At the same time, accelerate the blood circulation system and improve basal metabolism. We take care of the children ourselves. According to nursing and daily communication, it takes about 4 months for children to gradually remember their mother's smell, recognize their mother's voice, and gradually establish an emotional attachment relationship with their mother. At this time, his mother is his most important emotional attachment.
A child's mind is different from an adult's world. In the child's mind, the mother's departure means that the most beloved person in the world has left him! And children's concept of time is not defined. In children's minds, once they leave, it means that they will never see each other again. So the pain in my heart is obvious! Don't take the child's sobs too seriously. Children must gradually leave their mothers in the whole process, so that their vision and pace will gradually increase. This link is gradual, and children must have a whole process of application. At this time, it is normal for children to cry, and it is not easy to cause any psychological harm.
Take your children to bed, tell them stories and listen to children's songs before going to bed. Touch them and have eye contact and physical communication with them; I can see my mother before going to bed, and I can see my mother when I wake up. Mother kisses the children before going to work and gives them a hug after work, so that they can feel their mother's love for you. To be fully prepared, you can read more articles, books or courses on parenting education, grasp the growth law of children in each period, and understand how to do the least harm to children. There may be a better way to take care of the needs of children and mothers.
People choose different things. Some people choose to take care of their children. Some also choose parents to take care of their children. Parents bring up children who are used to eating, drinking and drinking. Cultural education is not as good as itself. If you want to educate your children well in the future, it is more appropriate to bring your own. When an 8-month-old child must have a sense of belonging, leaving at this time will undoubtedly damage the child's sense of belonging, and the child will cry as soon as he sees you. It is very likely that your current depression has hurt him.