff in time and sent it to the hospital, which saved Lv Hui's life.
Lv Hui's mother also went to Lv Hui's boyfriend's house to insult her and demanded that Lv Hui's boyfriend claim 654.38+10,000 yuan.
Lv Hui was so desperate for his mother that he bought rat poison. Lv Hui put a small amount of rat poison on chopsticks, and his mother later developed vomiting and other symptoms. Lv Hui sent his mother to his home for treatment. These days are the most peaceful days in Lv Hui's life. After Lv Hui's mother recovered, her life returned to its original state, so Lv Hui planned to poison her again.
The influence of family background on children's killing their mothers is definitely wrong, and Lv Hui has accepted legal sanctions. For every reason, Lv Hui finally embarked on a road of no return, that is, in this loveless environment for a long time, her mother beat and scolded, and her mother kept getting married, divorced and looking for a boyfriend.
The family environment makes Lv Hui's personality and psychology unsound, losing his sense of security, and also makes Lv Hui's heart full of shadows and despair. I lost my father and half my home, but I didn't get the warmth I deserved from the other half.
Divorce is a normal thing, but for children, it may be equivalent to the sky falling.
The attitude of parents after divorce is very important to their children. If they handle it well, children can grow up healthily. If they don't handle it well, not all the faults are attributed to the children, which will make the children's personality become withdrawn and extreme.
When it comes to Origin and Fate, everyone has to reflect on what it is, whether it is warmth, or whether the long-hidden scars are uncovered, sadness or even hatred.
Being born in a family will affect children's criminal tendency and crime rate. Those unfortunate families are mostly due to parents' crimes, domestic violence, chaotic private life, beating and scolding children, etc.
Social research shows that children who come out of these unhappy families have much higher criminal tendencies and crime rates than those who have happy families.
Being born in a family should be the guardian of the child's mind, and the pain brought to the child by being born in a family. Many people don't have the courage to get rid of this situation even when they are adults. Even if they try their best to escape, they are finally controlled by their families, and this kind of harm goes hand in hand.
Watson, an American psychologist, said, "Give me a bunch of children, and I can train them into lawyers, doctors, thieves and beggars ..."
This also shows the importance of parents to their children. Parents are children's first teachers, and they influence every aspect of their lives.
In a harmonious and friendly family environment, children can grow up and shape a sound personality. On the road of their growth, children will shape strong psychological quality and cultivate their ability to handle anything correctly.
Happy people use their childhood to cure their whole lives, while unfortunate people use their whole lives to cure their childhood. Every child can't choose his parents. I hope every parent can give their child enough warmth, let him have a healthy and happy childhood, and let these happiness cure her life.