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There are two different lifestyles in the world: the poor and the rich, and the most obvious manifestation of these two different lifestyles is the amount of wealth. But no matter how much money you have, please remember:
Diligence and thrift are our traditional virtues, and thrift must start from bit by bit, so that every little makes a mickle. One day, a small drop of water will slowly merge into the sea of Wang Yang.
Health is more important than anything else. Health is the capital of revolution. If you protect your health, you will naturally protect your life. Your body is getting better and better, and you get more nutrition and care, so you can get more valuable wealth.
Learning is the best investment plan in your life. By constantly learning new knowledge and consolidating old knowledge, your mind will become smarter, your self-confidence will be improved, your vision will be broadened and your thinking will be broadened.
A friend is a right-hand man for a successful career. It's a trivial matter to treat a friend who is helpful to you with a small salary, but it's also a way to accumulate wealth. This will expand your social circle and be more conducive to your salary increase and career success.
With this idea, you can gradually realize your dream and have everything you need. Life can be designed, life can be planned and happiness can be prepared.
When you are poor, stay at home less and stay outside more; If you have money, stay at home more and stay outside less. This is the art of living. When you are poor, you should contribute yourself and let others use it as much as possible; If you have money, you should collect yourself well and don't let others use it casually. Be generous when you are poor and don't show off when you are rich.
Know how to save, cherish and cultivate yourself ... this is the greatest happiness in life!
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No matter what setbacks you face, you will not fall into sadness, but live with the attitude of enjoying life, free yourself from wit, be kind to yourself, liberate yourself, turn bitterness into joy, seek from bitterness, stay happy, and spend it with a chic mood.
First of all, grasp the foundation and grasp the life. Everyone wants to live a happy life, but external worries and misfortunes often trap people's hearts inside. But we should turn pain into happiness based on happiness.
Secondly, the character is aboveboard, fearless and has no regrets. "An upright person is open and poised, and little people are always close." Although people can't grasp external gains and losses, they can pursue internal transcendence and personality success. "A little respect, a thousand miles fast" means that people know that they will enjoy endless happiness under any circumstances if they feel respect. The gains and losses outside the body are all said to be fate, but they all seem to be negative. In fact, it shows an open mind. After I do my best, I have a clear conscience regardless of gains and losses. Self-confidence in character makes it particularly strong when encountering setbacks. Tao Zhu's poem "Looking back on your life, you have no regrets, and your heart is selfless and broad."
Third, understand philosophy and life. Life is like a river. Although it is gone forever, the river has not disappeared. Life is like the moon. Although it is constantly round, it does not increase or decrease. This road gives people endless changes and constant perspectives.
Fourth, don't be afraid of difficulties, be proud and be bumpy. "Who's afraid! A misty rain in his life "sees through the worries and goes with the flow, making him comfortable in the predicament." "
Fifth, skillfully resolve and advance and retreat freely. In the predicament, we should actively seek spiritual liberation.
Sixth, look for happiness and be good at enjoying it. You shouldn't be sad when you are in trouble. We should skillfully use our own specialties to find happiness and add some fun to the bumpy life.
Seventh, send love to the mountains and rivers and let go of your body and mind. Love the natural scenery and get rid of the sorrow in the mountains and rivers.
Eighth, fall in love with art and relieve pain. People who are also suffering and have artistic hobbies are often easier to resolve than ordinary people. Because art is closest to people's hearts, artistic creation is actually a process of venting pain. At the same time, art also shows the other side of life, from which people can gain their sustenance for life.
Finally, everyone has his own true colors. Only by knowing yourself, choosing yourself and attaching importance to yourself can we play comfortably. If you can't be a towering tree, be a shrub; If you can't be a bush, be a grass! Just remember, I am me, not others. As long as you keep your true colors, life will become colorful.
Since a person came into this world, there is no reason not to be happy. Even in the face of adversity, it is very bumpy. As long as you broaden your horizons, there will still be countless happiness. In life, everyone may encounter failures, setbacks, blows, misunderstandings, difficulties and other difficulties. Only by being kind to yourself, enjoying life, having fun and liberating yourself can you become a happy and fulfilling person.
philosophy
First, take the initiative to find and pursue with heart, in order to get happiness. Happiness is not easy to get. It is neither a gift nor a right; You have to take the initiative to find it, and you have to work hard to get it.
Second, constantly expand the field of life and try new things. When you are willing to try new activities and accept new challenges, you will be surprised to find new dimensions of life. At the same time, you can give full play to your potential and get a good chance of happiness.
Third, we should know that there is not only one answer to everything in the world, and we should be good at putting ourselves in others' shoes. Take a flexible attitude towards things, don't be stubborn, and remember that there is not necessarily only one best thing. There are always two sides to one thing. Can't stick to a principle. If you are open-minded, you will be happy naturally.
Fourth, be flexible. Whether in good times or bad times, our attitude towards life should be calm. If you make a mistake, correct it immediately.
5. Only compare with yourself, and don't compare with others. As the saying goes, goods are better than goods, and people are better than people, which is also one of the factors that cause unhappiness. As we know, the comparison of material is followed by the competition of power, and behind the competition of power is money and the transaction of power and money. This kind of comparison is harmful to some extent, eroding the souls of many people in power. Comparison between people often leads to disharmony between people and imbalance of mentality. If I go my own way and don't compare with others, happiness will accompany me.
Life must be honest and full of justice in order to attract good friends to help you. Badas, a famous psychologist, was once asked: "What is the most basic and deepest psychological need of human beings today?" She replied, "Humans need love." But this is not limited to the love between men and women. From the point of view of psychologists, good people are always happy. Having friends is the greatest happiness.
Seven, care about people and things around you, and help others enthusiastically. If you want real happiness and respect, you should help others and get along well with others.
8. Slow down the pace of life and be good at controlling time and space. Make a list of all the things you have done and see what can be deleted, so that you can make some free time and relax. Leisure is also like a luxury, which can make you feel satisfied and happy.
Nine, it can be thicker. No one is perfect. You must admit your weakness and be willing to accept suggestions, help and advice from others. As long as you dare to admit that you need help, success is inevitable. According to experts' investigation and study, one of the characteristics that makes people feel satisfied is that they don't care too much about other people's criticism, in other words, they are thick-skinned. Don't give in to foreign countercurrent. Don't be sad and angry because others are indifferent, thinking that you have been greatly hurt. But you should reflect calmly. If other people's criticism is correct, you should improve it. If the criticism is unfair, why not laugh it off? The taste of happiness is like drinking water, which varies from person to person. What can make others happy may not make you happy. Only you know how to pursue happiness.
+,happiness will last forever. As long as you always keep a happy mood, happiness is hard to give up on you. A positive attitude towards life can make life colorful and realize the meaning of life. Decadent people are unhappy.