What is the definition of confidant?

There are no secrets between bosom friends, because they are as transparent as each other, and you can know what the other person wants with one action and one look. A confidant can say the same sentence with himself at the same time, even with the same number of words; A bosom friend can share weal and woe with himself, but he doesn't ask for anything in return or sharing. Everything is based on each other's health and happiness. Only bosom friends will tell themselves that their problems, whether physical or psychological, will not be shy or pornographic; The scope of same-sex confidants is between family members and brothers with different surnames, which is deeper than swearing; The opposite sex confidant is usually called the' third feeling', which is between friendship and love, but far beyond the scope of friendship and love; Friends for many years may not become bosom friends; To be a bosom friend, you don't have to have many emotional foundations, one is enough; But we must have the same hobbies, the same language, and more topics and confidences than lovers. The important thing is that we must be able to tolerate, tolerate and understand each other beyond usual. If you want to know who is your confidant, it may not be completely accurate to give you three references, but I think it is not unreasonable: first, the same sex (provided that you are good friends, but I don't know if you are your confidant): if others often say' You are really water and fire' or' Compared with the friends around you, it seems that your relationship is really iron' and so on. It is clear to the beholder that others see that this relationship is unusual. If not a confidant, what is it? Second, the opposite sex: (it must not be a lover) I only know that I often play with her or keep in touch with her. When we go shopping together or go to each other's home, people will ask' Are you in love' and so on. Third, the same difference applies: there are only two: 1, when you don't tell others where you are, only a confidant can find you'; When you don't hint at what you want to say, only a confidant knows what you want to say. How to become a bosom friend depends on LZ's own judgment. First of all, you should see that this demographic trend is not tight. If you have a big mouth, such people can't make friends and can only be ordinary friends.