We should have the courage to accept the reality and not deceive ourselves. Everyone will encounter many difficulties in life, especially at work. If your solution is to escape and escape from reality easily, then difficulties will come to you again and again. If you choose to defend yourself, use it to cover up your responsibility, narrowness and ignorance, and ignore the harm to others, you are not only deceiving yourself, but also deceiving others. In the long run, you won't be trusted by others and you will be isolated in the workplace. Psychologists believe that in the face of reality, each of us will deceive ourselves more or less. We are always unwilling or afraid to accept the reality, exaggerate our positive side, narrow our negative side, and cover up our mistakes and weaknesses with another lie.
If you escape from reality and deceive yourself for a long time, you will fall into a false sense of self-security. You can't know and reflect on yourself by sticking to and repeating the old model. You can't correct your shortcomings, change your disadvantages, improve your literacy and ability, and at the same time, you can't get the recognition and promotion of your leaders and win the trust and support of your colleagues. Over time, we will be knocked down by reality, and a series of negative effects will appear: colleagues will be bored because of timidity, leaders will be disappointed because of foolhardiness, and career life will be cut off from the team because of self-deception. A famous psychologist pointed to the fragments of a coffee cup and said, "You must feel sorry for this cup, but this regret can't make it look the same again." If something irreversible happens in your future life, please remember this broken coffee cup and constantly remind yourself to accept the established reality. "
Therefore, although life is sometimes cruel, as long as we can face reality rationally and solve problems bravely, sometimes it is not so terrible.