Not long ago, there was news that freshmen committed suicide, which later caused waves among parents. Why did the son of heaven, who just started school, end his precious life? Just for an unsolvable mathematical analysis problem? It's really not worth it.
Each of us came to this world by accident, which is also very rare, so it is good to be safe, healthy and happy. Imagine that everything we are doing now is ultimately for peace, health and happiness. What else is there? Therefore, compared with precious life, whether you can do the problem, whether you can get high marks in the exam or not, and whether you can get into a prestigious school are all secondary. How can you commit suicide for a problem?
Life is not just about going to school, going to school is not just about doing homework, and doing homework is not just about getting high marks ... If a person's whole goal is to be able to do problems, get high marks and get into a prestigious school, it can only be said that life is of little significance. Being able to do problems, get high marks and get into famous schools is just a phased goal of one's life.
For parents, what they want is a safe, healthy and happy child, whether he can do his homework or get high marks, as long as he is safe, healthy and happy; Whether he is clever or clumsy, whether he is calm or reckless, as long as he is safe, healthy and happy; Whether he likes literature and sports, whether at home or outside, as long as he is safe, healthy and happy. ...
In the final analysis, children's peace, health and happiness are the most basic and highest wishes of parents all over the world.
But now, parents, schools and society are paying attention to their achievements and chasing famous schools; Then there is a good job and a high salary; Then buy a house, buy a car ... Who will pay attention to the personal safety of children? Is the child physically and mentally healthy? Is the child's life happy?
Conversely, what do you think is more important than peace, health and happiness for parents who used to be children?
I have experienced a lot of life, and I am used to seeing joys and sorrows before I understand this truth. I sincerely hope to remind young parents that children's peace, health and happiness are the bottom line of life and of course the highest pursuit on the road of life. In the final analysis, peace, health and happiness are the greatest happiness in life.