It is often said that parents are the best teachers for children, which is a fact. Indeed, parents' words and deeds will exert a subtle influence on their children.
How do family members communicate, how to form some rules, how to implement these rules, and form a family interaction. For example, a strong mother, a weak father and a son, this family generally interacts in this way. Mother is critical of everything and will find fault with father and son. If the mother doesn't care so much about her son, then his son will feel depressed at home. When a child is young, he may not know why his mother is angry. He may feel unlovable, redundant and angry with his mother. When he grows up, he may know that his mother doesn't care about himself, or he will be withdrawn and unwilling to associate with others, or he will make trouble everywhere and appear aggressive. In fact, it was caused by a lack of security when I was a child.
In real life, it is normal for couples to have emotional problems. In this case, what is the biggest harm to children? Whether to use children as punching bags or use children as weapons to hurt each other. Even after divorce, if you continue to use your child as a weapon to blackmail the other party, it will do great harm to your child. When marriage is in crisis, don't hurt innocent children. Let children know that it is an adult's business, not because of children. Mom and dad love children very much. All actions should minimize the harm to children.
Therefore, a harmonious family environment is very important for the healthy growth of children.