First, everyone just learned that the contact number will be obtained soon, but he didn't call.
In most cases, men take the initiative to ask you for electricity, which is a hobby for you (except a few gay men who bet). But why is he a little interested in hobbies, but he doesn't call back and talk elegantly? Because men are worried about losing and being rejected, they are slightly insecure and shy. He observed it quietly for a period of time in order to gain the initiative for himself better. So, there is no need to worry. Just play it by ear.
Second, we are in close contact and feel good, but he suddenly lost contact with you.
Close contact is only to concentrate fire to master you, give you a sense of rhythm of habitual gathering, and prepare for the sudden evacuation later.
So you can wonder why everyone is in harmony and gradually master each other, which is good, but why can't he see it? He is interested in checking your reaction. He is in close contact with you, and you have long been used to it. At this moment, his sudden withdrawal is exposing your mentality. In other words, expose the shadow of this connection. See if you gave it to him. If you are worried, bored and out of control, it is equivalent to telling him that you can be manipulated by him.
Now the power switch of your mentality is in his hand, but in fact he didn't give you too much investment, so you are willing to give in easily. If you are seen through by him, that is the beginning of his boredom. He will think you are so deep. Your sensitivity and shallowness can be seen through at a glance. Therefore, it is not easy for him not to give you too much.
Thirdly, we spent some time together, including contact and travel, and suddenly he stopped contact without warning.
Generally speaking, in most cases, this is because after spending some time with friends of the opposite sex, he realized that he had come to the atmosphere of marriage.
Men are all yellow. Close to a period of time, you will want to end it. If you want your own indoor space. Everything is normal. You don't have to worry. If you have been more and more brave to resist him at this time, or make a hullabaloo about drinking milk, then he will definitely become the seed team of the credit blacklist in his heart because he is tired of your childishness and emotional instability. In this case, you just need to be yourself.
What you need to be wary of is that it is the best observation stage because everyone is still in the initial stage of contact and getting along. Everyone's mutual trust is still being gradually built, and his fading is a data signal. Be wary of your contact with him in the future and pay attention quietly. Is he really the single young man he often says? Does he have children and a vicious wife or girlfriend? And they also have regular or regular exchange links for fried rice with eggs? Will his decline be due to his love of watching netizens' theme activities and flying to another big city to shoot island action movies with netizens?
This is all you have to care about.
Remember, don't question him with words, but observe him silently, and then be sure to follow your own observation. If you want to go out, he will say, "You are so suspicious! How can I get along with you if you don't trust me so much? You think too much! You are the man! Not a person like me! "
_ _'s new clothes for the king, have you seen grandma wolf? When grandma wolf pointed to her throat and said to you, "That's my grandma." At the moment you open and close the door, it will "ahhh" eat you into your stomach.
So, trust your own judgment. Instead of believing what he said.
Fourth, everyone is closely related, even the development trend is very close, but he disappeared after the next day.
Marriage is very important here, which means making out.
Disappearing the next day is a normal reflection of all men. In general, if you have been dating for 3-6 months and let this man give you unremitting investment. That _, the development trend to this step, is reasonable, but also physical and mental health. However, it seems that everything is fine. Why does it fade away?
This is because, on the one hand, it exists objectively, that is, a man is worried that marriage will make him indulge himself. Therefore, after slapping you, he must get along with others for a period of time and repair his consciousness and rational thinking ability.
The second and most important reason is that men expect to see if you will be defeated by him (because you have invested in him for so many years, he finally got what he wanted, and now he wants to boss you around. There is a feeling that farmers have turned over landlords).
He takes a step back, treats you coldly, and chooses the way of disappearing to see if you will stamp your feet angrily! He hesitated about your reaction in the distance to infer how long the contact between you two can last. If you keep looking for him so anxiously, he will see through your weakness and boredom. In the future, I will gradually plan how to leave you, and you will not see his thoughts until the moment when he clearly proposes to break up.
Generally speaking, it is normal for men to fade for 7- 10 days. There's no need to worry.
What you need to do is not to be stunned by the phone, and not to collect the latest news about him from \/letter, QQ space, Renren's webpage, Sina Weibo information and other aspects. He will not expose him by pretending to be another woman according to text messages and messages (he will undoubtedly guess that it is you and then lose his appetite for you). All you have to do these days is concentrate. Do what you love, except contact him actively. The most important thing you should do is to wait for his reply quietly. Everyone has a good relationship and has established a good relationship. At this moment, it is up to him to make your service promise and take your own actions to further develop the trend of our relationship until you get married.